Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
ill rate 5s if you give good answers (link)
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Ok... 1) if you need to ask random online peopel if you are ready, you aren't.
2) If you aren't comfortable talking about sex with your boyfriend in an everday manner, than you also aren't ready.
3) if you finally decide you actually are ready than:
no, testing shouldn't be needed, as long as you are both virgins
condom's are your best bet unless you want to get on the pill but then you have to be on that for awhile before it kicks in i believe
i'm not sure about brands, i hear Trojan's break a lot, but i'm not experienced in that area so i would recommend talkign to an older sibling or even a parent. If you can't talk abotu it with your mom than i would also say you most likley aren't ready for teh consequences of sex
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hey or the past couple days my voice has kind of been like cracking, but i am a girl. and my throat doesnt really hurt or anything, and i havent been screaming or shrieking a whole lot. any ideas what it is? or is it just normal? thanks!
~*jaimee*~ (link)
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Mine does it all the time... i've gotten sued to it... i don't know how old you are but girls have voice changes too... i'm 16 and my voice still cracks all the time though. Not a big deal.
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I think I like my guy best friend. We used to have a relationship, but we broke it off (this was 2 years ago)... I know for a fact he doesn't like me (I asked who he liked, and he told me he liked my one friend who doesn't like him)... my friends think he likes me, and it does seem like it.. but I guess not.
One thing I'm thinking about is moving on, but I don't particularly want to do that. Any other ideas? (link)
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It didn't work once... unless the too of you have changed to eliminate whatever broke it up in the first place... its bound to fail
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I've been saving up to get an iPod. My mom says that if I can get $100 She'll buy me a 60GB iPod.
But I also kinda want a cell phone.
I know that the cell phone will in time cost more, but I'm not sure which one I want more. I really want an iPod, and I have the possibility, because I have $71 out of $100 for it.
But I really want a cell phone too.
I'm so...stuck.
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Get the iPod and then start saving for a cell phone. The problem with a cell phone is its a monthly bill so you'd most likley have to get a job or talk your parents into paying part of it .
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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox (link)
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Ok... quit being naive. 1) its sounds like you jumped into this relationship too fast if you've only seen him once. 2) if you've only seen him once you don't love him. 3) Get rid of him. You sound too young to have a boyfriend and there are plenty of guys out there that i am sure you could find one just as good that you can see more often and will call you back.
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i get these really bad tension headaches almost every day. they just come on at any time of the day and they're mostly always in my temples or the back of my head. my jaw gets really stiff and clenched up. sometimes they get so bad i have to vomit (which always makes the headache almost immediately go away). are there any sort of special muscle relaxant medications i should take? any relaxation excercises i could do? please help. these headaches interfere with my everyday life. i can hardly function when i have them. (link)
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Your doctor is the person to talk to.
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i REALLY want to move back to the place i used to live. I want to so bad,the people here are mean/snobs [[some..and they leave you out]] I've been in this new town for a year..and i hate it..i hate the way i am now. I just want to move back to my old city,how can i talk my mom into moving back? [[my brother wants to move back as well]] (link)
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you moved for a reason i am sure so your parents aren't just gonna pack it up and move back. Make the best of it. Find the people that are like you. Be true to yourself and stop being selfish.
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OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.
so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
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B.should i tell him i like him (link)
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A: He probably has some feelings for you but if he's with another girl the feelings can't be very strong. Any guy that is willing to cheat or go after another girl while still dating his girlfriend is selfish and only looking to fufill the needs they aren't getting from the current.
B: I don't knwo how much you really liek him. From the sounds of it, you liek the idea of him. You liek that your friends think he likes you so from tehre you gained some feeligns for him but they were only becasue you thought you'd have a chance. Yes feeligns liek that can make a loving relationship because its kind of what happened with my boyfriend and me, but make sure you know for sure. and to actually answer your question. I would say don't tell him. If you like him you shoudl care about his feeligns and wish him well in teh relationship he is in. Telling him mught make his life more stressful and put strain on the relationship that he seems to be happy in.
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what do i tell to adoctor who wants to look down there? even females make me feel self consious. I will not let them touch me or look me down there or take my shirt off. Please help me i want to tell them not to but how. Is there any other way that they can see if im healthy! Im scared out of my mind.
Im sooooooooo scared that i feel dizzy. I cant go through this. I will rate really high to any 1!!
thanks 8 ( (link)
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You just have to get into thte mind set that they are there to help you. They see down there numberous times throughout the day so they aren't going to judge you or go tell there doctor friends abotu you. They just need to make sure you are healthy. Telling them not to go there is liek telling your mechanic not to look under the hood.
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i've been on depo-provera (the birth control needle) for over three years now. i keep hearing horror stories about serious side effects it can have in the future. if you have any information about depo-provera let me know because although i adore the needle, i'll switch back to the pill if the needle is too dangerous. (link)
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Talk to your doctor. They will tell you honest, without telling you untrue horror stories.
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how do you determine if a car is a sports car or not?? im lookin for cars but my parents said i couldn't get a sports car for insurance reasons or whatever but every car i like they say its a sports car! is it by how much horsepower it has? and if so how much does a sports car have? (link)
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if you want a sweet fast car go for a Ford Focus... they get really fast and i doubt they count that as a sports car.
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i live around chicago IL, and were having a drought, so its really hot around here. it gets really humid - and my hair is naturally wavy. if i scrunch it and wear it curly, it gets frizzy, and if i straighten it and wear it straight, it doesnt stay striaght, it puffs up etc. i have to go to summer school every day from 8-12, and i have very thick and quite long hair, what are some easy hair styles that i could do quick in the morning that doent look sloppy? (link)
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I'd say ponytail it and move on with life. Hair isn't everything... i'm sure all otehr girls are goign through the same thing where you live so its not liek your the only one
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okay so theres this boy we'll call him john... well me and john went out before and we got along well... me and him have a big history of us being together and being in love with eachother many times... well latley hes been talking to me about our past relationships and hes all sayin like "i miss you and i still think about us all the time" and he was sounding kind of sweet but i didnt wanna fall for him again so i didnt pay much attention to what he was saying.. well now i find out that he has a girlfriend... and shes liek one of my mayjor enemies... a girl that i really dont get along with and he knows that.. is he tryin to make me jelous? or does he really mean what he says? (link)
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It didn't work once. Who the heck cares whats happening now. Ignore him. If he';s gonna mess with your emotions liek that, he's not worht the time
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My mom and dad are making me get a 93 peice of crap ford explorer for my first car, any idea's on how to increase its sexyness, help would be much aprechiated (link)
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Confidence abotu the car is cool. Maybe paint it a sweet color. Guys at my school with crappy cars just talk liek their car is the best and they just make it there own. Make it resemble you
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how do you like get a pic on your advice column n make it pretty haha i*ll rate high if i like your answer! (link)
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click on rofile settings to the right and scroll down to section III ... upload from there
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every girl i like doesnt like me back...they say they just like me as a friend...and i really need a girlfriend i just dotn know what to do...is there somethin im doin wrong...? (link)
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you never need a girlfriend... they don't liek complete you or make you a better person. Just keep truckin'. Plenty of girls out there and lots of life to live. Maybe you are sharing too much with these girls I mean no big deal, tell them your favorite color, but don't tell them all the intimate details abotu you becasue that might make them more friendly towards you or not want to get involved with you. Try to keep a slight distance with potential mates and make them chase you a little. Be flirty more-so than friendly, but don't be a jerk.
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