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My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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I know it's a weird question. But I have a summer assignment that asked me that. But my family hasn't really impact my life. I need some ideas. How have your guys' family impacted your lives? (link)
well every family impacts a person's life. it just hard to see or realize. when your young your family shapes you into the person you are good or bad. if their not are around, around to much, or very controlling that changes your life just a little in some way. but like i said it's hard to see.


19 year old female

my name is Rachel and my mom and i are not getting along very well right now in fact it seems like we are always getting into verbal fights so to keep from fighting with mom i moved into my 38 year old cousins home and here's the problem i have now even though i moved out of my mom's house we still end up getting into fights over the phone so here's what we are fighting about now. Iam learning disabled and i have some physical disablities that disable me from working i was in special edecation when i was in highschool i have graduated last may. i will give you a small description of what some of my disabilities are.

1.I have attention deficience disorder and i also have attention deficeience hyperactive disorder.

2.I also have bipolar which cause me to get angry and upset over very little situations.

3. I also have a disorder that is called an essential trimmer which causes me to shake when i get upset.
4.I also have poor motor skills and i have a hard time handling small objiects.
5. I am very disorganized.
6 I also cannot multitask very well.
7 It's also very hard for me to put what i want to say down on paper i can do it better verbally.
8.I also have a hard time maninging money.

I get a social security check becouse iam not able to work becouse of those physice and mental disabilities and my mom is responsible as my payee over my social security check.
I have to have a payee becouse of the fact that i can't manage money very well if i were the one over my money i would blow it all on stupid stuff and wouldn't buy any of the important stuff i needed to survive so anyways my mom is over my check and i asked her for the $300.00 rent and she fussed becouse she said that was too much money even though i explained to her that it was for bills, rent, food and everything that i would need so i told my cousin that my mom wouldn't give me my money for the rent so she said i wouldn't have to pay rent if i helped her with her autistic son whenever she needed a sitter even though he is 17 he has the mind of a 2 year and can't be left alone at all and if i also helped clean house but i feel bad for leaving in her house for free what should i do? (link)
well you should get your payee signed over to your cousin if that is possible so she can mange your money and you could pay her rent.


I am thirty years old and have never made anything higher than 13 an hour. I am currently going to school and I have also been married for 8 years. My wife is unhappy with her job, and so I am helping her get a better one. I am facing foreclosure, possible job loss, and was recently in an accident where I may be getting sued. Unless I finish school or get a higher paying job, I face divorce and worse. I have been contemplating suicide, and would like to know what would be the most painless, and easiest way to go about doing it. I don't want any religious answers because I am so far from God right now, he couldnt find me if he had a compass. I am tired of struggling, I just want rest. (link)
My advice for you would be to relax and try to un stress. Maybe take some yoga or just have a beer and watch a football game when you have relaxed you may be able to think things out more clearly. If you want a better job, try looking in the want ads and ect. make appointment for interviews, for you or your wife. Also try to remember that once you get out of school and get you degree things are most likely going to start to look a hell of a lot better. it sounds like money is your main problem so get better jobs, with higher incomes. Suicide is the permanent solution to the temporary problem.


To the Dominican Republic.
I live up in Canada and I just wanted to know what kind of clothing I should bring??

And what other types of things..
Tanning Oil?
Flip flops?
Ect..

Thanks! (link)
the Dominican Republic is a very tropical place, so you should bring shorts, tang tops, swim ware, flip flops, sun block, tanning oil, sunglasses, maybe a hat or visor. Pack what you think you would need if you were going to Florida, (only think of it hotter.) You might also want to bring a light jacket and one pair of jeans just in case it does get cold.
Have a great time.


i like doing cute things for my boyfriend as in hunts and cute little notes in his house. (we dont live together) i want to keep doing cute things any ideas? (link)
Well you could send cute texts, keep putting notes and hunts. send him flowers or candy with notes and things like that. or you could cook him breakfast one morning and leave it at his door with a pome you wrote for him.
Hope it helps.


I have a 24 week old kitten, and whenever shes eating, or closes her mouth after yawning or something I hear a clicking sound, like her teeth are grinding together, it doesn't seem to bother her and it hasntbeen happening for too long but is this normal or should we get her checked out? (link)
If it's not bothering her you shouldn't be so concerned, but i would get her checked out just in case something could be wrong.


14/F I have this best friend that I absolutely love. He is so cool and makes me feel good.He is not popular neither am I. That is why people make fun of him. He also has a deaf ear. I don't know wheather to listen to everyone in my school or date the uy that makes me feel absolutley awesome. Like I am in heaven. Please Help

~~~Unicyclegurl~~~ (link)
If you listen to everyone else than you'll never know if you'll be completely happy with this guy. If you want to date him, date him. Don't let other people talk you out of what you want.


15/f/uk

I keep seeing films or reading books (and I know this might be unrealistic) where the girl meets this guy somewhere, he's really amazing, and they just hang out and flirt and you know they're going to end up together. Even if they don't love each other, they do really like each other.

I've just come out of this 'relationship' with this guy that has been going on for ages. Thing is, we actually split up in december, but it's been carrying on till now. He still really likes me and I can't say I don't have ANY feelings for him, but I'm pretty sure I'm ready to move on now.

And I really want that kind of relationship I described at first (to give some examples, Robbie and Georgia in Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging, Ian and Daphne in What a Girl Wants etc.)

Thing is, it's really hard to meet guys. I usually get into relationships through friends, y'know, they'll just be part of the group I hang out with and we'll end up together.

Even if you do see a hot guy, it's not exactly easy to get to know them if they're just passing you in the street.

I don't like anyone at my school so that's pretty unlikely, and besides I like guys older than me and seeing as I'll be in the oldest year at school, it's unlikely I'll find anyone.

So where can I go, and what should I do to meet someone?

PS. when I'm not with a massive group of friends. (link)
Try joining activities where you know guys will be present. Than just say something normal like if he's eating, "how the food." try to start a small conversation. Beware of the guys buried in massive groups of friends, they'll most likely blow up off.


So me and my best friend both like the same guy. ( ya ik a common problem) I've dated him 3 times and I still love him. He broke up with me the first 2 times so he could date her. I know it sounds bad but I can't help but love him anyways. She dated him 6 times because they have known each other longer. I understand we both love him but I'm sick of getting hurt because he loves us both. The most annoying part is my best friend knows that I like him but she keeps talking about her fantasies about him. How can I keep my relationships with both of them without yelling at her to shut up about the fantasies or crying every night because I love him so much? (link)
i had or have still the same problem i am not sure witch it is now. But you need to tell your friend up front that you like him too and it will do you both a world of good if she can stop talking about him. also try date other people see if you can move on. if you don't want to move on see if you can win him over by spending time with him and talking. Hope it all goes well.


What if friendship turns into a little more than love? I know this guy and of course I'm a girl and he always trys to hang out with me but I don't know if it's just a friendship thing or maybe he really really likes me. Maybe love. I don't know what to think. Please help me. I need advice! (link)
Well have your friend ask his friend if he likes you more than just a friend. Make sure the friend she asks is his best friend that he tells everything to. Than you'll hsve your answer.


i get like 10 or 11 hours of sleep in the night and then the next day i'm always sleepy and tired the whole entire day for some reason.

how do i stop being sleepy and tired all the time???? (link)
You could try drinking coffee or something with sugar. I believe what you need to do is run or do something that will get your blood moving.


Okay, well i was just watching Deja Vu, and in the movie a guy said "In a sence, we're always looking in the past, because it takes time for light to reach the eye." Well i wanted to know, what kind of science studies that kind of thought? sorry if that sounds confusing. I also wanted to know;; if you have any other cool kind of statements that make you think like that? that make you say "hmm. never thought of that" haha, just a random questionn i had to ask. thanks for any advice about thisss! (link)
"I don't worry about people coming and I don't worry about people going, they can't make me happy and they can't make me sad." -Tyler perry
"Put what you can't deal with in a shoe box and tuck it away." -Tyler perry
"Some one asked me why I am not moving, there are signs on the road and a tank full of gas and still I stand." and I answered, "there ain't no signs I can follow it's the ones hidden in the bushes that I have yet to find so it can lead me on my way." -me
"Never let anyone tell you what you can and can not do. If you let them push you to the ground and make you want to stay there, you will never accomplish a thing. You'll just burry yourself in sadness and lies." - me
"When it hurts to bad to say it 98% of the time true. 100% of the time you wish it was." -me

I believe it is physiology.


Hey. I'm a 19/f who just so happens to be a virgin. I've only had one boyfriend in the past and it wasn't the best experience. Nothing like rape or anything, it was just that I was going through some emotional problems and told him about how I didn't care too much about living anymore and his response was that if I do kill myself I should stab myself in the stomach AND then he broke up with me. That was about 3 years ago and I still haven't dated anyone since then. Its not like I'm getting girlfriend proposals everyday but when there is an oppurtunity for a possible realationship with someone, I sabotage it by either keeping myself away from the person or being realy rude to them. I know the problem here is probably trust issues but I just don't know what to do. Also, I'm starting to question my sexuality. I don't know if I'm attracted to women now because of my bad experience with the guy, or if its truly for real. I had some attraction towards women before I dated this guy, but now it seems thats my main attraction. Anyway, any advice would help. (link)
My boyfriend choices were really bad also, so don't beat yourself up about that. If you think you like women more that try date a few girls and see how you feel. Keep reminding yourself that your first boyfriend was a jerk and your probably not going to find another one quite as bad. When you get boyfriend possibilities just try and attempt not to be so rude and put yourself out there. I would also think of taking some trust classes.


Hello,
My name is Cherise and I have been having seizures since I was 16yrs. old. Up until then, I never experienced anything close to a seizure whatsoever. The closest I think was when I fainted in church when I was about 6 or 7. But, fainting and having a seizure are 2 COMPLETELY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES. Anyway, when I turned 16, I was in Las Vegas with my family, and had just gotten out of the shower. What happened after that, I could not tell you because I honestly don't know. I just remember my mom handing me a cup of orange juice to balance out my blood sugar. Ever since that morning, I have had numerous tests done to pin-point the cause to the seizures. But unfortunately, I still don't have any answers. I am 22 now, and still occasionally suffer through these fits. My question to you is: Has anyone come to you in this same regard? That is, has anyone ever asked you the same questions I am? Like, what could be the cause(s) to these seizures?? It has been frustrating,and painful for 6yrs. now and no doctor has been able to help me. I am starting to think that maybe it's not something medical. That maybe it's either something spiritual, or psychological. Let me know what your thoughts are on this.
Thank You,
Cherise (link)
I had questions similar, but not one like this. How much stress do you go through daily? That might have something to do with it. OR has something shocked you before these things occurred? Look for common ground. And if you think it's spiritual go to church, read the bible and do things like that.




right around my elbow there's like a ring of these bumps, and it itches.

does anyone what it is or what could have caused this? (link)
I used to have the same thing on my ankle. I believe it is a skin problem, or that what my doctor told me. Use antibiotic cream. This could of happened by touching an animal that was carrying something, or an elegiac reaction to something else. It might also be ring worm so go to the doctors as soon as possible to see if he or she has any special medicine to take care of it.


Iam 19 years old and iam 1 foot 1 and i weigh about 149 pounds and i want to be about 120 pounds so i want to lose about 29 pounds. Is that to much weight for me to lose for my height and if not what are some healthy ways for me to lose the weight fast? (link)
I am not so sure it that is too much weight for you to lose, but I would say to lose weight fast and do it healthy, you should walk, run and go to the gym at least 30 minutes a day. Do push up and eat half of what you do, or just eat salads and other no fat food. Also watch your sugars they can also make you jump weight.




Sorry for the topic, I didn't know what to put.


Anyway, Say someone ate a meal then puked up a mouthful of food. However, They didn't stick there finger down thier throat.. and they did it occassionally. Would you say that person had a problem? (link)
I would, Yes. I believe there is something making "this person" do this, like a stomach flu or some other illness. "this person" should see a doctor so he or she can help "this person" with the problem they have.


I bought my boyfriend and myself tickets to a amusement park with water sides and the other rides. I dont live with him but I want to make him go crazy looking for the tickets. I want it only focused in his room and car and bathroom. I need clues/ hints all that good stuff.

Maninly I just need a plan planned out for me word to word haha so please help me out!

I want him to wake up and I can text him saying get up and look "fill in" and make him think there is a surprise there and then another clue leading him to another place and so on but in the end he finds the tickets!

Sorry if I confused anyone! (link)
before you go to his house write different clues like, the first one is going to be a text message, "i hidden you a surprise in your house the first clue to finding it is located in your??? Car, lets say.
than when he finds that one that could be hidden under the driver seat will say, i am in your favorite room or the room we spend the most time.
think of things he said to you about each room and give clues like what is in the room or what you two laughed at in the room and things like that, but make them towards the easy side so he will be able to figure them out.
Than when you go to his house hide them in that room.


I'm a female and is 22yrs of age.


Well I've been talking to this guy for 7mos now and I really don't know if he's ready to be serious. He always introduce me as his lady friend. How tell him that i want more than just a good friend with benefits and how do i know if he really wants to be with me like that? (link)
I would wait for the right moment then tell him. like when he makes a joke or says something that could have a seconded meaning to it, like i like you a lot. you could say enough to let me stop being your friend with benefits and maybe start a serious relationship? Try finding some loop hole in the words he says that tell him up front.


what do you do when someone breaks your heart?:( (link)
You get back up and try to forget about them. threw away the pictures, and move on. Think about what's coming up in the further instead of what you just left behind. Get a new Relationship, and make everyday as happy as you can. Try not to think about them.




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