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im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
i rate well!
aww sweety it's ok. you shouldn't feel self conciouse a/b your body at all! if the guy that you are going to do it with really cares a/b you then he won't think anything less of you because of your body. and trust me, when he sees you naked it'll be a really big turn on for him;-) just have fun and don't worry about it:-) he'll love it!*
i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?
sorry that was so confusing.
if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up.
ok it's not that hard to think about. ask NATHAN out!! hello? if you like the guy so much then why would you ask another guy out instead? it just doesnt make any sense:-/
hi i moved july 6 and well i have the oppourtunity to stay at my school where i was going before i only have one more year ( going into 7th) and but i can go to a diff school if i want (it a long story) welll if i go to the new school i can start over but im not sure if i want to and if i go to the same school it will be the same ol' borin stuff!! well i need help and i will rate only 4's and 5's so? can you help?
well if you going to the same school you're going to now will only be "the same boring stuff" then why don't you go to the other skool instead? Hay you can always make new friends, get in a different learning environment and experience some things you never thought you would
This is such a ridiculously common question...
For about 1 1/2 years I've liked this guy. He's totally awsome and we get along really great. We're in to a lot of the same things and talk for hours at a time. I pretty much have became one of his friends (I spent a year trying to reach that point) But it's summer now I haven't really said anything to him the whole 2 months. School starts in a week and all of my friends and some of his closest friends want us to go out, but I haven't talked to him for 2 months so I don't know if we'll be friends anymore. I've pretty much come to the conclusion I'm going to ask him out. But when do I do it?
before you ask him out, why don't you try hanging out with him first? Call him up and see if he wants to go see a movie with you or have lunch or something? That way, you both can talk and catch up on how each of your summer has been. After you 2 have hung out for a couple of times, then you should make your move
Hey Amber thanks for the advice, i talked to chris today and he doesnt believe karl so he told me not to worry about anything......thanks for calming me down and everything....it all worked out....and yes karl is still being a prick but oh well...now that i think about it he was always jelouse of what me and chris have...so i shouldnt of worried in the first place...but u know us girls lol....well anyways thanks your always a help!
Mandy
Hay mandy! I'm beyond happy that everything worked out for you!:-D and im so glad that i could be of help to you:-D yea karl is just an asshole so screw him! but all in all im very happy for you n chris n i hope things work out for the best of ya:-D
I'm going into my senior year of high school and I have or will be taking all the required classes in order to graduate. I was wondering most college say you need 3 years of science I've taken two and then I've taken 3 year of History will that 3rd year of History make-up for me missing that 3rd year of Science. I have all the other requirements such as math and english. thanx for the help
nope. You can't cheat your way out of it by using a credit from another subject. You just gotta take science your senior year
i dont know what to do. i have dis boyfriend but we NEVA hang out! like NEVA! and i cant call him cuz i dun got long distance (he lives like 20 minutes away but in the same state) so he only calls me once a day, which sucks. i miss being single, but if i tell him hell think ima hoe! i wanna go back ta school and not have ta deal wit a boyfriend in the beginning, i juz wanna have fun wit all mah guy friends and girl friends! and ima flirt.. i admit it, but i cant help it, im not a hoe, i only flirt... i really need help. shud i dump him? and if i shud how shud i say it? i really need help ova here...
italian_diamond
You obviously don't seem happy with him. i think you should break up with him. you can tell him by sayin sumthin like "i dont think we should be a couple anymore because we barely get to see each other and i barely get to talk to you. plus i really don't want to be in a relationship right now" If he thinks you're a hoe because of that then screw him. besides itd only be one person who thought that.
My husband and I are adopting a cat today from the Humane Society. The cat is 4 years old, and has not been declawed. I feel it would be inhumane to do declaw her, but I am worried about her scratching my furniture, and me as well. Does anyone have any alternitives to declawing, or how to prevent her from scratching the furniture.
And any other tips for a new cat owner would be appriciated.
just declaw it. it's just a little operation the kitty goes through n trust me you'll be happy you did, because it wont be able to scratch you or ur furniture up. before ne of this happens though take ur new cat home n see how it reacts to the house. since it's 4 years old it shouldn't be too hyperactive. so it shouldnt be all a/b scratchin up ur house or you *on purpose*
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this is a response to the feedback you gave me. it would be tramatic for any cat to get their claws taken out. n if you would have read a little more carefully i told you that you should take the cat home to see how it reacts to the place. that way you can see if it claws up ur furniture or not, so then you'll know if you have to find something to do about it if it was clawing it up! if it does scratch then get a scratch post for it. but im telling you, declawing it would be so much easier.
umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx
your not done growing just yet. you still have time to grow some more. don't worry a/b your friends being the same size as you either because every girl is different..
i think i might have a crush on my best frineds boyfriend but u dnt wanna say anything but wut should i do?
don't even bother with him. go find some other guy to crush on
Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed
I think he's either confused on what he wants in life or he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings. when i mean hurting your feelings, maybe he's debating on the fact to tell you that he really doesnt like her when he does, or to just say that he does like her. now im not sure what the true answer to that question is because im not inside his head, but that could be a possiblity of what he's doing. I know that being attached to someone for a long time can be really hard and i know that you want him to be happy. But he's only 15 years old and when they're that young they're still really immature. You both are still very young and you've got your whole life ahead of you to find that special someone in your life. If i were you i'd give it a rest for a little while with you 2 having a relationship together again, until he knows what he wants to do. that way, you don't have to get your hopes up for nothing
I love my boyfriend very much, but I spend 90 percent of my time critiquing his driving skills when I am in the car with him. I don't do this with anyone else. When I drive, I would get horribly mad if he did this, but he is an angel. I do drive occasionally, and he really isn't that bad of a driver. So other than giving up my chauffeur, what else can I do to focus on something besides badgering him like a freak?
Look at the scenery around you. or try to pick up a nice conversation with him. once your so into it you won't notice how hes driving that much
I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know??
First you should break up with your girlfriend and stop waisting her time if you like another girl. then, start hanging out with the other girl *the one you like* so you 2 can get to know each other better. then before you know it you'll know if she actually likes you or not.
I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.
Go for a stroll in the park or go out to eat for some dinner. That way you 2 can communicate and you can get to know him better:-)
Yeah im back again..... i told you id have more problems....my life is one big soap opra. Ok well heres a toughy...i was hanging out with michael again and my freind karl and we all went by Alex's house and well the put in a stupid movie so im like fuck this im going for a walk well Michael came with whch i had no problem with well where we walked if u look out alex's window u can see us perfectly, well we were walking and 20 minutes later karl got in his car and started racing over to us and he slammed on his break and was like what the fuck are u guys doing, and im like talking why hes like i fucking seen you guys making out, and i laughed b/c anyone who knows me knows i wouldnt cheat on chris, well anways i was like haha ok jokes over karl hes like mandy i fucking seen it with my own eyes you two made out im like omg no we didnt and we didnt hes like u guys stopepd walking got really close and started kissing and michael was like fuck this no we werent and so we sat there and faught for over 20 minutes aabout it, and i was like u know me better than that karl u know i wouldnt cheat on my boyfreind hes like yeah i thought i knew u better than that too.......and now today hes going around telling everyone im cheating on my boyfreind and everyones believeing him b/c me and michael spend alot of time together....and i swear on my life i did not make out with michael thats bull shit, and i dunno what chris is gonna do when he gets back b/c karls his best best freind and i mean i would believe my best freind if she told me my guy was cheating on me what if chris belives his? i mean i dont wanna get dumped for something i didnt do and iv been going crazy all fucking day i have so much on my mind its not even funny and this just made it worse.....what should i do? thanks your a big help!
Mandy
aww yes this is a very tough situation here! To me it seems like chris's best friend is trying to break you 2 up or something. I'm sorry to say this but there isn't much you can really do about it at the moment. When chris gets back all you can do is tell him that you never made out with michael and you would NEVER EVER cheat on him! and just keep repeating yourself over and hopefully he'll get the message. That is all really messed up though:-/ I mean how could he have seen you to makeing out if you never did? did he see someone else or something? because yea this is all bullshit! Maybe you shouldn't hang out w/michael as much as you do now. Like you should still hang out with him and everything since you guys are good friends! but i'd keep it to a certain extent just because you have a certain asshole who is trying to screw everything up for you. If chris is allowed receiving letters then write him a letter as soon as you can explaining the whole story, that way he'll know wat was going on before he comes home. but if he can't receive them then just wait for when he comes home and talk to him as soon as you can a/b the story.Hopefully he won't break up with you over any of this nonsense, but if he does break up with you because of it then A)he's not worth it and B)he'll eventually come crawling back to you realizing what a big mistake he made. I wish the best of luck to ya hun! n i hope my advice was at least a little helpful to ya. If ya ever need to talk to anyone you can always IM me at sexyblueyezgurl. good luck!
the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
don't even bother. any guy who pressures you to do something you don't want to do is definitly NOT worth it! besides, what if you did have sex with him and then he broke up with you the next week? Then you'd regret it n that's not kewl. so don't even bother with him because he's not worth your time
Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed
screw the people. If you're happy with your boyfriend then keep it that way. Yea i can understand that it's prolly annoying hearing all of the laughs and remarks they're making, but you gotta realize that they're being really stupid and immature about the whole thing and you just gotta keep trying to brush it off. What remarks are they making exactly? Get back to me on that one...
I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?
dress up. do your hair and makeup and maybe wear a cute skirt or sumthin. guys usually like that stuff. but don't change all of your ways just because you want to get noticed or anything. just be urself
When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do?
just wait! trust me, the longer you wait the better it will be. and you should be thankful that he respected your morals in the first place and actually wanted to wait until you were 16
How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?
eh you shouldnt bleed too much. it's not going to be a couple of spots but it's not going to be a big puddle either