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okay so im 13..and i have the BEST boyfriend in the world..and weve been going out for 2 years! and i feel so happy w/him and its not like so kid stuff, i relaly care for him..and he wants to finger me? but likewhen you finger someone doesnt like discharge get on your fingers? and im afraid he'll get grossed out..what should i do..should i let him?
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first of all ur too young! u should wait till lyk 10th grade or somthin..nd yeaa he will get discharge on his finger'z..but i dont think u should let him finger u.
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u shouldn't let him finger u, ur only 13 and u may really care about him but u don't need to be doin that kind of stuff at ur age, yes discharge might get on the finger and it could gross him out.. hope i helped
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there is nothing gross about any part of you. Just be smart and listen to your own little voice that governs what feels right for you.
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well if you are ready for that step then im not stopping you. but if you are afraid that he will get grossed out then maybe you should tell him what could happen and then you guys can decide so then wutever happens your both can agree and then nothing bad will happen to your relationship. GOOD LUCK!
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As far as your boyfriend goes, if a little vagina-smell on his fingers would gross him out, he's really not ready to be going to that level.
As far as YOU go, this is a big step. Make sure you are absolutely comfortable and ready for it - if not, it sounds like your relationship is solid enough to wait a bit longer.
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eww. discharge x_X
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First off, make sure YOU"RE ok wit it. and comfortable. If your not don't do it. Also, I think 13 may be young but, if you must do it go ahead. Also, if he does get gross out, I mean you know how guys are, they may get so grossed out and dump you. Hope I helped. Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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Firstly, I think 13 is pretty young, in my opinion perhaps too young...
(but since I myself am only 16 and pretty immature in many ways perhaps my opinion doesn't count for much)
Anyway, as I was saying - if you think you and your bf are at a stage where YOU are ready to go further then fine, but you shouldn't get hung up about whether he'll get 'grossed' out because I mean, if he WANTS to do it, then he's obviously not worried about it anyway!
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well.... if u are ready go for it if not and u are worried then put it off later untill u are ready! if he loves u he wouldnt get grossed out! and he would still love you if he thinks it is gross and breaks up with u... srry he isnt worth it lol!!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
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