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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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My niece is turning three years old and my sister is going to throw her a birthday party. My sister wants an original birthday party. What we have so far is a safari party and bumblebee party. Any suggestions would be helpful. Also maybe something to put on the invitations to go with the theme. Thanks in advanced!
My little sister always loved the princess theme. On the invitaion make it like a roayal ball and they can all come in their little dresses and play princess games with tea and such.
Hope i helepd =]
My grades are slipping, I can't figure out why. I need some ways to stay organized and on task, good study techniques, how to keep focus during class, and get things in on time.
Thank you!! :]
Ive had this problem and i know its way hard to deal with! but when my grades started slipping i went to class, turned my phone off and didnt pay attention to anyone or anything but the teacher. The second you get home do your homework, that way you dont start on something else and decide not to do it. Keep a list of all of your homework and check off what you have done. Check your grades regularly and write down any missing assignments and talk to your teachers a lot.
I hope i helped =] if you need anything else just ask!
Been married 22 years in 2 weeks.Husband served in military for 23 years became disabled while serving in military. i have never been thin probably gained 15 pounds since marrying. Have 2 grown children problem is this when we have an argument he always goes there. He says I would have thought by now you might have lost weight but all you are is fat. I dont know if he says it out of anger or really means it. All I know is it really hurts. I would love to lose weight but somewhere I lost who I really am. Can someone help me
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask him if he really isnt happy with your body or if he just says it while he is mad. Dont hide that it hurts you, let him know that it does. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Tell him that you want to loose weight but its not an easy thing and a little encouragement from him would be nice.
Hope i helped =]
People say my eyes are really pretty in the light; they say they look like the inside of a kiwi and they sparkle. Is there any make up (no eyeshadow) that would bring out that characteristic??
Try using other greens to compliment you eye color, maybe a lighter green and a smokey green, or even try some light browns. I have intense green eyes and these work for me.
Hope i helped =]
If you have given and received oral sex does that mean you're not a virgin?
You are still considered a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina.
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I'm a 15 year old female physically active with very soon-to-be 18 year old guys. One is a fuck buddy who raped me at age 14 but for some reason after it all happened I was too confused to leave. The other's my good friend. They're both 18 in less than a month. Is this illegal and, if so, am I putting either of them in any danger?
thanks
Ok, im not trying to tell you what to do here but if your still having sex with the guy that raped you, there is something wrong with that. If he raped you and now your having sex with him he is going to think that it was ok to rape you and in other words that you "liked" it. Stop having sex with the kid that raped you, talk to someone about it and get out of your confusion. The other kid go ahead and do what you want, as far as you've told me he's done nothing wrong. As for getting in trouble it depends on where you live. In most states he could get into a lot of trouble. But talk to him and see how he feels about it.
Hope i helped =]
I have an old coin that I would like to sell since I am having some really bad financial times. How would I go about selling my coin? Are their rare coin dealers or do I have to take it to like a pawn shop?
Thank you!
Well this all depends on where you live, but most cities have a coin shop where they buy, sell and trade coins. Look there! But dont just sell because you think its a good deal, some of them will try to rip you off. Do some research on your coin and find out its value and then go from there.
Hope i helepd =]
16/f
k this is super complicated.
first off, ive been on birth control for about 3 months.... k so on to the situation!:
so theres this guy who ive known for about 14 years, hes my brothers best friend and his family and my family are REALLY good friends, but anyways, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, hes 20 btw, well me and him ended up having sex. the first time we did it it was october 31st, i got my period after that though. then we didnt have sex untill december 23 ( we didnt use a condom ) then after that we had sex on january 2ed, we also didnt use a condom, but he pulled out before he came. k so now on top of that, my last period was on 12/19 and it only lasted on day (not normal!) but im thinking that was probably because i have just barely began taking birth control pills 3 months ago.. and now i was supposed to get my period a like a week ago, and i still havent gotten it, and im REALLLY scared that im pregnant. im going to take a pregnancy test tomarow. OH and the worst part is that the guy ended up being a jerk even though we basically grew up together and our families are really close, he doesnt talk to me, and told his friend which is my friend also that he didnt wanna mess with me anymore, and i havent talked to him in like a week, so if i am idk how hes gonna react, and i really wouldnt know how to tell my parents, and im scared if i am to tell them cause my parents will FLIP cause this guy wasnt even my bf, =/ ughh i don know what to do. and i don knowww about abortion, thats scary to me, and i don knowww!!!! ughhh helpppppp!!!!?
Well dont tell him until you know for sure. And if you are talk to him, you guys will have to figure this out together. if your going to get an abortion you dont nesisarily have to tell your parents. You can go to your local Plan ParentHood and everything there is confidential. If you guys deicide to keep the baby i would suggest you both sitting down with eachothers parents seperately and talking to them about it... But dont worry about all this yet you period could just be late or messed up from your birth control! Let me know if you need anything else!
Hope i helped =]
Next month, our school is having its version of a Sadie Hawkins dance, where the girls ask the guys.
The guy I'm planning on asking is one of my good friends and I like him, and I think there's a pretty good chance that he also likes me back. I'm a year ahead of him in school but that's not really important.
Anyway, this is the way I might ask him and I was just looking for some opinions before I go ahead and do it.
I have a small jar/bowl about the size of a bowl you would use for a beta fish. I tied ribbon around the rim and inside, I filled it with origami lucky stars.
I'm going to put a note with it saying:
"These are origami lucky stars; a jar of them is supposed to bring good luck.
They've already done this for you: you're getting asked to Winter Karnival. I was hoping that maybe they'd bring me some next and that you would say yes to going with me."
I might also put stickers on the outside of the bowl that spell out the name of our dance.
If I don't do the note, I would put the stickers on some of the stars and have him find the ones with stickers and unscramble them, but I personally like the note idea better.
Anyway, any opinions on this would be helpful. (: My plan isn't set in stone yet, so chances can be made.
Thanks in advance!
I think that this is a really cute idea =] and very creative! I also like your note idea its simple and easy for him!
Good luck, hope i helped and let me know how it goes! =)
hey there is a couple of girls in my school that dont like me.. i seriously dont know why,today i whent with my friend to get a lunch and they were just starring at me..but i didnt stare at them back..i pretended i didnt see them ...it really bothers me when people dont like me because i never done anything bad to them ,and this girl when i pass by her she stares at me,,and no i dont have the guts to go up to her and confront er about this because i know this would just start a fight and am not up for this..so can you please tell me what to do ? thannks
In all honesty girls will be girls which means girls will be bitches. Girls never have a real reason to give you dirty looks they just do it to make you mad. Most likely they are jealous and they can tell that it bugs you so.. they keep doing it. Next time one of them gives you a dirty look just look at them and smile, i know this sounds way weird but it works! they may laugh the first couple of times but just laugh back, ignore it. I promise you its going to bug them and eventually they will stop =]
Hope i helped =]
I am a song writer and i want to know where you get inspiration for writing songs or where i can find mine, im stuck , i cant find a theme to write about , help????
When i used to write it seemed like the only thing that made sense to write was things that had happened or were happening to me. Its easy to put exactly what your feeling into a song. When i get mad or sad i write because thats when all of your emotions come out. Im not sure if this will work for you but give it a try!
Hope i helped =]
does anyone have experience going there?
if so, please share the steps about how to go about the following:
A) going on birth control w/o parents knowing
B) getting the morning after pill
thanks in advance!
You can go there and they have a policy that your files cant be seen and they cant say anything about you ever being there, they wont call you or contact you in any way.
Just go in and ask them about it and for it. They will set you up! give it to you, answer questions whatever you need!
Hope this helped =]
what does it mean when a guy texts you, and you respond, but then he doesn't text back?
he has a girl. and he knows i like him.
what do i do?
Well he might have been busy, or maybe he was hanging out with his girl and didnt want to be rude and text you while he was with her, or maybe his girlfriend saw his texts, got suspicious and asked him to stop texting you. A lot of things could have hapened here. But dont worry it will all work out =] Maybe next time he texts you ask him why he didnt text you back?
Hope i helped =]
Okay so thereS this guy and we've been talking for awhile but him and his girlfriend recently brokeup and i see them talk at school and hug and i'm scared there gonna get back together cause they went out for like ayear but he flirts with me alot but everyone thinks there gonna get back together :( should i just give upon him and move on? or should i keep flirting with him? when we talk he seems to like me...but i don't know what to do! can anyone help?
thanks in advance :)
In my opinion... Give up. If they went out for that long and are still talking they are most likely going to get back together... Im not saying this to make you mad or anything but im pretty sure you dont want your heart broken and you dont wanna piss his girl off cause i dont see a need for drama. If he texts you or talks to you thats fine but dont get too attached.
Good Luck Hope i helped =]
19/female.
So i'm not going to lie, i always get attention around guys, i'm use to it and love it. I'm an outgoing girl, i just love to have fun and don't care what people think about me. My best friend, she is okay looking, but every guy always tells me how i'm hotter than her and nobody really thinks she is pretty. I do feel bad for her, but obviously i don't tell her they say that. Well anyways, there was this cute guy that she was interested in and i didn't think anything was going to happen with it because she is a really shy girl, she's never kissed a guy before or anything and never had a boyfriend and this guy is the exact opposite. Well we ended up hanging out with him last night and he was giving her all the attention and texting her all night. I get it, me and my cousin were trying to hook them up. I was jealous though, that was the FIRST time ever that i wasn't getting the attention and i hated it. I was soooo bored. And when my friend texts him, she always asks me what to say so its basically like me talking to him? DUMB. But it's like my friend is rubbing it in my face that he thinks she is cute because she is always like "OMG he said this, he said i was cute .. blaaa." Now i'm not trying to sound selfish, like a bad friend or anything but i'm not use to this. And i don't do that to her at all, i don't say "haha yeah all guys think i'm hot" obviously i'm not like that to her that would be just annoying. But what am i suppose to do? I'm getting pretty annoyed of this situation, she is always talking about him and now we're all hanging out again tonight .. great. I know i sound like a self centered person but i'm just use to getting so much attention because i'm an outgoing girl and i guess guys think i'm hot, that when a guy doesn't pay attention to me and pays attention to my friend .. i get jealous. I really do want to be happy for her, but i don't know how without being annoyed.
I completely understand this situation... but the reason she is telling you all this is because she is usually feeling how you are right now... Im sure she knows that guys give you attention and not her. So now that one cute guy is finally paying attention to her and not you she is excited. She honestly isnt trying to rub it in your face she probaly has no idea she is even doing it. She is just happy that it is her getting the attention for once.
Just let her enjoy this moment. Even though your jealous be happy for her and help her out.
Hope i helped =]
Hi, my boyfriend (19, 15 at the time) had a girlfriend that lasted for four months four years ago. I have been his girlfriend for 14 months. I saw on one of his AIM conversations with a girl and said that he still likes/loves the girl brittany, but its hard to say love because he loves me. and that he thinks about her all the time and that it kills him whenever he thinks about her. I remember i was in the car with him once and he looked in his rearview mirror and said "OMG ITS BRITTANY!" and i was like "okay, shes ugly as shit" and he goes "hmph." i was like oh okay. We were at a stop sign for about 10 minutes, as he was staring at her in the rearview mirror.
only a couple months into our relationship we got into a fight about a roumer that he heard that i still liked my abusive ex boyfriend. he broke up with me the next day.
do you think i have a right to talk to him about this? the girl that he told said she wouldnt tell anyone and he said good because it was really bad and that if she told anyone he would know it was her, and that no one else knows about it but him.
I mean, i was looking back in his chat history so he would know i was snooping, i could say she told me but her and i arent even friends. but i dont know what i should do. helpp! he goes back up to college tmorrow and i wanna talk about this face to face.
Honestly i would talk to him. Just bring her up in your conversation one day. Be like babe i feel like our relationship is strong and is going really well but ever since that time we were driving together and you saw brittany it has made me worry and wonder if you still have feelings for her... If he tells you know you'll know that he is lying and you are going to have to confrint him about this.
If you want to keep looking at his conversation history then dont let him know how you found out.. if you dont care then tell him that you were just messin around and happened to come up on this conversation with that girl.
If he tells you that he still likes her then maybe give him space to figure out what he wants. Bring up the time when he broke up with you becase of a rumor and that you know this is true. I know this will be hard but its something that needs to be brought up that way you dont get hurt in the future!
Hope i helped && good luck! =]
Im nurvous on having my first kiss i dont know how 2 do it!!! Should it be when were walking 2 his house 2 study, or @ the movies???????
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is no certain way to kiss, you just kind of learn with experience. And dont worry about where its at just kiss him when it feels right. Trust me you will know! Good luck!
Hope i helped =]
ok so the other day i made my boyfriend cookies because he was feeling down. so he called me and was like thankss babe so much your the best girlfriend ever..etc. thats why i loveee you so much... and then.he said. idc if somepeople don't think your attractive...
WHAT was that supposed to mean..
i don't think he meant to hurt me..but haha what does that mean?
I would ask him about it. Most likely he didnt mean it like that. A lot of guys will say stuff like that to make you feel like they are the only ones that care about you, but then again most guys dont think about things before they say it.... Talk to him and ask him what he meant.
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im turning 17 in a few days & im still a virgin.
i havent fooled around much either cause im waiting for the right guy i guess (not cause im ugly or something)
is this okaii? cause ive noticed that most girls start doing stuff when theyre like 14 and lose their virginity with 16.
:S
In my opinion i think its good that your waiting for someone special to share this with. Most people just throw it around like its nothing. Well it is something. You want your first time doing things to be with someone whom you care about and they care about you.
Dont worry what everyone else has done it has nothing to do with what you want and believe. and no one is going to care if you have done stuff or not.
Hope i helped =]
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ok not really. he is my frist boyfriend and well i know he likes me alot and stuff. but what if like i know if he run in old freind if it woman and if i seen woman flarting or something. what can do show he is mine! plus even they might not relize he with me you know?
I wouldnt worry about it too much. I know its hard and you get jealous and all that. But most likely he talks about you to everyone he knows (yes including girls) If you want you could even talk to him about how you feel, I bet he wouldnt have a problem telling them that he is with you or even having you with him.
Hope i helped =]