hello i am a 25 year old mom, i am married to a wonderful man for 7 years. i have been there and done that, so i can answer alot of questions from experence.
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do you believe that government should control education?
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i belive that there is a fine line where they interfere. we get funding from education from the gov, but at the same time they want people to not act on relioous belives and pray before class and emals, i think if people dont like it they dont have to partisipate, but dont take it away from the majority who will and wants to do it, as far as the pledge laws that are going into effect, i always said the pledge when i was in school, and it was a great way to start off the day, once again if you dont like dont partisipate.amen.
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Does anyone know a website that I can look at/buy paper/waxy braclets that I can order them to say "Vote for me!" (link)
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i cant say i do ,i am sorry
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okay just warning you this could get kind of long, so I met this guy and for some reason immediately he just sparks my interest you know catches my eye however you wanna put it so I start getting to know him better and he's probaby like the funniest person I ever will meet in my life so Im starting to really fall fast for this kid then he asks me out at first I kind dont want to rush into but I think about it and I realize that im not willing to risk the chance of losing him by saying no. so I said yes and by doing that I did exactly what I didnt want to happen. We went out over the summer and broke up for well some really stupid reasons I couldnt trust him because he lied to me alot and would tell other people everything we did. to me that was our personal business and i didnt want everyone knowing about it so after i talkd to him and he cont'd doing it i broke it off he told me he didnt care and that he hated me and he never wanted to speak to me again then he made the next few weeks hell for me but then one night i got really upset and i was talking to one of his good friends about it and i was trying to explain how i just couldnt see how i could be so stupid to think he ever cared about me when he obviously didnt, well his friend cut me off right there. he told me that me and my ex were two of a kind, we were cut from the same block however you wanna put it, my ex had said that same thing about me when i broke up with him and he even cried but made his friend promise not to tell anyone. now that i know this happened i think i might of made a mistake i really loved that boy and i miss him everyday, i pray everynight that one day ill get him back and i know how pathetic that sounds esp. since he just got a girlfriend today they dont really know eachother too well though and i heard he still wishes me and him would someday work everything out but i dont know it seems like everythings in too big of a mess and that no one would ever be able to fix it.. i feel like an idiot for letting him slip away. he wasnt perfect, he was far from that but i loved that about him cuz he knew it and he'd always let it shine through and he could always make me laugh. i need some help though what should i do to even be on just good terms with him? or what should I do to possibly win him back or am i just as screwed as i thought.. i know this is long and probably annoying and your probably even laughing but thanks for at least reading it an please respond if you have any ideas cuz im really hurting right about now
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awww, i am sorry you have just been through a break up. i know it is soo hard especially when you realise they now have someone else. i think it will all work out if it supposed to. if you get a chance to talk to him let him know you are not trying to be his girlfriend again you just care alot about him and want to still be in his life even if it just as a friend, he may then realise that you truly do love him and if nothing else you got your friend back. i would not try and push the whole going out thing again to soon, if its gonna work you have to let it take time, like you are starting all over again otherwise you will make the same mistakes that broke you 2 up in the first place. i have learned true love is nothing to rush, it has to evolve, ans if it dosent happen, just think of all the fun you can have meeting new people who could just possibly be that special one.
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a couple months ago i had tendonitis in my wrist. i stopped playing tennis for about two weeks and it seemed to heal. but when i sometimes hit the ball really hard it hurts like it did. not all the time though. i think right now it's because of my holding my racket too hard.. but it could be tendonitis. do you think it came back? yesterday we played another school and i played doubles and a really long tiebreaker singles and won.. and it hurt a little during singles. i dont think i'm just over hitting because i can play for hours. what do you think? (link)
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have you tried wearing a brace, or even talking to your doctor about less strenous exercises you could do at home, to strengthen your wrist. i hope you dont over do it, so take it easy a few days off wont hurt you, it will be worth it to fully heal, rather than keep playing hurt yourself more and never play again. hope i helped
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Ok so i just called my boyfriend, and all of the sudden it feels like i cant even connect with him anymore. (I'm 13 and hes 16) I called him and asked if he was going to the football game Friday nite, and he said probably not. I was trying to hint to him that I was going and that I wanted to see him, but he would'nt really talk. so i lied and told him I needed to do my homework so I could get off the phone w/ him. What do you think we should talk about? (link)
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do you guys have any similar interists like anything besides eachother. or just dont worry about what you say if it sounds cool or not talk about things that are going on in the world, there is a bonus to that, he will like the fact that you are not making the moment awkward by not saying anything, and you look really smart. which contrair to what most woman think men like woman with a brain who have cool things to talk about other than themselves or their friends. good luck
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okay...i'm very depressed. And a guy didnt even break up with me or sumthing. i just dont have a bf right now...and i really like this guy at school...we flirt ALOT..but i still have a feeling he doesnt like me...and ever since i've been really depressed...(plus, homecoming dance is coming up..that doesnt help)
is there anyway for me to get out of this funk? (link)
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um honey, dont wait around to find out if this guy likes you or not, find out...ask him. omg, i know it sounds crazy but anymore guys love to be asked out, and he may love the fact that you had the guts to do it instead of just sitting there and wondering if he was going to do it or not. so be brave and get that homecoming date.
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ok i am a 14 female and i want to start wearin tampons for PE bc i have to start PE but my MOM wont elt em she says,"no you shouldnt be puttin things up there" and i told ehr i had to for PE and she goes that she will talk to the PE teachers herself and not make me go swimmin but the thing is she thinks THAT I AM TOO YOUNG TO WEAR THEM. she said " ur a lil girl and your body is still developin and shouldnt be puttin that up there" what should i do? do you guys think i am to young to wear one??
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i belive that once you are old enough to of started your period, then you are old enough to decide what kind of feminine product to use, sounds like you and your mom need to have an adult heart to heart, let her see you approaching the topic like an adult, and she will be more likely to treat you like one.
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13!Femalle I got caught stealing from a drugstore. My parents don't know. I feel bad about it and really regret it. I said sorry and paid for the item but I haven't wen't back there since this was in June. I want to go back to the drugstore; When should I go back there? Do you think they called the cops?(I've learned my lesson and will NEVER steal again.) (link)
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i did the same thing when i was young, and you know the best thing i did to help myself out of the embarassment, it dosent sound like it would, but it did. i wrote a letter to the business from which i stole telling them how sorry i was and how i hope they can forgive me and just really wrote down what i felt, then i hand delivered it and stood there while they read it. maybe this could work for you, it couldnt hurt to try.
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Everything was going perfect for me & my boyfriend. Even the day he broke up with me, we were fine & saying I love you. Then he said he had to go & when he called me back, things were over. His reasoning was an accumulation of things but mostly because of a talk with his parents & the fact that the feelings just aren't there anymore. He stated that he wasn't sure if he liked me as a friend or more than that anymore. This really hurt since we were very serious & I'm guessing that's why things went bad all of a sudden. It was him though, that often brought up marriage & staying together forever even though we're only 13! Needless to say, he wants to be friends but it's just so hard. I love spending time with him & we have so much in common but I still have feelings for him & he knows that. How can I make this friendship work & how can I win him back?
- Jenna (link)
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well very fortunatly for you you will probley feel this way 16 more times before you actually do get married. i know love hurts, but maybe your boyfriend was just realising that he didnt want to go so quick, and got scared. if it is ment to work out nothing you do will make it, it will just happen when the time is right, remeber you cant force someone to like you, so you definatly cant force someone to love you.
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I feel sick,tired and feeling as if i'm going to get my periods but its 2nd day not properly came its just dirty stuff,and its the tym i should be having them, but The last tym I had protected sex besides I'd feel being wet if he ejeculated inside. My worry is my periods and these feelings I have never missed them if the date changes its either before or later without those kind of feelings.Vuyi. (link)
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well first of all you could take a test now, and it could still come up negitive. so the best you can do at the moment till you know for sure is take care of your body as if you are preg. and just fyi, he dosent necessarley have to cum inside you for you to get preg. unfortunatly only time will tell if you are or not, i know its hard but try not to worry, if you are you cant change it, unless you really wanted to, but anyway if you are congrats, i wish you luck.
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Hey how long after you get your tonsils out, does it hurt for? I just got them out on monday and it still hurts really badly. Thanks will rate (link)
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awww, im sorry you are in pain, i think it really depends on the person, but surely no longer than a week, as long as everything went well. just try and not talk so much, and the great thing is you have an excuse to eat as may yummy popcicles as you want
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Im trying out for drama club and we have to do an improv for tryouts. So I have to give a lecture about something(like a mom telling her kid to get better grades, a police telling a driver they're going to fast, etc) But the problem is, the lecture wont be directly to someone else, just thin air! And i dont know what topic it will be on. So are there anyways i can prepare for this? thanks i rate. (link)
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i think that sounds sooo fun, i bet you will do great. i know it sounds silly, but if you just practice talking to the air about all sorts of topics then you can prepare yourself for a broad range os senerios. good luck to you
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I have problems remembering things. Here are some examples:
*for World history we had to make folder covers and had to label it "world history" but i forgot that it was world history so i put "world geography."
*i was talking to my grandma one time and i told her "ill never forget that time when..." and then literally 2 minutes later I forgot about it and I couldn't think of it.
*if I'm writing down a sentence from a book I have to look at the book every 2 words because i forget.
*In math or history I forget what happens or how to do a problem so when it comes to test time I don't do so well(i do good in math but HORRIBLE in history.)
those were just SOME things. What's wrong with me and is there any way to fix this?? (link)
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maybe you could talk to a counselor at school, im sure they ahve had problems like that before, i would also talk to my parents.good luck
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Can someone explain college to me? What's with all that graduate and udnergraduate stuff? and like the college of science, medicine, stuff..where do you get your degrees and stuff? I go to college in like 2 years and I have no CLUE about this stuff..someone please inform me..thankyouuuuuuuu (link)
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you need to go talk to a councelour at any college and they can give you tons of info on that stuff, and its free. good luck
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Well iv been with this girl 4 2 years and she says she wants to wait till she gets married to have sex,but i cant wait that long i think i waited long enough what the fuck do i do (link)
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well if you cant respect her wishes which are her morals, would you really want her to comprimise something so precious as he virginity just so you can feel better about getting laid. i think there are plenty of other girls who would be willing to do whatever you want. your girlfriend ovisouly thinks alot of herself, and you should feel honored to have someone like that, there are not many people like that around anymore, and if you do decide to wait for her wishes, youll have a satisfaction most guys dont get to have when youll be with her, it will have been you and only you, you dont have to worrie about diseases or anything, i think that would be more worth it. and if u have been with her for 2 years then i am assuming you love her, would u really want to comprimise her belifes for your selfishness, if so you are probley with the wrong woman.good luck
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ok my boyfriend and i broke up n i dont want him back but how can i get him to want me back so that i can make him feel bad.. i know thats mean but hes a player and i need to get him back *(revenge wise)* thanks (link)
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well sweetie, i think i would quit worring so much about the old boyfriend and try and get a new one, that is so much more fun, and you wont be stressin about him, that will actually make him squirm.
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Does any1 kno where i can get sum funnel cake from? dont say a carnival or Ihop... cuz there is no carnival nearby and Ihop doesnt sell it neither does Dennys (link)
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they actually sell kits where you can make your own at the grocery store.
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I'm new to the school, and I just talked to this kid today who doesn't talk to anyone either, well I just asked him a question. He seems really cool & I really want to start being friends with him, or just talk to him. I don't want him to think I'm super weird, but I just want to start talking to him, because we're the only two that don't in the whole class of 25 people.
What's a good way to start conversation with this kid. The only time I see him is in that class, so I don't really know what to say. =/
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i would pay attention to him from afar and notice what he seems to be into, then when you notice something similar to yourself well then it will come naturally when you talk about it, good luck
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Ok me and my friend recently went to the movies and we missed our show so we were jsut hanging out and talkting to this really hot guy.So we told him we would come back next friday ( because he works there) and so I asked my mom and she said she wanted to go but she would just see another movie.I really dont want her to go so how should I say that without hurting her feelings??Should I say just goo shopping or something?!?! (link)
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well if your mom wants to see another movie, it just might work out.or you could just tell her the real reason you want to go , who knows she just might understand, and she would feel like she could trust you.
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I`m 13 and I get alot of zits. I have this HUGE (and I mean HUGE ) like almost the size of a nickel sized zit. It is in between my eyebrows and it has no head on it. ( It looks like a large red bump ) It really hurts if you push on it and it is all red. I don't know what to do. Is there anything I can get to clear it up quicker? (link)
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yes for one thing quit squeezing it, that makes it more red and can double it in size. it might not also be a pimple it could be an in-grown hair. but if it is a zit and has no head i know there are kinds called cystic pimples. they are small cysts and can be very painful, ive had them before, and unfortunatlythe only thing you can do is just leave it alone, now if it is a reg zit, toothpaste on it overnight can work great.good luck, and remeber you notice it more than anyone else will.
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