Question Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 12:12 am
I'm 13/f.Me and my current ex boyfriend decided to break up.But we promised we'd try and move on,and if we couldn't,we'd get back together.Now,I really wanna get back with him,but my mind and heart are saying two different things.My heart is saying yes,but my head is saying no.I'm really confused.What should I do get back with him,or don't?
Additional info, added Tuesday September 27 2011, 7:07 pm: We broke up,because I felt we were better off as friends.But then,I realized I loved him more than a friend.I've known him for 2 years.We're together now,but I don't know if we should be or not?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceMistress answered Tuesday September 27 2011, 2:00 pm: Why did you break up in the first place? What was the reason? Were you happy in the relationship or not?
There's plenty of fish in the sea. No one can tell you what you need to do. You need to decide that for yourself. When I was younger I go look for answers to questions that only I had the answer to. Be smart about it and don't just go back to him because it's safe or familiar. Good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
aturtle1 answered Monday September 26 2011, 5:20 am: what was the reason you split if you have the heart to stay with him and try, u should, otherwise if not moue on to otha thngs [ aturtle1's advice column | Ask aturtle1 A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday September 25 2011, 11:06 pm: If you don't think you and your ex boyfriend are right for each other, Then you don't date. You should never date someone because you both can't find someone else that is not what a relationship is about.
Relationships about caring, trust and loving one another. If you both don't have that connection then it is pointless to be together because even if you don't have someone else the relationship with your ex boyfriend wouldn't work out if you aren't right. It sounds to me that you just want the guy back because nobody else is available, Just be patient. You are only 13 years old and trust me there will be guys for you. Never date someone because you are bored, That is the worst thing to do. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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