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Im going to explain my history with acne. It began when I was 10 or 11 and all the way up to 15 it was pretty bad. It wasnt the kind that was clustered and left craters, but they were scattered across my face. I got pregnant at 15, and for the first half of my pregnancy my face became worse, then BAM it cleared up. Maybe only having 1 or 2 pimples at a time. It has remained that way since.
The past few months, Ive been starting to get my acne back, and my face has been really oily. I have about 6 pimples right now (not THAT bad, i know). Its not as bad as it used to be but I miss my clear face :( I am a little stressed but who isnt haha. My diet, my lifestyle..etc has not changed at all. Ive been using clean and clear, the 3 piece kit, twice a day. Proactiv never worked for me.
Basically, two questions:
Why did my acne all of a sudden change to break outs and being oily?
What products should I use now that my skin has changed? For breakouts, oiliness, plus I get marks really easily.
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try diane 35 its contraceptive pill it works for ppl with acne you can get iton prescription ur gp wil know
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so, my friend is going through a really hard time, she tried to commit suicide, and she's getting really depressed. her mom doesn't pay any attention to her.. she used to be the peppy sunshiny person, now she just puts on a mask... I know what it's like I used to be the same way.... I keep telling her to talk to people, then I suggested for her to change up her normal life and listen to some songs she never would consider (my kind of music) and i'm just wondering... what else can i do for her? (link)
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just be there.maybe go for nature walks
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so i go to ventures (level above scouts) with this guy, hes younger than me im in year 10 and he is in year 9... not that, that bothers me , he towers over me. But hes so shy, everyone seems to think he likes me, but im not sure, i think its because im the only one he actually talks to. but i like him. So were going on camp soon and im not sure if i should make a move, what should i do.
i have had bf's befor so im not totally clueless but this guy is different .. hes shy and i know ill have to make the first move ... suggestions??? (link)
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since hes shy talk to him when noone else is around.ask questions so he open up
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I have been friends with a guy for a long time. All of a sudden i find out people think we have dated before because we "act like a couple".I tried to straighten things out by talking to them while he was there. Except he said we had dated before joking around. I was obviously mad at him for lying. He saw me later that day put his arm around me. When he was leaving he said he loved me and asked if i wanted to make out? I think he was joking but im still confused? I have no idea what to do. He jokes around a lot so i dont want to be thinking the wrong things. Should i just give it some time and see what happens?
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i think hes confused to and you need to set clear boundries.
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i took THREE home pregnancy tests (two yesterday and one this morning) and all three said positive. after i took my tests though, i started spotting. it's really light (definitely not like a period) i was supposed to get my period last week. it seems like i only bleed when i discharge. anyways, i just wanted to know if that was normal and how long its supposed to last. i've never also, what's the next step after finding out that i;m pregnant? thank you all. (link)
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go to your gp,docto,talk with them to see how far along you are and your options.speak with a close family member for support
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I'm feeling extremely miserable and empty, mainly due to the absence of someone in my life (they no longer go where I go), how to stop this and make myself feel better? (link)
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make a gratitude list helps
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i need ideas of songs to do for the talent show, any ideas?
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check out Amputee Acrobat by Side Kick Nick.Awesum song gd beat for dancing
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my boyfriend of one year and I had a very close family oriented relationship, if we werent hanging out at my house, we were at his house. the only bad thing is, that even though he's 21, his mother is always in his business. The other day, we started drinking alcohol at his house, and his mom flipped out because she thought he was driving drunk, which he wasnt. and being drunk already, there was no filter to what was coming out of my mouth. he took me home (he was sober, i wasnt) & his mom followed us to my house, and once she was here, she started telling my mom how irresponsible we are, and that he's an alcoholic, which is not true at all, and me of course being drunk, started telling her to get the f*** out of my house, i called her a bitch and yelled at her. When i finally sobered up and realized what i had done, i realized i commited the biggest mistake ever. i need to find a way to mend things with his mom... i already apologized to her but she says her heart and eyes are closed off to me forever. PLEASE, i need help!! i'm not even allowed over his house anymore, and i miss his family :/ (link)
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let things be and give his mum sum space for some time.
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Okay, so I am a 14 year old girl and have one main problem, I over eat and pick at food. I can't find the self will to tell myself to stop eating and that I have had enough, even when i everyday weigh myself in the morning. Every time I have some sort of food that I know I shouldn't I feel so disappointed with myself and then guilty. After a while i tend to feel depressed as well. My parents make me healthy meals and encourage me a lot, but its when i have to help myself that i fail.I really want to lose some weight as well and this problem just isnt helping ( to say the least) please can someone help me? (link)
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exersizing helps are you bored?i wldnt limit yourself to any food. cut down your portion so you get used to eating less and needing less. listen to what your body needs.you could try oa overeating anonomous.
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Okay so I talk to this guy a lot and we always want to hook up with each other. Most of the time he will text me asking to have sex and we will talk dirty. I love it and sometimes I'll text him saying how badly I want sex and I want to suck his...anyway but when good time comes I always get nervous and make an excuse saying I can't.I later wish I wasnt such chicken. How can I stop getting so nervous and finally just do it?! (link)
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stop saying things in text u wldnt say in person cause you set urself up.everyone gets horny just hold back till ur ready.
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Ok. I'm the only 7th grader in my art class. And I got into art because I have imagination. But now I have artists block. Not fun. So I was wondering what you guys think I should draw? (link)
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just persist usually afta block the best is to come if you persist.what about flowers in light and shadow or ferns.sumthg u luv maybe.
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Sorry i wrote emo at the top but pretty much every time i get mad and don't know where to put my anger i will slice my wrist and cut off chunks of skin until i bleed. Now i already did this question but you probably couldn't understand it because i was in a rush but now i will explain. So yesterday i was at this carnival and i wore quarter sleeves because it was really hot and my mom wouldn't let me wear long sleeves and i didn't have any bracelets to put on over the cuts so i just left it and hoped no one saw it. So my dad saw it and started asking questions i told him that i fell and then ran away. And now him and my mom are asking me questions and they want to put me in a place where i will get help but i dont want to tell people how i feel! its how i feel i dont want to change it! so pretty much i just need help explaining my self to all of the people asking questions! thank you anwser A.S.A.P! (link)
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mum and dad love you and their afraid.go for a break! they want to help you.ive been there at 13 was ok youl hav others to talk to.
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hey guys ...i am 19yrs old girl.i am worried about my future.my cousin brother forced me to have sex when i was 8-9years old.if i dnt do so he use to beat me.he have sex with me 2-3 times but i didnt bleed.he use to lick n play with my pussy until i get menstruation(on 11).now i am worried if my bf got to know m not virgin..i dnt want him to knw since that was not my fault..help me out.do u think my bf will knw??
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he wont know. dont let this pric get away with it report it he dangerous and if he was accountable it could mean one less victim.
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I'm 13/f.Me and my current ex boyfriend decided to break up.But we promised we'd try and move on,and if we couldn't,we'd get back together.Now,I really wanna get back with him,but my mind and heart are saying two different things.My heart is saying yes,but my head is saying no.I'm really confused.What should I do get back with him,or don't? (link)
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what was the reason you split if you have the heart to stay with him and try, u should, otherwise if not moue on to otha thngs
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Ok, so I'm 18 and am a virgin, and I got fingered for the 4th time tonight, and it still hurt!! I've never used a tampon, and never masterbated, so I keep telling myself that's normal for it to feel like that, but when he rubs down there, it doesn't even feel good! It actually hurts...anything he does, and he's only using one finger. He's super gentle, and yet, I can't help but squirm. I don't know what to do.....is there something wrong with me? Is it ever going to get any better? I'm really freaking out here, and my boyfriend is a little confused too because he knows what he's doing, and hes going slow and gentle.....so what's the problem? If anyone can give ANY adive, that would be awesome because I don't have anyone to talk to:/ (link)
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if youve never masterbated or felt aroused maybe you have that condition where you dnt like it..or your nervous and need to take it slowly.it dose take geting used to
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I haven't felt ANYTHING for a year even when my Mum had a miscarriage I didn't feel sad now I look back on it I feel guilty for not feeling sad. I don't know when I lost the ability to feel emotions but for a year now I didn't feel anything but all of a sudden I'm thrust into feeling emotions again all just because my Mum told me off. I don't know whats happening to me and I can't identify half of the emotions. (link)
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depression likely its a good thing your feeling again! pain can be your friend itmeans your connecting again. if it gets too much talk to someone
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Are there any painless ways to commit suicide? I have given up on life and pretty much want it to end since nothing seems to go right anymore. If you want some back story then I will be breif. I am 22 and have attempted suicide two times and they were obviously failed attempts. The first time I shot myself in the chest and survived, the second was overdosing but again failed. I have tried changing my life around but to no success. I have no parents to turn to and I have no siblings. My friendlist is zero and well...I think this can only be fate I suppose. Can anyone recommend a simple method? (link)
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what you fee l today might not be the same as tomorrow.things change new things happen take it one day at a time.
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Sixteen, female, from the United States.
I've known I've had a few "mental issues" for the past four years. I used to be one of the self-mutilating crowd, mainly because of a past boyfriend who was suicidal and tried to get me to go along with him. I used to be extremely angsty, whiny, all that shit. Luckily, I grew out of that side. However, the beatings I was giving myself didn't stop.
I've told my parents multiple times in the past that I had a weird thing for pain. They caught me cutting my wrists once, and my mother put on her caring face and tried to help me through it. She hired a therapist to talk to me about it, who honestly didn't help a single bit when it came to the self-mutilation thing, but was at least there to listen to everything else. The understanding and kindness lasted for about a week or so, then everything pretty much went back to normal.
My parents aren't horrible parents; they're just a little...uninvolved. My mom only talks about her life at work or with her side of the family, my dad doesn't talk much at all, and my sister's too young to understand much. The biggest attention I get from them is A., when I do something -really- good, or B. when I do something "horrible" (forgetting to wash dishes, making sarcastic comments, etc.), and they feel like screaming at me about it. In that kind of situation, they pretty much completely forget about my condition and start calling me worthless, stupid, over-dramatic, etc. To the point where I usually just storm out and take it out on myself downstairs. They have to know what I'm doing down in my room, they've seen the scars, and yet they pretty much ignore most of it when we have to interact again.
I feel better when I'm in pain. I've already realized this for a while now. When I'm hurting myself in any way, I'm not often doing it because I'm depressed. It distracts me, it keeps me clear-headed, and often, I enjoy the feeling. Kind of like listening to music or eating chocolate, only a little more...extreme. But sometimes, I really do fear that if I go too far or lose control, I'll end up hurting myself or someone I love.
I'm already slightly unstable enough as it is, because I had a -lot- of shit go down with a past boyfriend a few months ago; when he found I was hurting myself, he flat out yelled at me to stop it or else he would never see me again (although he ended up leaving me anyway a week later for another girl). That kind of sent me over the edge. Not the edge as in "I became depressed and sad and suicidal", but more of "I feel like burning something and laughing hysterically".
Anyways. I don't have anyone to talk to about this "problem"; all my friends think I'm kidding (literally, I've told them about six times in all seriousness and they sluffed it right off), and I don't have any family members that are close to me. I'm not hurting myself enough to make me (or, apparently, my parents) worry, but it is starting to interfere with my everyday life, and I know that things like this just escalate from there.
Advice, anyone? I would ask for internet hugs, too, but that might be asking too much. D: (link)
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.your parents have their own issues talk tosomeone you trust do things for you."the secret "movie helps 2
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I'm a 14 year old girl from Australia and right now i feel absolutely fucking terrible. i weigh 105 kilo's. its utterly disgusting. i cant even look myself in the mirror with out being repulsed. i dont even look at photo's from a year ago. when i was still over weight but not THIS big. i just want to know if there is some sort of diet that you can go on that will help you lose weight FAST.
P.s. its pretty fucked when you live in a country with THE BEST beaches and you cant even where a bikini. or any sort of swim suit because your gross looking. (link)
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i put on weight and loose it all the time i used to be big then rely skinny and bulimic on off since i was .13.when i start getiing repulsed by my weight i hold my head up andembrase it healty weight is healthy thoughts feel right now and be healthy dont diet take walks nurture yourself.do u rely need a second helping or would a piecf of fruit do..embrase health
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for four years.He's used to be very emotional and laughed a lot and got angry when he had too or when it was necessary. About two years ago his grandma passed away we weren't really close as we are now we used to see each other two times a week but now we have fallen more in love and talk to each other about everything. He used to cry every time we argued and i said maybe we should brake up, he used to get mad when his sister took his debit card(they still do that), or when his mom went off and bought stupid crap with his money(still does that).But since then he doesn't show much emotion he does laugh, but he rarely gets mad and its been two years and his family walks all over him takes his money and i say something and they say its just cause i want it all for myself so i stopped saying stuff, but they've gone over board his sister bought a car with his money a boob job and he pays for her insurance and much more things, its like too much but he doesnt get angry! He never cries even if we brake up, but i know he loves me because he's sweeter now to me than ever brings me flowers writes me poems, he talks to me about ever since it really hurt him and he cant show emotions. I even tried showing him this really sad films about people dying and he would feel sad i could feel it but he couldnt cry no matter how hard he tried. It just makes me so mad,how it seems like he's heartless and he doesn't stand to his family! I know he probably needs to go to a therapist, but seriously?! we can't afford that at all and no we dont have insurance. So is there any like natural way to help him fix this? I just don't know what to do! And lately hes been telling me how he finds people killing others fascinating and all the things he likes are like villians who kill not with powers but with knifes. He tells me he finds that fascinating. He's been wanting to have rough sex lately, and he's really rough with me he wants to pretend like he rapes me. I watch a lot of csi and law and order and all of this scares me! It all ties with like the characteristics of someone who might release their anger or emotions in another way. I don't want this to happen at all im so extremely terrified i am gonna let this pass and later regret it, Please help!!! (link)
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woah one thng im thinking is hes saying that stuff to you like a cry out for help.talk to the family do they know how bad he is?he needs help
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