I say as long as you're sure there aren't still emotions involved, go for it. But if one of you might be hanging on to memories of previous times together I would stay away. Was the dinner just a friendly thing or is there still hope to get back together? Just make sure before you go through with it that neither of you have a chance of getting hurt.

It's not smart to do anything right away because it could really damamge your hair or your hair could fall out. Wait at least 10 days and then try dying your hair a lighter color, but maybe with Level 2 dye instead of Level 3. If you really want security though, you can always get a hair salon to do it for you and you should get good results.

If you right-click on your recycle bin, one of the options will be to "Empty Recycle Bin". Click that, it will ask if you're sure you want to permanantly delete, and if you click yes, you'll be done with it.

That is probably just a canker sore aka ulcer. Every body gets them once in a while and they usually take anywhere from 3-7 days to heal, depending on the size. It is just caused from a pH imbalance in your mouth, nothing serious. Just continue putting things like Listerine or Oragel on it with a q-tip and it should heal up soon.

I definitely think he would appreciate your directions. Guys like to learn so that once he knows, he knows...just slowly move your hand on top of his and show him what makes you feel good. Making a little noise while doing it might help him because it shows him that what your showing him is what you like, but you're not insulting him by saying something critical. He'll appreciate the pointer, trust me. ;)

Okay, now I wouldn't call you a slut since you had sex with someone you've been dating for a while, but you definitely should not have started having sex at 13....that's way too early. I think the earliest would be 16 for when you're body might really be ready. But in any case, your parents should still know, especially since you should now have a gynocological exam, seeing as you started sexual activity. Just let your mom in on it slowly, start suggesting that you guys have been closer than just kissing, and try to understand that she won't be happy. I hope this works out for you. Good luck!

Prude is when you aren't interested in doing anything along those lines. Someone may call a person prude if they haven't kissed someone before, but that's not the correct label.

It's more seen in girls I would think but a lot of guys, especially if they are on a sports team together, smack eachother's butts as a way of greeting on saying "good job". So they could either be best friends and/or team mates, or there is a very slight chance they are romantically involved (not likely).

I honestly think that if being yourself isn't doing much, the guy isn't worth your time. Sure, being funny and friendly might help, but guys know what they want usually and they'll eventually try to get what they want. I would just say give them a little bit of encouraging flirty talk...if they respond well, just wait it out. If they don't, they just aren't into you and it's pointless wasting your time thinking about them. Move on to a better guy, some hottie who thinks you're cute to boot! ;)

There is no way to stop what's natural. If you guys are having sex, that's bound to happen. If it bothers you to have his stuff leaking out afterwards, then don't let him cum inside you. On your part, you can't do anything about your wetness besides keeping some Brawny paper towels next to the bed or something...that or don't let him pleasure you at all. I say just try to get used to it because eventually I'm sure it will grow on you.

I can't say for sure, but long looks and suggesting that you have a sucker fetish isn't something that I'd talk about with just anyone. I would trying flirting more and seeing how he reacts. He might be ready to take it to the next level, but just wants a little encouragement from you. Play around a little...it can be fun!

I got some highlights towards the end of the summer because I had such a bland color of light brown hair. What I did is got partial highlights which means its only on the top layer of your hair and not all around your head (so if you put your hair up you'd just see your natural color under the ponytail). I think this is the best way because it doesn't dry out hair as much or damage as much. Just use a moisturizing or specific for color-treated hair shampoo and conditioner and I add serum into my hair for anti-frizz and moisture. My hair is still just as healthy as it was when it was natural so I would definitely recommend it. :)

Well, if you just want to keep giving him a hand job, use a warming lubricant to make it a little more exciting. Vary your hand positions too, like have him between your palms like if you were floding your hands to pray (funny eh) or slide him between your fingers from time to time indtead of just an up/down motion. Make sure you're playing with everything too, not just doing the same stroke over and over.

If you want to give him head, I think there are 4 general things to keep in mind.

1. Tongue work - use your tongue to press against him as you slide up and down.

2. The Head - use your tongue and sucking to play with just the head from time to time

3. Deep Throat - that right there is probably the single best move to master. Try to get him as far in your mouth as you can without gagging lol.

4. Balls - play with his balls a little and suck them if you're comfortable.

It really helps to cover all the bases and soon after he will worship you!! Haha...good luck!

What I do is use different browns, tans, etc. on and above my lid, then use a darker brown for the crease between my lid and brow area to just define the eye area a little more. then to bring out the green in my hazel eyes I just dab a little bit of a light green eye shadow right above my upper lid liner (you could just substitute green shadow for liner if you want). It brings just enough green to accentuate my eyes without looking unnatural...I hope this helped and let me know if you need a better explanation :)

You should definitely not have it in for 9 hours. The maximum on the packaging is usually 8 hours but I would say depending on how heavy, just stick to 6 hours to be safe. Having a tampon in too long can cause an infection, so I would also suggest maybe having the tampon in for 6 or 7 hours then just using an ultra thin pad for the rest of the day in school so there isn't always something blocking the flow. I know a lot of people say pads feel like diapers, but just try the ultra thins, you really can't feel them at all.

Definitely an experienced guy! Can I stress it enough? ;) Guys who already have experience will be more gentle and will cater to your needs before worrying about how they need to get off. Having sex with a virgin the first time can be awkward for many reasons. He may not understand where to "put it" per se, he can be forceful and hurt you (not that it's going to be fabulous the first time), and it can end in like 5 seconds. So if you want a more memorable experience, I'd go with an experienced guy. He'll get you in the mood and he'll use the right moves.

Well, it's not bad but I suggest trying other things like Nair (hair removal cream). Otherwise, just make sure you've been sitting in some warm water for a while so the hair is not as coarse and use a very new razor with sensitive shaving cream. Try to take it slow so you don't cut yourself.

Well, I once heard that a sneeze is 1/10 of an orgasm, but I don't think it's a very good description. But you know the tickly relieving feeling you get when you sneeze? it's kind of like that.

But the feeling is a lot more intense and warmer I guess and just kind of goes throughout your body. I sure recommend it!!

Preston is the name of her son.

Do you put anything in your hair before you straighten it? Try putting an anti-frizz serum in your hair before blowdrying, then lbowdry straight, then go over it with a good straightening iron...afterwards I usually spray a little spray gel on my brush and comb through to make it look straight and stay straight without feeling hard or being immovable. Hope that helps!

Ask me anything, and I'll tell all. If you have a question, I've got an answer. Enjoy!

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