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After The Break Up
Everything was going perfect for me & my boyfriend. Even the day he broke up with me, we were fine & saying I love you. Then he said he had to go & when he called me back, things were over. His reasoning was an accumulation of things but mostly because of a talk with his parents & the fact that the feelings just aren't there anymore. He stated that he wasn't sure if he liked me as a friend or more than that anymore. This really hurt since we were very serious & I'm guessing that's why things went bad all of a sudden. It was him though, that often brought up marriage & staying together forever even though we're only 13! Needless to say, he wants to be friends but it's just so hard. I love spending time with him & we have so much in common but I still have feelings for him & he knows that. How can I make this friendship work & how can I win him back?
- Jenna
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well very fortunatly for you you will probley feel this way 16 more times before you actually do get married. i know love hurts, but maybe your boyfriend was just realising that he didnt want to go so quick, and got scared. if it is ment to work out nothing you do will make it, it will just happen when the time is right, remeber you cant force someone to like you, so you definatly cant force someone to love you.
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I think it might be a good idea for you to take a break from each other. It's really, really hard to just be friends when you have feelings for the other person especially if you're boyfriend-girlfriend one minute and just-friends the next. But it's not impossible to become friends again if you give it time.
Winning him back ... You can't make him have feelings for you so I think you might be best to forget about that for a while.
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