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I am 23 years old and I am lost. I feel no need to live or breathe anymore. I have been with the same guy for 8 years and he stole my best friend my maid of honor from me. He lies to me about her but inssits that nothing is going on. I asked him to back off but then he makes me feel guilty for making him not friends with her. I can never do anything right by him or by anyone else for that matter. I can't turn to anyone b/c they turn right back around and tell him. i attempted suicide one time before but I took too many pills and it felt like someone had punched me in the gut. I recoverd with out telling anyone. I am getting ready to kill myself now. My ex best friend just called and said she was done with me and that her and my b/f were friends anyway. and they work together b/c he is the manager he can do anything. I just want this all to be over and everyone get their cut out of my life insurance. I won't be missed I just wanted to be happy in life...to be something worth wild but i'm told I am not ..to often so the bad wins over the good this time I guess. I don't have anyone. I don't want to burden my mom b/c we just found out she has cancer again and I don't really have a dad...so what can i do...nothing just slip away into darkness before my fiance gets home...maybe then all the pleading and begging I did won't be funny to him anymore...then he pick up where i made him leave off 8 years ago.
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Wow wow wow...
First of all, your maid of honor is not a friend if she's ditching you for him. She was your friend first, he's simply your fiance, and NOW she wants to choose him over you? She's not helping with your suspicions. Secondly, why does he have the need to be friends with her? You're the important one here... I mean, he can have friends but if you're not comfortable with them being friends your opinion should count to, and them not respecting it isn't good.
Fellow advicenators are right, killing yourself won't help hon...
Your mom needs someone she can count on with her fight against cancer. You have to be her strong wall that holds her up.. She needs you whether she says it or not.
Im sorry to say this, but your fiance is one of many guys in this world. I completely understand how you feel, Ive been with my bf for 2 years and live with him, and I cannot picture myself without him.. But if push comes to shove I won't stay in an unhealthy relationship only to be miserable and suicidal..
What you need to do is sit down with your fiance and have a long serious talk with him. Calmly ask him why he has to be friends with your maid of honor... and what does he think of the fact that your maid of honor just ditched you for him. And relationships are all about honesty. you two are on the verge of marriage, and if he's lying about the situation between your best friend and him, then he should come clean about everything he might have lied about... Let him know you just want things to be cleared up, that you won't flip out or do anything stupid, and that you would just rather know than be kept in the dark.
Stay strong... amd know that in this world, there is one person who needs you. your mom. if it's not your best friend, nor your fiance, it's DEFINITELY your mom. Please, rethink your situation and consider our advice. I wish you well...
Uniq
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Killing yourself isn't going to help the situation
i'm sure you'll be missed you've got to think postively and not negatively just when you think
you've got it bad there's always another person out there who is worst off then you..you don't
need people in your life who are going to abandon you just move and live your life you don't deserve to be treated poorly you've got to have confidence and believe in yourself don't listen to the negative comments others tell you commiting
sucide isn't going to help so please don't do it :)
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