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can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.

Duuude.
The axe affect only works if you're wearing pheonix.
So get it.

--Social Suicide

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this year I want to dress more preppy. What are some styles that look preppy? I rate very high!

Fucking media can kiss my ass.
Look around and copy everyone else. That seems to be the latest style.

--Social Suicide

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Does anyone know of a good but slightly unknown (meaning other than Alternative Press or Rolling Stone or Fader or Lollipop or MoJo) magazine having to do with music that I could order online?

Kerrang [Spelling?] Thrasher, Alternative Music Press [AMP]
Just go into Hot Topic and gaze at the magazines and try a .com to it.

--Social Suicide

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Wow guys OK i have a probelm. My "best friend" is a boy stealer. Every guy i have ever liked has started liking her. And everytime i confront her about it shes like "Oh i didnt do anything to make him like me". But everytime she talks to a guy shes real flirty soo they start to like her.And it gets on my nerves a lot because i like this guy named eric and she always talks to him on aim and myspace and even the PHONE! i meen does she not get it??? and so his best friend thinks he is starting to liek her and sooo i am really pissed at her...becasue she was like i dont like him an dhow can u let a boy come between us .i know she does you shuld see the messages on myspace..but am i being too overreacted here or what?? please help i rate high!!!

14/F

Oh wee. I have friends like this!

Talk to the guys and talk about her. They'll probably see your point of view.
Anywho, seriously talk to your friend about feeling lonely/pissed.
If she doesn't understand, you have no business with her and you should slap her and call her a whore.

--Social Suicide

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i used to be a cutter right? And at some times i still am. I went through a lot in my childhood and am just recoving from a consequential 3 years of depression. But thats not the problem its this: i have this crazy compulsion with picking at my skin. it has nothing to do with cutting, and i dont think it has anything to do with depression. Like, i do it all the time, even when im happy. theres no emotion at all attached to it, except sum kind of bizzare need, i guess. i cant help it. i did it like a little bit before, but no its so much worse! once i start i cant tear myself away. i make myself bleed. i cause scars and i hate it. Does anybody know anything about this? Anything similar? Any ideas? i'll rate high for good answers.

That's called threading, my dear.

You probably have a mental disorder [Like the hair-pullers] and you can get medications.

But do what ever you'd like to do.

--Social Suicide

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Okay well.. weird question to ask. I'm getting over SI. Like I'm still trying to stop. And I'm not suicidal anymore. Sometimes tho just my emotions come back from SI at the wrong time. I will be all like ya you don't care. And I know they do. And I know how it feels for that to be said to...

But does anyone have any idea to help me get away from being this way like I am?

I started a scrap book to write down memories and have pictures of the ones who care. It takes my mind off of that scheiss long enough to forget about it and it kind of makes me happy.

--Social Suicide

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Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this?

My journal is my best friend.
Maybe you can get one and your journal can be friends with my journal.

--Social Suicide

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I hate myself. Does anyone have any ideas to stop a persons perceptions of things, or path of thinking change? I dont beleive in any kind of religion and i beleive that there is no reason to anything and that life and existance in general is just so pointless. If people live to be happy and content, yet are mainly overcome by other stronger emotions such as pain and anger what is the point of living? there is no afterlife its just nothing. why be afraid of something you wont be aware of. why bother searching for peace of mind which you already know you will never get. each and everyone of us are unique so no one is. no one will remember me when i die because i have had no impact upon anyone. i have achieved nothing and have had nothing able to be achieved because of how many billions of people in the world that are better then me. nothing has meaning me running around in an endless circle compared to going to school and learning are of about the same value. .. should i get help?

You nihilist

--Social Suicide

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I am 13/f and my parents won't let me remove the hair on my legs. I do anyway but only with a temporary razor that doesn't belong to me. I know why I can't remove hair from my legs, but I want to anyway. My parents are also overprotective and won't let me go to the store with my friends and know parents. If my friends parents see me buying a hair-removing device they will forbid me and tel my parents. If I buy a hair-removing device and my parents catch me they will kick me out of the house (I should know). How do I get a hair-removing device without my parents knowing? Please don't say buy it from a friend or walk to the store!

Heh, hair removing device, hah.
Any who
Your parents could be voted fags of the year.
Sit down and ask them if they want to raise a good daughter and you don't want this damned hair on your legs!
Ask to borrow a friends or something.

--Maddy

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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react..

If he truely has feelings for you, he can put up with his hand for a few more months/years/how ever long it takes. [Phahaha]
But seriously, if he can't wait call him a manwhore and exit.

--Social Suicide

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school starts september 7th so i definitely need to dye my hair, get my nails done, get a haircut, etc. lately, i've heard of people asking to get their hair 'thinned' when getting a haircut. i've seen the the results and the hair looks different. like the texture. so my question is: what is hair thinning? how do they do it? what does it do to your hair?.. do you think it looks good?

thanks in a advance! i rate 5's.

Hair thinning involves thinning shears. Which is like scissors but one blade is like a comb.
All they do is thin out your hair [Thinning thins your hair. Who would have ever thought]
It makes your hair look less, well, thick?
it's completly painless.

--Social Suicide

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my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and like all of a sudden i felt like alot of watery stuff..and i blamed it on him and was like u CUMMED on me..and he was like i didn't i didn't even feel anything..and so he takes the blame and says sorry..but still promises he didn't feel a thing and so i get up and notice the sheets are really wet only to find blood all over them..meaning that wet stuff was ME bleeding..is it possible to bleed THAT much? i mean it was everywhere

Maybe he "popped your cherry".
It could've been your period.
Maybe he did do something?

--Maddy

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what does "jocking" and "hot linking" mean on xanga icon sites?

Jocking--Taking/using other people's stuff without giving them credit or saying that it is yours.

Hot linking-Basicially, you right clicked and put it on your site. You need to save it to your computer and upload it to your own photobucket or whatever else site you may have account.

--Social Suicide

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okay,

im 13 and i am this

hieght::: 4'9
weight::: 60 lbs

a few questins that has to do with that.

1) is that NORMAL?


2) i wanna gain, but i only eat sugar and meat. i just stay the same. i eat alot of fast foods, and i stay the same!

3) i want to gaim 5 pounds by school starts.. aka 3 weeks. can that happen?


please answer..... DONT SAY


1) lift weights.


2) eat veggies


and all of that stuff, like, you know.

ill rate higher then 5!

Ohkay stop eating all the time. I had a friend who was as tiny as you, and her matabolism slowed up and she gained every ounce of what she didn't gain before.
You are a little short for being thirteen. But every body was built different.
Eating meat and putting on muscle will deffinatly help you out.

--Social Suicide

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ok, i just got off the phone with my bf and...well....he asked me to make out with him and i said yes bc i really do want to make out with him. but he has never made out before and either have i. but i told him that i have...i know i know..it was wrong and ive learned my leson about lying..blah blah blah ok i just want to know how to do it and stuff. i will rate a 5 to whoever gives good advice and doesnt give me a name of a website. PLEASE HELP ME!

Ohkay. Calm down.
Acually it's kind of better that neither of you have done it before.
Just do whatever feels right. Get your tongue in there and it's all good!
If it's mutual, then it shouldn't matter.

--Social Suicide

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i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps.

Light blue and brown? Light blue and orange? Light blue and lime green?


--Social Suicide

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I like this guy, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He's hinted to me pretty strongly that he likes me, but I'm not sure. What should I do? Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see if he asks me out? By the way, I'm a girl and I'm 14.

If you wait, he might move on.
Just ask when he's "hinting" if he likes you or something. Kind of go all "What's that saposed to mean, huh!?"
I dunnoh. Just got for it.
You're only fourteen once.

--Social Suicide

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13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice.

Go for it. If you're really worried, bring a friend along with you or something.
But usually you can tell their age by their voice.

--Social Suicide

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how do you get your boyfriend to stop cutting..? please help me..=(

Been there. Done that.

Tell him that he doesn't neet a razorblade to solve his problems;; that he has you. Tell it hurts you when he cuts himself and that you're always there to talk.

It takes time

--Social Suicide

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Does anyone know any exercises that can help me get rid of the excess fat on my sides, right above my hipbones? Nothing I do seems to work and I'm finding it hard to maneuver myself to wear I'm targeting that area.

Thanks in advance.

Oh good lord I have that problem, too!

What you need to do is a crunch but go off to the right and then to the left
Like that. It burns the side fat, I think...

--Social Suicide

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