Question Posted Thursday November 11 2004, 9:26 pm
Ok so first of all my best friend (we both just started high school a couple months ago) is gorgeous and always gets all the guys... even if they're just friends... she's closer friends with all my guy friends than i am so that really gets on my nerves. It's not my friend that bothers me though because why would i be mad at her for having close friendships, but it's the guys that bother me because they act like i don't even exist. I've kind of gotten used to that, but there is this one thing that's really bugging me. There's this guy who i became friends with at the beginning of the year who was really sweet to me and he was always talking to me and hanging out with me. My best friend didn't know him for a little while, but then she met him and now he's much better friends with her than he is with me. He's actually really mean to me now; he hurts me for no reason, always says mean things to me, and he's just not acting like a good friend. He's one of those people who you want so bad to think they're not worth it anyway towards, but you still want to be really good friends with them because they're good people and fun to be around. So anyways, i think he likes my friend because he's always following her around and he spends more time with her than any other girl. I feel like if he were to ask her out, she would say yes. I don't like him or anything, but i would still feel really weird if they were to go out or even have a little thing going on. I guess i just want things to back to normal with him, where he's still a nice friend to me. What should I do?
BotheredAndBroken13 answered Friday November 12 2004, 3:48 pm: Wow.. Well i think you should talk to your friend about the guys. If she's a good friend she'll understand how u feel and back off a little bit. As for the guy, u should talk to him about it too, ask him if he likes her and ask why he's been so mean lately... Hope I helped. --Jordan* [ BotheredAndBroken13's advice column | Ask BotheredAndBroken13 A Question ]
xOcRaZiCrAcKaox answered Thursday November 11 2004, 11:08 pm: Wow. Thats tough. Well, i think you should talk to -him- about it. Ask him why he's bein so shitty to you lol. And ask her if he likes her. Then you might feel better even if its still bad :(
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