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My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high
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Hey hun! I think that you should give him some time to get over Gina, because he's probably not over her yet since they went out for a year. That's a long time! You don't want to rush him into going out with you right away. Make sure you give him enough time to get over his break-up with Gina, and then see how he feels. If you asked him out right away, he would probably feel like he's being rushed and not know what to say. He would probably end up saying yes, and I'm sure you don't wanna go out with someone just because they felt bad about saying no to you! Give him time, and I'm sure he'll start to feel better about things, and It'll give him enough time to get over Gina. I hope it works out for you! Don't rush him into anything yet! I hope I helped ya out! If not, I'm sorry. Bye hun! Good luck! If you have anymore questions, feel free to email me and I'll try to help you out! :)
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okay. i have a blind date this friday. what do i do ? we are going to the movies to see constantine those who have seen it, is it good? look, it's my first blind date ever and i have no idea what it's gonna be like. what do i do if he is gross and like tries to do something in the movie? what do i do if he hates me and i like him? is there anything i can do to make sure i can escape if i need to or something? Please help!
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Hey! I'm sorry I haven't seen that movie. I would suggest that you take a friend with you to the movie, so that you have someone there with you that you know. It would make you feel more comfortable in going. I'm sure since it's the first time you guys are meeting, he won't try to do anything at the movie. If you do take a friend with you, and shes by you, then he probably wouldn't try anything since she's there. Just try to be yourself and make a good impression, and I'm sure he won't hate you when you first meet. Be open with him, and get to the movie maybe a little earlier so that way you guys can sit down and talk about things. Tell him about yourself. You never know, he could end up liking your personality and how you are, and maybe eventually you guys can go out! If the first date goes well, I would suggest going out again. The more you go out, the more you guys might start to like each other! :) If you don't take a friend with you though, then I don't really think you'll have a good time. Trust me, you'll feel a lot comfortable if you have a friend with you when you meet him for the first time! It helped me before when I took a friend with me! If it's really awkward, then just get up with your friend and leave!!!! I hope I helped ya out hun! If not, then I'm really sorry. Good luck! Let me know how it goes! If you ever need anything else, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any questions that you might have. I'm sorry this was so long.
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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back (link)
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If he's not immature and you really like him, then I think you should go out with him. Just tell him how you feel about him! Tell him how you don't like when people are immature, so maybe he'll know not to be like that when you guys are going out. If he's too immature, then just break up with him. I would give him a chance though! Not everyone is immature! You can't say everyone is immature! Hope I helped ya out! Bye hun! Good luck! :)
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OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!! (link)
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I would stay with your mom for a little bit longer if I were you, and see if it gets better at all. If you guys still don't get along, then just tell her that you need a break from staying with her for a while and that you would like to stay with your dad for a while. It might help if you sat down with her sometime, and told her how you feel about it. You should tell her how you and your dad get along, and tell her that you really wish you guys could get along like that. If she knows that you don't like fighting with her, then maybe she'll quit being so hard on you. Stay a little longer, and if things don't work out then live with your dad! I hope I helped! Bye hun! Good luck with everything! Let me know how it goes! :)
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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
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Alot of people aren't ready when their 13, so I would say wait. You need to feel that you are ready, and not just be doing it to try and make the person your going out with stay with you. Alot of times, relationships might seem like they'll work out, but they really don't. Any person should wait until they've found the right person. Noone should just have sex with someone, because they want to make the other person happy, or their afraid of losing them. If your really ready, and you know all the consequences of having sex, then I'd say go for it. Bye hun! Hope I helped ya out! I'm sorry if I didn't.
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hi i hav never worn fake nails until today. I like wearing them but they feel sooo weird. Does the feeling go away or does it stay? (link)
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Hey! Do you mean that you buy them from the store and put them on, or do you get them done professionally? I get them done professionally. I had them done for about 3 years straight, and then I got so sick of them so I got them taken off. I've been getting them taken off, and then put back on all over again. There are times when I can't save up money for fills! At first, they feel really weird. You can hardly do anything with them! After a while though, you get used to them and you don't even remember that you have fake nails on! Just give it time, and you'll get used to em. I hope I helped ya out! Bye hun!
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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff
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Hey! I know how you feel, but you should really tell your mom. When you want to go to the store, you won't have to lie about what your going to get. If she knew about it, you guys would feel more comfortable around each other, and when you need pads or tampons, you could just tell her. Mom's usually like to know these things. It's embarassing, but you should just tell her. Since you don't wanna tell her though, I would just tell her you want to buy make-up, or something for school and have her take you and wait in the car. That would work. When you have cramps, just tell her you don't feel good. You don't have to tell her that your going to be starting your period or anything. That's your choice. You should be able to get pads or tampons though whenever you need them. You would feel a whole lot better though if you would just tell your mom!!!! I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm sorry. Good luck!
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How do you get your husband away from the t.v. and spend time with the children? (link)
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You should tell him that he needs to be spending more time with his children. If he heard it from your children, then maybe he would actually spend more time with them. Your kids are more important than t.v., so he should be able to spend more time with them. If he doesn't spend time with them, then he's not a very good parent. Just tell him that he's not being very good with his children, and that he should be setting a good example for them. He should be spending more time with them, and teaching them new things that they need to know. I hope I helped ya out! If not, I'm sorry. I tried! Good luck with that!
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What are some good prepaid cell phone deals? thanks! (link)
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I have a T-mobile phone. I think it works really good. You can get $10.00 cards, $25.00 cards, $50.00 cards, or $100.00 cards. You can receive text messages for free, but it costs some of your minutes to send them. You can also sign onto AIM on the phone I have, so I like that alot. I hope I helped ya out! If not, I'm sorry. Bye hun!
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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian. (link)
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Hey hun! IM means to instant message someone. Yes, you can talk to someone on AOL, but you have to download it since you have MSN instant messenger. I hope I Helped ya out! If not, then I'm sorry. :) If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com! Bye!
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Hey im 13 years old and im a size 34B and i like to wear sports bra because they are most comfortable on me. The problem is that when I put them on my nipples show through the shirts even when Im wearing a bra. I dont know what to do and I dont want people to assume that im a slut or anything because i think this is gross too. What should I do as far as this issue? (link)
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Hey hun! I would suggest wearing 2 shirts or something if you really have to wear sports bras. Regular bras are alot better though!!!! Their sooo much more comfortable, and you won't have to worry about anyone seeing your nipples. Try wearing 2 shirts over your sports bra, and if it still doesnt work, then go to the store and buy regular bras. I bet you would like them alot better! As people get older, they tend to like regular ones alot better than sports bras. You can get alot of different kinds of regular bras! There's so many colors too! Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! Bye!
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ok um, the girl i'm with as of current LOVES it when i kiss her neck, are there any other spots that make girls go crazy when u kiss them there?
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Alot of girls like it when guys kiss their neck, but girls also like it when guys kiss their cheek, hand, lips, their ears, their back, forehead, or their stomach. The stomach,lips, and neck are the best spots, because they feel so good! I hope I helped ya out! Bye!
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ok what are some good stores that have cheap semi-formal dresses? ive got a dance coming up and i cant find anyting! thanks!
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Hey hun! I only know of 2 stores that have really pretty and cheap dresses. Deb and JcPenny's are really good! My older sis got most of her's at Deb, and they were really really pretty! She looked really good for her dances! I would suggest going to either one of these places! Bye! I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm sorry! :) I'm sure you'll find something really pretty!
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
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Hey sweety! I think that sometime when you guys are together again you should tell him that you want to talk about it. Just come out and tell him why you've been avoiding the question. Tell him that you were raped when you were 13, and you felt bad about it and didn't want it to ruin your relationship with him. If he's a great boyfriend, and he loves you, he'll be able to understand. He shouldn't just break up with you because you were raped. It's not your fault you were raped. Just tell him that your not a virgin anymore because of that, and you hope that it won't interfere with your relationship. If he breaks up with you, then you can find someone alot better! He should still love you no matter what though, because like I said, It's not your fault!!!! Don't think that it's your fault. Just bring it up to him sometime or tell him the truth when he asks you again. Lying isn't good at all in a relationship, but honesty is very important! Think about if it was the other way around... If he was raped, wouldn't you want him to tell you the truth, and not lie about it or avoid the question. Alright hun, well I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm so sorry but I try my best! Bye! Good luck! If you have anymore questions, you can email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them.
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ok im 13 and i want to hang out with my boyfriend out of school but i dont no how to ask them..like im allowed to like go to the movies or the mall with them..but ive never had a guy over or go over his house (with them knowing) how do i get them to let me?
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Hey hun! You should just explain to your parents that you want to be able to have your friends/boyfriends over your house. Tell them that if your allowed to hang out with them at the mall or the movies, then why can't you hang out at their house or your house with them? They should be able to understand. What's the difference where you guys hang out? You could tell them that if they let your boyfriend come over your house, then atleast they would be able to see how he is and really get to know him you know! That might make them feel alot better about letting him over. Or you can possibly have your boyfriends parents call your parents and talk to them if your boyfriends parents are okay with him going to your house also! Let them know that you really want to spend time with your boyfriend and that you don't want to have to always go to the mall or the movies. The same places get boring after a while! Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If not, I'm really sorry but I try my best! Email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com if you have anymore questions! I'd be glad to talk with you and try to answer your questions. Good luck! Sorry for the long answer. :)
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Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?
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Hey hun! No, it's not wrong at all! I've gotten a crush on some of my good guy friends before. When that happens though, sometimes your friendship with that person can be ruined. There might be weirdness between the guy you have a crush on. If he feels the same way, then it'll be fine! You just have to flirt with him, and see if he flirts back or seems interested in you as more than a friend. I'm sure your friendship will be fine though! I've had a crush on a few good guy friends though, and they don't talk to me anymore. It all depends on the type of guy I guess and if he feels the same way. Tell him how you feel! I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm really sorry! I try! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer your questions the best I can! Bye! Good luck! Everything should be fine!
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If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn? (link)
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Hey hun! I think you should pick Italian! It's really up to you though! I just love Italian food, so that's why I said that! Italian food is sooooo yummy!!!!!!! It's your choice.
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my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?! (link)
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Hey hun! You should let him know how you feel about him! There are a lot of things you can do to show him that you like him. You can hold his hand, kiss him, hug him, smile at him, and put your arm around him. I would suggest that sometime you ask him how he really feels about you, because you don't know that he really does like you. You can't believe that he definitely likes you just because your friends told you that. Find out for sure so you don't end up being more affectionate or flirting for nothing. It would make you feel very horrible. Then if you guys like each other, you'll get to go out! :) Well, I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm really sorry. Bye! Good luck hun! I hope it works out! If you have anymore questions, feel free to email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer them the best that I can. Sorry again if I was no help!
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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate! (link)
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If I had a boyfriend and they cursed my best friend out for no apparent reason, I would bitch at my boyfriend! I would tell him that it's not right that he's bitching at my best friend and that it makes me feel bad. If your boyfriend can't get along with your best friend, then how are all of you guys going to get along if you are all together? You should stick up for your friend and tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be cursing her out for no apparent reason, because It's not right at all. If you don't say anything to your boyfriend about this, then your friendship with your best friend could possibly end, and that wouldn't by very good. I'm sure you don't want to lose your best friend. I know I would never want to lose my best friend. I wouldn't be able to live if I lost my best friend. Your best friend should always come before your boyfriend. I would say talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it bothers you when he curses your best friend out for no apparent reason. If he doesn't listen, and still continues to curse at her for no apparent reason at all then I would say he's not a very good boyfriend at all. If he doesn't stop cursing at your best friend, then I think you should end your relationship with your boyfriend. I know it would be hard, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I'm sure It'll be very hard to tell your boyfriend about this, but I think he'll understand. I think that he should stop cursing at your best friend for no apparent reason. Don't worry, he'll listen to you. If not, then break up with him. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should work out.
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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do? (link)
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Awwww! No, your not a bad friend at all. I know alot of people that have started to like their friend's boyfriend. I think that you should be honest with your good friend and tell her that you now have feelings for her boyfriend. You should tell her that it makes you jealous when her boyfriend kisses her and things like that. I think that it would also be good to tell her boyfriend how you feel about him now, because if you don't tell him you might start to feel even more weird around them. You'll become more jealous when they are around each other, and then you and your friend could possibly start to argue. It wouldn't be good to get into a fight with your friend! If you were honest with both of them, and just told them how you feel, then maybe when they are around you they won't kiss or do some of these other things that they do. You wouldn't become jealous anymore, and you would feel comfortable being around them. It wouldn't be as weird for you. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun!
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