Hey, I'm Cara. I'll do my best to give advice to jsut about anyone. Pretty good school and street smarts so I can help with a wide variety of problems. Feel free to ask me a question any time. I'm totally a people person and I love to give advice about anything! I am extremely open minded and I don't judge anybody. Hope to hear from you soon! :)
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what are some good creams for your bikini area that will leave it smooth and no red bumps?
thankz
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Deliapatory creams often smell bad but nair, veet, and sally hanson make a variety of different kinds, scents, for different types of skin. Just make sure to read the directions on the back of the box or bottle.
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Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
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If your best friend was really our best friend he wouldn't hate you for going out with his sister. If you want, you could always talk to your best friend to see how he feels about everything. I once went out with my best friends step brother and it didn't change the relationship between me and my best friend, even after I broke up with her stepbrother. Then, tell the girl you like how you feel, theres a big chance she feels the same way. Good luck!
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ok well my boyfriends birthday is coming up like really soon but i have no idea what to get him.
guys are so hard to buy for and i need help plz! lol (link)
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Guys are and always will be hard to shop for haha. Pac Sun has some cool stuff for guys like watches and wallets at good prices and stuff.When me and my boyfriend (now ex) were going out, I got him an iTunes gift card. You could also make him a mix CD of songs he likes. You could take him somewhere sweet like dinner and a movie or something more athletic like a game of football at the park. It all depends on what your guy likes.
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My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice? (link)
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Talk to your friend to see how she feels about it and/or confront this boyfriend directly. Tell him that what he is doing only makes his girlfriend think cutting and/or not eating is a good solution. I hope everything goes well.
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what are some good ways to good tan fairly quickly? (link)
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The quickest and healthiest way to tan is by using a self tanner. Some tan you gradually (Jergens Natural Glow, Neutrogena Build a tan, etc) and other will tan you instantly. Just make sure to exfoiliate before applying self tanner to help avoid rough patches and blotchy spots. For reviews on makeup products (including self tanners) try makeupalley.com
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Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =] (link)
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You should definately confront the guy. Either he likes you but is scared that you don't like him so he pretends not to like you, or this guy is a total jerk totally not workth your time. Either way, its best to get the information stragith from the source, so talk to this guy to see where your at. Good luck! :)
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Okay, My name is Stephanie and my Boyfriends name is Anthony!! I really want to stay with him he is a real sweety but every one makes funn of me for going out with him!! What should i do brake up with him??
Will rate!!!
Please help!!!
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If you really like him it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks. What is more important: your "reputation" or your happiness? The bottom line is simple : If you like him, stay with him, if you don't like him, break up with him. But don't break up with a guy if you still like him but your worrie dabout your reputation.
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where can i get fake coach bags? because i dont want to buy the real ones cause they cost alot.. anyone know anywhere where i can get these? (link)
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A lot of stores in large cities will have a lot of fake purses. Limited Too has coach bags but instead of a C its a G but its so discreet you can barely tell they are fake. ometimes stands at big outdoor malls will have them and Im sure that there are some to be foundonline or on e-bay or something. Good luck and Happy Shopping!
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omg, i was at my friends party, and it was a dance and she goes to a different skool than me now and she has a whole bunch of other friends frum skool now. At the party their was a few guys i danced with. One of them i REALLY liked, and every1 else thot he liked me 2, and he sed he wanted 2 dance with me. After the party, i thot i'd never see him again and i really wnated 2 so i added him on my msn list. All i sed 2 him on msn was hey, and did you like the party and he responded. There was absolutely NOTHING 2 talk about, and now hes gonna not like my personality and think im boring or sumthing.He's a really fun guy, and there's tons of other pretty more fun girls in his class.I have a HUMONGOUS crush on him. I'm really shy with guys i have a crush on and i dont know what to say. Can you please help me on what 2 say??!!
P.S. some things about him are he's funny, pretty loud, nice, and sometimes hyper i geuss... and please don't say just be urslef only if u REALLY mean it. (link)
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Just try to start a comversation, a casual conversation. You can im him and be like "Hey, the party was really fun" or "You are a great dancer!" or something like "Chillin at th eparty with you was fun, maybe we could chill again sometime" Just be casual and don't make him feel pressrued. Just make the whole situation relaxed. If he senses that your not nervous or anything, he will feel more at ease. If you run out of things to talk about while imigng him just ask him questions like "Do you like school?""What do you do on the weekends" or things like that. He'll like that you want to really get to know him. Good luck and feel free to ask me any more questions antyime!
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i have like little little spots, like i dont know what it is, it doesnt hurt but it looks like acne, and its not red. so what is this and how do i get rid of it? and one more question: do biore products work on acne? if so, what are some products that work REALLY REALLY well and gets rid of most acne? thanks so much and ill rate 5's (link)
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The little spots could be acne marks or black/white heads depending on color. Boiore works nicely but I prefer neutrogena because it is dermotologist recommended. For reviews on just about every beauty product out there from all different types of people I found that the website www.makeupalley.com was really helpful.
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ok well i have a band myspace and im not a band or singer i accidentaly turned it into a band myspace but i dont like it i would really like to have a regular myspace again is that possible?
please help im dying here
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You might have to delete it even though you don't want to. Or you could message the people at myspace.com or something like that. If you have to delete it, just amke a new one and send out messages telling everybody this is your new account and stuff. Hope everything works out great :)
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okay this may be kinda confusing, but bear with me, thanks! okay i was wondering when your tanning, is it the amount of sun that hits you that gets you darker or is it how strong the sun is? because yesterday when i was tanning, i thought that how strong the sun hits you would make you darker cause i could like feel like on me.. if you know what i mean? so anyone know? and thanks, ill rate 5's if you helped! (link)
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There are many factors that make you darker when you tan. The length of time you are out in the sun but mostly the strength of the UVA and UVB rays from the sun. But of course there is going to have to be a good amount of sun out to get a dark tan. Just remember, even a low SPF will protect you from some harmful rays and you'll still tahn. You don't want to risk getting skin cancer or premature again now do you? haha.
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okay so here's the deal. I'm 16/f and my best friend is a guy. He's attractive but i've never really like thought about doing anything sexual with him. He used to date one of my other friends, and now he's asking me to do stuff with him. I'm sure if I should. I'd feel bad because of my friend, but I want to at the same time because I haven't been with anyone in along time. Considering i've only been with 2 other guys. What should I do? Am i bad person for even considering it? (link)
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Of course your not a bad person for considering it but don't ever do sexual things with somebody because you feel bad or embarrased by saying no. If he is truly your friend and you say no, he should respect it. Don't ever let anybody manipulate you into a situation that you are not comfortable with.
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Is rubbing some Baby Oil (Johnson's) into your hair good or bad for you? Thanks in advance. (link)
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If your hair is extremely dry or brittle it might work but make sure not to use to much or else your hair might appear very greasy.
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okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?
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Its totally normal to not have a boyfriend at 15. I have tons of 15 and 16 year old friends who have never had a boyfriend. There hsouldn't be a need to rush out and get one unless you feel its right. You'll know when the right one comes around. Just listen to your heart and be yourself. I'm sure that any guy would be lucky to have you.
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Hey today I asked my husband to fix me 2 pop-tarts you'd think all the work involved was poppin em' in the toaster but no he puts butter on the back of them. Have yall ever heard of this? 5's for all thoughts. (link)
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Haha, I've never heard of it but it makes sense, since the pop tart is made out of a pastry type dough. It sounds pretty delicious.
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hey everyone... well ok i have a poblem with keeping up in school.. see the thing is that i forget what we learned in class so when it comes to doing homework i get stuck and end up running to the tv. you see i have a slighet attention problem like ADD and i end up staying late at night at like 12 doing homework!!! so wht shoud i do to prevent this when i go to 10th grade! (link)
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I am the same age and have the same problem. A good organizational system helps but its probably best to rule out ADD or ADHD. I know its hard but try not to watch tv while doing homework. Maybe set up a reward system if you complete all your homewokr sufficiently. Like, for every successful class assignment you finish, you can watch a tv program or something.
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yesterday at my basketball game, i twisted my ankle & couldn't play. it's swollen & a bit bruised, but i can limp. i can't put all my weight on it. my mom is going to go get me a wrap for it but i'm not quite sure which one. are there ace bandages that wrap around your whole ankle & the bottom of your foot?? it's like i can barely walk. any ideas??
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I'm sorry that you hurt your ankle and I hope it feels better. Deifnately ice it and keep it elevated and put as little weight on it as you can. Now, instead of just bandages, Ace makes handy little braces that are amazing. They go around your ankle, the bottom of about ahlf your foot, and a little above the ankle. They come in small, medium, large, and maybe x-tra large, but make sure to get the right size so it fits snuggly. If this doesn't help or the ankle continues to swell or pressure and pain increases, go to the doctor immediately to make sure you didn't break a bone or hurt a muscle severely. Feel Better!
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How do you use mousse?
I know you're probably thinking I'm the dumbest person on the face of the earth but seriously. I have no idea. I just bought it the other day, and I got the shampoo that matches it. Its Herbal Essences Dangerously straight- Pin Straight Mousse. The bottle says: shake me. foam me. work me through wet hair. blow-dry small sections with a "finger" diffuser and low hair dryer heat. hands off though.
So, can you help me out here. I'll rate high.
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Make sure your hair is wet and then press the top of the dispenser and a white foam will come out. Don't use too much or your hair might feel hard or sticky but if you do use too much, you can try to brush or comb the excess out. Finger it through your hair and then blow dry it in small sections and carefully so your hair keeps its new found shape longer. Then try not to touch your hair because the oils on your fingers may decrease the time your style holds.
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is it true that if you wax all the time that eventually your hair will stop growing? (link)
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No, thats not true at all although it is a common misconception. To stop hair from growing completely you can try laser hair removal although it is about 100 dollars a session and usually takes 3-6 sessions and might be painful for sensitive skin.
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