I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
I love the Redsox. they make me so happy. lol
Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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anayone know lotions or something for when your hands become kinda sweaty... or if i should go to a doctor and get something..!!???!?!? (link)
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its called sports lotion. i have no idea what the dillio is with it. my uncle left some at our house and it consitently dries out my skin.
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Hey. Today in class I was like to my teacher (in front of everyone) "Your wife is really pretty, don't you think shes out of your leauge" And we talked about it the day before, and we were laughing and stuff.. so I thought it wouldent be like mean or anything. But it was only me and him..not the whole class. So he got mad and was like "Ohhh I'm gonna fail you now" And I know he's joking but I felt bad and said sorry. I asked him if we could be best friends (lol) and he said yep. So I wanna get friendship bracelets lol...or rings cuz hes a guy lol. Just to show how truly sorry I am. Because I guess it was stupid of me to do that...so where the heck do i get friendship stuff? Oh and can I get it cheap? :-D (link)
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i do think your funny, but the funny part is, i actually bought two of my teachers friendship bracclets and said it was from the other for april fools day. that was pretty funny actually, because they're both, well um stupid.
if you really wanted to buy this guy a braclette cheap, Claires is a good place, or like Family Dollar or something. ha ha, hope he thinks its as funny as i do.
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Ok... my friend went up to my guy friend and was like "(my name) is such a whore she wears thongs!" and then when i confronted her shes like.. i guess i was just jealous of yours and his friendship becasue you guys are close and i like him... i think thats a bunch of crap... then people are saying that the guy she told doesnt really like me and when i asked him hes like what!!! who told you that... if you understand any of this please help!!
**I rate** (link)
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become a nun. nuns don't have friends . . .
nah i'm just playing. you either have to all agree to just forget about all the rummors and crap, or get to the bottem of them.
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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!? (link)
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that doesn't make you a hoe. no offence, but thats the stupidest thing i've ever heard someone say about wearing a tampon. You're friend is nuts!
don't worry, after awhile, girls make fun of other girls who wear pads. Tampons are so much more practical than wearing a pad.
Next time she says that, ask her how she would know.
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I recently started a club at my school for left handed people and I'm having trouble coming up with things to do. Any suggestions? (link)
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at the chance of this being a joke and looking like an idiot, i'm going to answer this one:
make them do stuff with there right hand. try and tie up there left hand or something like that.
i've never heard of such a club. umm good for you?
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What are kickbacks and lunges? and what part of your body do they help? thankz! i will rate if u like! (link)
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well it really all depeneds what part of the body you're talking about. like in my health class (the most BOGAS CLASS EVER) we do tricept kickbacks, so those are for your arms, but there are also like oblique kickbacks that work your shoulders ect.
lunges i think are for your legs mainly.
i'm pretty sure that full leg squats are better for you, but i don't know what a regular squat is.
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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
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the concept of what is "okay" is a personal disition and varies from individual to individual.
personally i agree with you, so know you're not crazy and/or weird for those reasons. personally, i don't think its acceptable for kids at your age to be having sex. infact, i think its dangerous, but those are my oppinions.
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okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared! (link)
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yeah, i haven't had my period since then either, and i got my period in like 1999. your just irregular. that or maybe i'm suffering from overian cancer, but i doubt it. you're just irregular.
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ok my friends thought that i cut myself which I DONT! i didnt no it but they were all talking about me and saying that i did.. i no that they were worried but they didnt even come to me about it and they were like spreading rumors about it (only our group and a few other ppl heard tho). also some friends were talking and saying that i couldnt express myself bcuz i copied my bestfriend in 4th grade... hmm im in 9th now.. and i express myself ALOT. im really hurt that they were talking this shit behind my back and not coming to me and sayin i cant express myself
should i b mad??
thanx (link)
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yep. you should absolutely be pissed off with them for starting up lies about you
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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
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you think about them more times in a day than you think about anything else (in a positive light). when you see them, you are the happiest you've ever been. You're happy when you think you're going to see him/her and you're exctatic afterward. You would die for them (yeah i know thats a movie thing, but its true). You don't know how you'd live with out them in your life. there's nothing you wouldn't do for them in the whole world. With them is the only place you ever want to be. basically, you just want to spend the rest of your life with them.
well thats me anyway.
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Im in student council and we have elections for officers (pres, vice pres, secretary, treasurer) tomorrow. I kinda wanna run for vp but my friend wants to do that too and i don't wanna run against her becuz i don't want to run against a friend. I could possibly win but i don't want to do that to her and if i don't get to do my job with the class officers (not student council officers) i'm gonna be mad. We decided that we were gonna nominate each other, but i'm not sure i want that responsibility that comes with the job. I don't want to run for any other positions because i don't quite think i can do those as well. On the other hand, if i don't run, i can still do my job as a regular student council memeber and hang out with my other friends. Should i run for vp or just not run at all? plz help soon. the elections are tomorrow. (link)
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run for prez, or say to her, oh but you could do so much better than vp, you should be the president.
run, why not? its not your fault if you win is it?
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Hey Hey,
Well one of my friends hurts herself becasue she is depressed and I found this out from another friend and I wrote a letter to the friend that was hurtin herself that she shouldn't do that and that too many ppl love her and that we don't know what we would do without her and she said that she just needs ppl to understand her and I said I would. But now the friend that told me about my depressed friend is mad at me because I supposidily promised her that I wouldn't tell anyone that I knew. I don't know what to do. Should I forget it? The friend that is mad at me was one of my best friends. HELP! (link)
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umm, its probably just her depression getting to her, and she thought she could trust you or what ever and slowly her world is crumbling apart now. well, so i've heard anyway.
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OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
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tell her that :
there is no same in aborstion. an aborstion was designed for a girl who gets in trouble at a very young age, and she is.
she doesn't need to tell her mom (well, at least in massachusetts) to get an aborstion, but it would be to her benifit if she did because moms make everything better.
you love her, and your there for her, and her boyfriend loves her.
(her boyfriend has to pay money to support the baby if your trying to make her laugh)
now might not be the best time to mention:
that having a baby at such a young age would screw up her life so badly that she has no idea.
that if she had the baby, she might not be able to go to school.
that it wouldn't be faire to the baby if it was born to an (no offence, but i mean finaically) unstable mother.
just make it clear that you love her and your there for her. tell her she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to do. she needs to tell her mom though if she wants things taken care of right. if she doesn't feel right telling her mom that, then she needs to contact an adult, like a teacher, and tell them so they can get her the medical attention she needs.
i hope everything works out alright for your friend.
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hey im 16 years old/male
ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs
ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me (link)
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ok, if you love her that much, screw your parents and date her. ask your parents wtf is up? like why do they suddenly hate your gf?
yes, it should. you're parents shouldn't completely rule your life.
meet them. absolutely meet them.
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hi! okay well im 11 and i just started my period! ahh! well i live with my grandparents and my grandma is on her way home right now but i havent called her and told her. when she gets home what are some good lines to say to her? plz help! i rate really good! (link)
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hey grandma, i got my period
grandma, do you have any pads/tampons (pads are better)?
yeah, thats about it. theres not much you can do about it. your grandma isn't going to be mean or something, like seriously, EVERYONE goes through it, and it sucks. sorry.
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ok im 12 and i have a 36c cup and my breasts hang down real low(not like an old ladies though) and sumtimes i have lumps that r felt from the inside...do i have breast cancer???? and is the hanging a sign????? im so scared....help! (link)
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if you're really that scared, you should go see your doctor.
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I have to play the piano in front of about 100 people in like, three hours, and I'm leaving in twenty minutes because I have to be there early. Anyway, I've done it before, but I was like ten so I didn't care what I sounded like. I have the song memorized and I'll still have the music in front of me, I've played it a zillion times, but I am INCREDIBLY nervous. I'm naturally a nervous person. My stomach is already in knots and when I think about it my palms sweat. The last time I played, I tried to be loud and my fingers and hands were so sweaty they slipped off the keys. Any experiances or help?
~Laura~ (link)
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umm yeah. i'm in a string group that consists of players from 6th grade to 12th. i was in sixth grade and it was my first concert with them. well when i was walking on stage, i tripped over a stand and fell flat on my viola (like a violin but you knew that). umm it broke and died. i couldn't play in that concert and the seniors made fun of me for the rest of the year, and my stand partner still makes funn of me.
pretend your in your room (or where ever your piano is) and that there's no one in the world there listening.
or maybe theres some one special you can dedicate it to (in your head) and that will make you play great. i do that for big basketball games. i always play well after i do that.
good luck. i wish i played the piano. saxophone and viola just isn't enough any more. lol
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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ok, legally you are. i'm fifteen, personally i don't think so. you guys just have to wait four years (for you to be 18) before you can get married. that might be too long, but you know what, i really hope it works out for you guys. thats wicked sweet! seriously, thats like made my day.
it might be difficult for you guys because your so young. like, i can't imagine being engaged at such an young age. but because you say you really love him, and obviously he really loves you, i think you guys can make it.
just like don't be all together shocked if he was like just kidding or something assinine like that. hey i'll bet your bf is amazing, but boys are boys and well, for the most part, stupid.
best of luck to you!
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OK I'm a 15/f and I'm white.. and my boyfriend's black. It makes no diffrence to me .. I dont care at all but I think my dad does. Eventually he's going to meet my Dad and I'm so afraid of what my Dad's going to say. He doesn't know about my boyfriend yet. My dad's a little bit intimidating and I dont want him to scare my boyfriend or anything because I really like him a lot. I think we're going to last a long time, but I'm so scared of what my Dad's going to do or say. What should I do to make this easier ? (link)
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unless you come flat out that your bf is african american, you really can't make this any easier for your dad, not that i think its really going to be a problem. i'm sure your dad will be fine with it.
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Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.
I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.
What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.
I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.
Thanks! (link)
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take a deep breathe, and sing, let it all out. belt it out. kiss the audiance with your voice.
as for where to start, record a cd, then send it out to an agent. do talent shows at fairs and stuff. sign up for every single tallent showout there.
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