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me n my bf have been going out for 7 months but EVERYONE likes him. he is in a grade above me and all the girls like him there. they always look at him and try to be all over him. theres this one who he hangs out with alot and she lives in his neighborhood. they get wicked pissed at eachother alot, but he says they r like "brother and sister". ik its dumb, but i always get paranoid he likes them instead of me or will dump them for me. help if u can, thanks.
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the same thing happened to me in seventh grade. i was going out with like the number one hottie as they would say of the 8th grade..everyone was practically in love with him! even the guys!! yea it was pretty scary..all the girls were always all over him but i was sure that he wouldnt decide to leave me because every day he would always tell me how sweet i was or how good i had looked that day..or how he was so lucky to be going out with me. it was really sweet. hopefully your in the same situation as i was, just listen for that reassurance that he really likes you and your relationship will be fine. just watch out for when you go out of town and dont get called for about 3 days..thats when you know that somone has gone to the movies and hooked up with your bf..but im sure this is not the case!
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I really think that you shouldnt be worried about it. I mean just because he has a lot of girls that are his friends doesnt mean that he is doing anything with them. He's been with you for seven months now...do you honestly think that he will do anything with them. he obviously likes you enough to go out with you for this long.:) Anywho, try not to beat yourself down with that stuff. if you feel insecure about it, then talk to your boyfriend about it...
P.S. you shoud speak up to those girls and tell them to stop..LOL :) hes your man.
~sammie~
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talk to him
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theres really nothing to say.
but if you trust him, thats all that matters. if you catch him being all over another girl, just be like fuck you dude
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Tell him this, "look/flirt all you want (I'm dead serious), but ALWAYS come back to me." Tyra Banks give GREAT advice. lol
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Something to keep in mind. What you have with your boyfriend, NO ONE CAN DUPLICATE. Your fun, your company cannot be matched by anyone or anything. It's unique and special. Rest easy that you are the fun one he will want to be with...cause..If you do the opposite and figure he doesnt like you...you could actually CREATE that happening.
Be your sweet self and put the self doubt away..Its not attractive, believe me.
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Hi! i know that can be paranoing. but the thing you should do is, make them know your his girl! talk to her and ask if she likes him. i know it may not be easy, but if you really .love. your boyfriend, you should do it. start introducing yourself when you're with him. if people talk to him.. girls especially. well i hope i have made some help!
_Kadi_
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If he says that they are like brother and sister than you have nothing to worry about. My best friend is a guy named jason and I don't ever think that he could like me. But if you are really worried than just talk to him about it and see what he says. If you can trust him than let it be, if not than maybe you should talk to him more openly so that he thinks he can talk openly to you as well.
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let him live, you dont own him.
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