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Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks
target. i want one :(
does any1 know who won the most world series in basball ?
yankees. 26 times.
okay so im 13..and i have the BEST boyfriend in the world..and weve been going out for 2 years! and i feel so happy w/him and its not like so kid stuff, i relaly care for him..and he wants to finger me? but likewhen you finger someone doesnt like discharge get on your fingers? and im afraid he'll get grossed out..what should i do..should i let him?
eww. discharge x_X
My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??
say hey biatch get a life or i'll break up with you. no offense or anything!
okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
i'm confuzzled .. .. ... .... ....
I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.
u had it ?
i'm somewhat flat chested, but i have great legs. how can i take all the notice off my chest (or lack thereof) and refocus it on my legs without being thought of as a skank?
stuff.
okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?
eat onlii salade 4 like 3 weeks. i lost 9 lbs in 2 weeks and i'm not fat.
Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate.
yes. u might. craps r a sign too. good luck! ps, i dont have mine yet either and i am 'old' as in 15!
Ok so first of all my best friend (we both just started high school a couple months ago) is gorgeous and always gets all the guys... even if they're just friends... she's closer friends with all my guy friends than i am so that really gets on my nerves. It's not my friend that bothers me though because why would i be mad at her for having close friendships, but it's the guys that bother me because they act like i don't even exist. I've kind of gotten used to that, but there is this one thing that's really bugging me. There's this guy who i became friends with at the beginning of the year who was really sweet to me and he was always talking to me and hanging out with me. My best friend didn't know him for a little while, but then she met him and now he's much better friends with her than he is with me. He's actually really mean to me now; he hurts me for no reason, always says mean things to me, and he's just not acting like a good friend. He's one of those people who you want so bad to think they're not worth it anyway towards, but you still want to be really good friends with them because they're good people and fun to be around. So anyways, i think he likes my friend because he's always following her around and he spends more time with her than any other girl. I feel like if he were to ask her out, she would say yes. I don't like him or anything, but i would still feel really weird if they were to go out or even have a little thing going on. I guess i just want things to back to normal with him, where he's still a nice friend to me. What should I do?
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Okay about a week ago I started going out with one of the most hottest guys you will ever meet and I have liked him for a long time. Well on Tuesday he broke up with me but told my friends all over the school to tell me that it was over. So I was hecka mad and started crying when I got home. But then on Wednesday I was better and was laughing and saw him and he said he wanted to talk to me. I asked him y he broke up with me and he said because i was cheating on him andI really wasnt and I hecka like him and want to go back out with him. Wut should I do? I am a 13 year old female!
get over him. he doenst like you anymore
Hi...Im at school right and im not the most popular person.but, im really funny and have a great personality..(not to be cocky) But, I seem to be more on the loser side, which is bad :( I dont fit in anywhere...i just take up space in the school. I need advice ..How do i get people to see me for me, and actually just judge me on what other people say. Yes, i know i should talk to them, but they're always like...wtf you suck.. yea im not kidding eaither. Everyone just .hates. me... please help :(
change biatch.
Okay how do I change my user name because I really want to have a new nickname for my column. PLZ tell me how!!!!!!PLZ!
u cant biatch.
14/m i am a huge new jersey nets fan and i want to get jason kidd's address. does anybody have it or know where i can get it for free? if u can give it to me, i will rate u a 5!
stalker.
Ok.. I'm bi.. and me and my boyfriend want to have a three sum with this chik.. (shes pretty cute) well.. i really dont know how to do a three-sum.. ive never done it before.. how exactly do they work..
also.. is there anything wrong with being bi.. i mean.. mom and dad dont know! but i think its better.. is there something wrong with that?
umm no, itz sick.
17/female
There's this guy I met through a cousin of mine. I went to one of their dances at school, and we flirted, and he seemed into me. But he had a girlfriend, so nothing happenend. I never talked to him again until a few months later, and by then he had broken up with this other girlfriend and started going out with someone else. We talk now, we flirt, and we just go so well together. But he has a girlfriend! When he talks about his life, he says he's not very happy, but I don't know if he's talking about his girlfriend or now. I really really really like him, and have ever since I met him. What do I do?
wait til he breaks up and then make a move.
i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.
you could b depressed or mayb something is annoying/holding you down and yu just cant remember. something bad could have happened and got you thinking and made you crazy, but yu just cant remember what. dont worry 'bout it. yu'll b fine, but if it starts to get out of hand, wither c a phyciatrist or c if a doctor has anything.
ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up..
dont get mad at him. guys have such a short memory span it not even funny. he loves you and he prolly doesnt mean to hurt you!
i really wanna get more flexable (not for any specific reason) i mena i cant even touch my toes, any ideas?
work on yur splits. doing excersizes to songs are fun. just do all kinds of split/ strectching excersises. have fun with it gurl!
more specific--
~sit on ur bootie, with yur legs strectched out in front of you, and work on touching ur toes.
~stand up, work on touching ur toes, by opening ur legs wide enough so you can touch ur toes, and work your way up.
~Splits-kneel on one knee and go down as far as yu can
~do workout movies.. pilates is best for becoming more flexible.
if yu need nemore just drop one in2 my inbox. i am a dancer and i have a ton! i was also a gymnast for 8 years and i am SOOOO FLEXIBLE!! people call me gumbi.
ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to.
shes trying to steal your man! fight baby fight!