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Girl I like
There's this girl I like, she's 13, kind of shy, asian, but I dont know how to approach her. And is 13 too young to start a relationship? I would appreciate you peoples' help thx.
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ook well your 13. 13 isn't to young to date, but it also mean's that your not old enough to "date". yes you might like her, but just take it slow. make sure you warm up to eachother. and make sure you don't just fall to fast.
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ohk .. there is realli no age limit for relationships .. i mean if u reallli like her like tell her that you like her .. like maybe on the computer if your not comfortable talking to her in person... and just let her kno how you feel and maybe she will feel the same..
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just start out slow....just say you wanna be friends..ask her if you wana hang out sometime...slow....and once you guys start becoming better friends...take another step if u feel she feels comfortable good job and if she doesnt want to go that fast then take a step back just ask her how she feels about you ....a friend or mayb you guys could be more.....but remember say sweet things to her she will appreciate it....mayb it might get you somewhere
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there's no age limit to relationships... it's not a matter of how old you are, it's how ready you are. and if you feel that you're ready for a relationship, and she does too, go for it.
when approaching the girl you like, the first rule i'd set is to be friendly. she might never notice you if you blend into the woodwork, so take a chance and talk to her. find out what she's interested in and see if you have anything in common. first be her friend, then you can talk about taking it further.
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Hi there
I'll try and give you a tips on do's and don't
DO
Introduce yourself first, before asking their name
Make brief eye contact from time to time, and smile
Ask them about themselves
Ask open questions, in other words ones that can't be answered with just a 'yes' or a 'no'
Ask about their interests, find out if you share any
Show interest in their answers
Strike a balance when answering their questions so you appear interesting, but still fairly modest
Lean towards them a little more if things seem to be going well
Try mirroring their body language
Leave them wanting to know a bit more about you
Act relaxed and confident, but not arrogant
Have a sense of humour
It's OK to tell them they are attractive if you like them, in case they start thinking of you as 'just a friend'
If it goes well, say you'd like to meet them again and ask if they'd like to swap numbers
Be honest if you don't want to take it any further
Keep your cool if they tell you they're not interested
Don't
Call someone 'babe' or 'darlin', and forget to ask their name
Stare or leer at them
Put up with any crap if someone is being creepy
Use tacky lines and expect them to work
Hound someone who is obviously not interested
Insult them, or make them the butt of nasty jokes
Demand someone's entire life story
Talk about yourself incessantly, not letting them get a word in
Try too hard to make yourself sound important
Go on at length about miserable things from your past
Ignore their answers when you've asked them a question
Boast about how good you are in bed
Boast about how many other lovers you've had
Get pressured into giving your number to someone you don't like or find scary
Ask for their number if you know you won't be calling them
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I think it's fine to date or have a relationship at 13 so long as you go really, really slow and don't get in way over your head.
Why not ask if the girl'd like to go to the movies with you?
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