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ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to.
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aw that's not right! talk to her about it and tell her to stop cuz that'd annoy the hell out of me. sorry hun idk wut else to say. well email me and tell me how things go. hope i helped
x3ya*
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she's flirting with your boyfriend, please have a chat with her before she does more. he might stop any advances, but it'd still be best to remove temptation. or set her up with a guy, then she'll be distracted. either way, be nice about it, it's possible she doesn't realize what she's doing
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I really think that you should talk to her about it, and YES you actually have to (HAVE TO) talk to her about how she shuts you out and tries to hog your boyfriend. well, you know what im talking about...right. I know that, that is a little sad, but its the way you and your boyfriend are together that catches her eye into doing the things that she does. I think that she likes him. You make him look good.
~Sammie~
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Yeah, I'm sure you don't need to worry about your b'friend, but you do gotta worry about your friend, not because she'll steal him away or anything, but because she kinda needs to get her own life and stop pretending she is you. It sounds like just maybe she is envious of what you have and she wants that too, not necessarily with your guy, but with someone. Ask your b'friend when your friend is not around if he has any nice, single friends that might want to hang out, the four of you. Try something like that. In the meantime (because that could take a few weeks of working on it) you could just keep an eye on and make sure your b'friend isn't provoking this AT ALL and doesn't enjoy it too much, make sure he is just being nice to your friend for you. Or if you're all set and totally trust him, then cool, just try to work on overpowering your friend when she is trying to overpower you. She may just enjoy being around your guy but as a friend. Some "friends" just really click better than others. So let her be herself around him sometimes, but other times, when enough is enough, you need to get your spot right back, don't let it be stolen when it's not cool. Hope I helped :)
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u should tell ur bf that u feel kinda shut out by this. if he does nothing about it, then u will have 2 go 2 her to get her 2 stop. if she doesnt stop, then u mite run into some problems ahead. hope i helped ya!!
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Okay. i have a simple answer for this! when she cuts you off, start back into the conversation. And if you guys are walking, make sure your close to him if you suspect she's going to be all playful with him. No, you don't have to talk to her. Remember, actions speak louder and words. and clearly, with that girl..they do alot! I hope im help!
_Kadi_
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If they were friends before you two started going out than maybe she thinks things haven't changed that much. Try talking to him about and than he can talk to her. I'm sure he wont have a problem with this because he will want to make you happy.
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shes trying to steal your man! fight baby fight!
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