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Facts About Me :)>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania
>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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Hey everybody quick question. Is it normal to love 3 different types of music equally? and to dress in three different categories?. For an example i listen to really heavy metal, club music like house euro jumpstyle etc... and i also listen to rap. and i dress like all those at different times during the week etc... depending on where im going. i love all 3 types of music but is this normal?
Hi :)
OF COURSE IT'S NORMAL! :D this is what makes you, YOU! The fact that you strive to be unique naturally is great. Everyone has their own taste and opinion. So don't mind those who bring you down and say negative things, you're better than them ;)
Overall, I listen to different types of music too. As far as dressing, I don't have a certain style. I pick what I like and that's that. Take care
-Uniq
Hi I would like to know how i can PLEASE my girlfriend WITHOUT sex. I have never dated before and need help. Thank you.
Hi :)
Well I honestly think it depends on age. Yes yes, I do think that if you're in your early teens sexual things should be put off. Start slow, that kinda thing. Since you say "WITHOUT sex", I'm eliminating every possible choice that involves sex. So lets see:
-Hugging?
-Kissing?
-Taking her on cute dates like movies, bowling, walks in the park, etc.
-Buying her cute gifts or complimenting her.
Basically, keeping your mind and hers off of sex.
But, if you mean sex without sexual penetration, you can try these:
-Oral
-Manual stimulation
-Hot and heavyness over clothes.
I mean I can't get into detail but you can always google these things :)
Good luck
-Uniq
i asked a few questions without ever havin my own, but if i make one now will it show that it was me ? thanks !
Hi :)
I think that when you sign up, you have an option to ask anonymously even though you have an account. Maybe you can check the FAQ's. Hope I helped!
Uniq
so me and my bff dated the same guy, she went with him the day after i did and they broke up so now its a new year and she was at my house talking to him on the phone and she wouldn't tell me what they were talking about... so i think they are getting back together and i dont want them to because he is a cheater and she gets hurt and falls too hard for him too easily and its ahppened before but now she is not taking my advice...well if they ever "youknow" i hope she makes a "mistake" and learns a lesson you kno? gets pregnant because she's the kind of girl that will happen to but how can i seriously talk her out of it a better way than i try?....
13-14 female...
Hi :)
Obviously, if your friend won't take your advice on him being a cheater, then she's blind. You guys are 14; It's not that you're not old enough to date, it just seems that she (and maybe you) aren't mentally mature enough to be dealing with this. You haven't mentioned the guys age, but I will assume he is your age. So that goes for him too. He's just doing what society claims is cool, which is getting with any girl you can. All in all, there is no way for you to convince her out of getting with him, simply because she's blinded by the lust she feels from this guy. Maybe he sweet talks her, does things that she hasn't experienced before... And as with any other thing in life, you only learn from your mistakes. If she's not listening to you, just make sure you warn her one last time, and then let nature take it's course. I hope I helped!
Uniq =]
P.S: Don't hope for her to make a mistake. Be careful what you wish for.
I am a song writer and i want to know where you get inspiration for writing songs or where i can find mine, im stuck , i cant find a theme to write about , help????
Hi :)
I agree, I when I write I usually get inspired because of my past, or what is currently happening. Occasionally, things that happen to people who are close to me are also inspiring. What are some things that mean a lot to you? Things that can get you extremely happy, deeply sad, and so on? Hope I helped!
Uniq =]
Hi!
My dad's turning fifty and my brother and sister and I are trying to create a video for his birthday that covers his life, ups and downs, and has some bits and pieces of people talking about him. sort of like the documentaries you see online... I am not too sure how to go about this and was wondering if anyone had any ideas!
Thanks :)
Hi :)
You can go the easy way and use Window's Media Maker. Just make sure you have all the pics and video's you want for your video. If you need any specific help, feel free to leave me a message in my inbox :)
Uniq
heeey, does anyone here know the definition of a 'scene kid' ?
someone called me that today, and i honestly dont know if thats good or bad?
like i kind of know about it, but can someone tell me more?
Hi :)
'Scene' is basically a style. Here are some pics
http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&um=1&sa=1&q=scene+kids&aq=3&oq=scene+&aqi=g10&start=0
And, of course, urban dictionary to define lol:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=scene%20kids
Hope I helped! And don't let labels rule your life.
Uniq =]
how do i run my music i downloaded from limewire thorough itunes to put on my ipod touch ? thanks :)
Hi =]
Have both windows open (limewire and Ituns). Lets say you've downloaded a song and it's in the bottom of limewire. Highlight and drag onto the Itunes tab so Itunes should open, then drop it in the window. Always double check if the song copied into Itunes. Hope I helped :D
Uniq
how can you get over someone? and how long does it usually take? some background info is: we dated for 15 months (broke up for 3, realized we couldn't do it then got back together), and were each other's first loves, we didn't have sex but he's the first guy who's ever seen me naked and i've ever been sexual with. i want to know an estimated time it will take to forget him.
we broke up a few days ago and i have this huge hole in my heart and i want it to just go away...(or at least until we start hanging out again in like a month) we agreed to hang out in a month and try to be friends and see where it picks up from there....so what can i do to just get him out of my headdd? :/
Hi :)
So you guys were pretty serious... To be honest there is no specific time limit when it comes to the heart. Whether it's how much time it would take to fall in love, or forget the one you love. If you guys had lots of ups and downs and you truly loved him, the thought of even being with another man will be hard, and vice versa. Give yourself time to get over the relationship, and even if you feel ready, don't jump into another relationship quickly. Try to meet people when you're ready but as friends, get to know them, and so on.
You guys want to hang out in one month, and i don't think that was a good idea. Now, you two will be waiting until that month is done, and all the waiting will lead to happiness when you see him and you two might end up back together. It might not be a bad thing though. Maybe you two should stay together. You didnt state why you two broke up.
Well, good luck and I hope I helped =}
Uniq
I am 23 years old and I am lost. I feel no need to live or breathe anymore. I have been with the same guy for 8 years and he stole my best friend my maid of honor from me. He lies to me about her but inssits that nothing is going on. I asked him to back off but then he makes me feel guilty for making him not friends with her. I can never do anything right by him or by anyone else for that matter. I can't turn to anyone b/c they turn right back around and tell him. i attempted suicide one time before but I took too many pills and it felt like someone had punched me in the gut. I recoverd with out telling anyone. I am getting ready to kill myself now. My ex best friend just called and said she was done with me and that her and my b/f were friends anyway. and they work together b/c he is the manager he can do anything. I just want this all to be over and everyone get their cut out of my life insurance. I won't be missed I just wanted to be happy in life...to be something worth wild but i'm told I am not ..to often so the bad wins over the good this time I guess. I don't have anyone. I don't want to burden my mom b/c we just found out she has cancer again and I don't really have a dad...so what can i do...nothing just slip away into darkness before my fiance gets home...maybe then all the pleading and begging I did won't be funny to him anymore...then he pick up where i made him leave off 8 years ago.
Wow wow wow...
First of all, your maid of honor is not a friend if she's ditching you for him. She was your friend first, he's simply your fiance, and NOW she wants to choose him over you? She's not helping with your suspicions. Secondly, why does he have the need to be friends with her? You're the important one here... I mean, he can have friends but if you're not comfortable with them being friends your opinion should count to, and them not respecting it isn't good.
Fellow advicenators are right, killing yourself won't help hon...
Your mom needs someone she can count on with her fight against cancer. You have to be her strong wall that holds her up.. She needs you whether she says it or not.
Im sorry to say this, but your fiance is one of many guys in this world. I completely understand how you feel, Ive been with my bf for 2 years and live with him, and I cannot picture myself without him.. But if push comes to shove I won't stay in an unhealthy relationship only to be miserable and suicidal..
What you need to do is sit down with your fiance and have a long serious talk with him. Calmly ask him why he has to be friends with your maid of honor... and what does he think of the fact that your maid of honor just ditched you for him. And relationships are all about honesty. you two are on the verge of marriage, and if he's lying about the situation between your best friend and him, then he should come clean about everything he might have lied about... Let him know you just want things to be cleared up, that you won't flip out or do anything stupid, and that you would just rather know than be kept in the dark.
Stay strong... amd know that in this world, there is one person who needs you. your mom. if it's not your best friend, nor your fiance, it's DEFINITELY your mom. Please, rethink your situation and consider our advice. I wish you well...
Uniq
So, i am a teenager, 14 years old. my mom's age is 64!!!! I CANNOT BELIEVE IT :'( this is too old for me. i cannot stop worrying. all my other friends have moms who are only 38 or who just turned 40. :( so unfair. my moms like old. this is hurts me. I AM ONLY 14 AND MY MOM IS 64. what do you think of that????
Hi :)
Don't worry about your mom's age. It should be the least of your worries. If she's treating you right and taking care of you, just be thankful :) I know friends who are 17 or 18 and their mom's are also in their late 50's. Take care :)
Uniq
my sister and i got in a huge physical fight today. she started punching me and tried knocking my door down with a fieldhockey stick in her hand. I imed my boyfriend of over a year, begging him to pick me up and help me and get me out of my house before it got worse, and he was like whatever make peace with her i got to go. i dont know what to do, was that assholeish of him or no?
Hi :)
Honestly, what he did was wrong. Did he take it as a joke? I mean, if you said it in an urgent tone, he should have caught on. Plus, joking or not, he should have cared. And the other advicenators are right, he should have been there to support you =/ as for things with your sister, i hope they work out, that sounds pretty violent. Do your parents realize how severe it is? Good luck hun
uniq
I mean, me and my boyfriend kiss, of course, but I'm not feeling the passion. I want a passionate kiss that will leave me thinking about it for days. But I'm kind of a shy person, so I can't just go up to him and ask him for it...What do I do? Also, Tips on turning him on? Making him hot? Anything will help. Thank You Very Much!
Hi :)
Well it depends. Have you guys been going out for a long time? Well, nevertheless, I think one way to do that is by not being shy and giving him that passionate kiss yourself. Look him in the eyes walk all sexy like to him and kiss him :D Im sure that he'll enjoy having his girl mack on him surprisingly. Good luck :)
Uniq
**You asked for suggestions lol. Okay, maybe he can start off by warming you up, (massages, close hugs, etc) in a romantic way. Basically light foreplay. And if your time comes, I'm sure you'll be in the moment and enjoy giving him a passionate kiss. Im sorry if Im not enough help lol good luck :D
do u know what does the 2 finger sign mena???? like the peace sign but in the other way... (not between the mouth....)???
thx
Hey
The only way I can think of is either V which people use to describe VA(Virginia) but the turn the V upside down with the other hand. Or, the upside down peace sign to describe Atlanta, like usher does. Hope I helped
Uniq :]
so me & my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months. well we got into a fight friday morning, he didnt talk to me all day friday then only two words to me saturday. so he posted some facebook status that made me mad so i texted him and finally got him to talk and he proceeded to tell me that he wanted to go on a break. we've been having problems but i didnt expect this. i know this isnt all my fault and mostly it's not. i have some faults like effort but he is very selfish and needy when i'm very independent. i want to get him a gift for our 7th month whether we're back together or not, showing him that i'm trying too. i live in pittsburgh and we've already gone to a pirate game and football tickets are just way tooo expensive. i need some fun/cute ideas to do but nothing too isolated because i dont want to end up talking about what has been bothering us. i just want a day with him where we're happy again. so many ideas of a cute date would be greatly appriciated! thanks. btw; he's 19 and i'm 17 so within age requirements lol
Hi :]
I agree with smile, I think the most important thing here is quality time not anything materialistic. If materialistic things is what makes your boyfriend happy, and not your love and affection, then there's a problem haha. I'd say, go on a date the whole day. Spend the day together from morning to night. Eat breakfast, then walk around maybe he likes to rollerblade or idk, just do something that interests him but can involve you too. Eat some lunch, go to a park, make some jokes, hug, kiss, you know? Lol bring the romance back. A lot of the time after months have passed, things get heated, arguments happen, and the best way to get rid of that is communicate. What;s bothering you and what;s bothering him? Let eachother know lightly, and talk it out.. Let him know that you love him, and I'm sure you wanna hear the same words back :D I hope everything works out and always remember everything in a relationship is 50/50 :]
Uniq =]
My prom is in 1 week, so I desperately need help! Im looking for a hair styl, I was thinking of going for half up and half down. I want really cute curls, like loose and wavy curlyish if that makes sense. But I was also considering just keeping it all down (I part my hair to the side, and I have side bangs.) But I still want those loose curls. Can anyone help me find pictures?
please help Im running out of time!
Thanks!
Hi!
So I'm not much of a fashion person haha, but reading your question made me think maybe this is what you're looking for?
http://purehairstyle.com/wp-content/gallery/prom-hairstyle/carrie-underwood-hair-400a073007.jpg
Hope I helped and good luck!!
Uniq =]
Hi,
I am a 17/f. I live in a tiny town, full of older people... and in my pre.k to 12 school, there aren't a whole lot of good friends. I am not saying that there aren't people,there are.. there just aren't very many that don't smoke, aren't jerks, won't stab you in the back, wreck havoc, and so on. I have never had any (what I consider) real friends that a person can rely on. Until.. I met this one new girl, several years ago, we were best friends for several years, then she dumped me for my brother Whom she dates, sucks faces with, sleeps with, and excetera excetera. My mom who I live with (my parents are divorced) doesnt seem to care about what I think/do no matter how many times I confront her. She has a boyfriend now (he seems sort of decent) that she spends almost every spare minute with alongside my little sister (who is twelve, but acts like a baby and has my mother on the end of her pinky).
Anyhow, I really need someone I can just hang out with, be myself with, who will make me laugh, and help me smile more. I really wish I could meet some different people, get out there, find a boyfriend maybe, and yeah.. theres not much to do in a little town.
Sometimes I want to go to the city, but I want someone close to my own age to go with me. I am not a very depressed person. I draw,bake,crochet,sew,design,bike ride,play sports,play with my dog, and listen to music. I am very artistic. I just need something more exciting in my life. All these simple things are getting boring. And no, there aren't any clubs or sports that I can be involved in. What to do what to do...
Hi :]
Well you didn't mention exactly where you live, but I get the whole idea that living in a small town can become annoying. You're right, there's not much to do, but I think that if I were you, I'd meet friends online, I'd go to the city (if it's sort of close), and just involve myself in programs. I'm pretty sure that somewhere in the closest city to you, they hold events or gatherings that are free or low cost. Perhaps Craigslist.com can be some help... I'm sorry if I'm not much of a help, but hey, you're 17, and hopefully soon enough you'll move out on your own and get to know places more...
Good luck!
Uniq =]
to be, TRULY in love with your current boyfriend when mixed and confused and unwanted feelings come to you from your long-ago ex?
i think it is. just because this happens, i cant control feelings. i love my boyfriend so much, but i am so confused about my ex and how i feel. but it's possible to still love my boyfriend while im figuring things out, right?
Hi there :]
Yes, It can be possible. Although it may feel wrong to have those feelings, there's no reason to kill yourself over it. You say you love your boyfriend, which is a positive sign. And just the fact that you know you can control your actions towards your ex lets us know you have somewhat a mature mind...As long as you don't cheat, everything will be fine. Just try to control those feelings... In some cases even letting these feelings out (towards your ex) can help!! I found that doing that and then keeping distance helps...
So yes, it's possible to love your boyfriend while still trying to figure things out... Just make sure to not hurt your boyfriend by doing something wrong you know?
Good luck, and I hope I helped!
Uniq =]
Hi. My dance teacher asked us to bring in some recent Hip Hop music(only if clean versions are available) for our soon to be new hip hop dance that we will be performing. Something upbeat that will make people want to get up and dance. Please help! Thank you! :)
Hi :]
You can try searching up artists like
Ne-Yo
Mariah Carey
The dream
Danity Kane
Mary J. Blige
Mario
Ryan leslie
If you want more, you can send me a PM. Good luck!!
Uniq =]
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Of course :]
By Ne-Yo I like -Closer- (that one definitely makes me dance haha), or -Because Of You-, -Miss Independent- But thats a more slower paced song...I mean he has plenty songs I like so I would suggest youtubing him and just listening to his songs lol
Mariah Carey -Obsessed-, -Shake It Off-, -It's Like That-, and -Heartbreaker-.
The Dream- Rockin that thang, my love, and there's 2 other songs I like but they might not be as clean haha but take a listen: Falsetto, and Nikki...
Danity Kane: I love -Damaged-
Mary J. Blige: -Just fine- is real hyper haha, -enough cryin-
Mario: -break up- (listen to it first I think there are some parts where it's dirty), -Cryin out for me-, -how could you-, -how do i breathe-
Lol honestly there is so much more, lol If you lived in NY i'd give you my mp3 for a day haha.. I hope I helped and if you need any more just drop me an inbox
Ryan Leslie: -How was it supposed to be-
My cash drawer at work keeps being count short or over..and I'm on my final written...I don't know what to do. I count the money customers give me 4 times..twice when being handed to me and twice before putting it in..how can I stop my drawer from being short or over??
Hey there,
Well you didn't mention where you work or what you do, but one thing can deal with your manager. Do you give the register to your manager at the end of the day, and does he/she count the money on his/her own? Does he/she ask you to pay for whatever money is gone with your paycheck? If so, he/she probably lying and blaming it on you..
If they have security cameras around that angle at the registers, (check first), request for you and a manager to sit down, look at the video to prove that you aren;t taking the money. I'm not sure if it's allowed for that to happen, but if he gets all nervous and denying for you to be allowed to sit in and watch, then there must be a problem there.
Think about this though, this MAY just be a possibility.. it might not be true. but just think about it.
hope i helped :D
uniq
good luck!!