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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =)
Hmm HEATING PADS HAHA!!! :]
"i care bout u and i like u...and if u dont feel the same way bout me then f*** it...we'll be friends" my friend just sed that to me and idk wut to say. cuz remember how i sed that i think i liked guy1 and guy2 well this was guy3. the guy i didnt like. and im scared to say sry i dont like u cuz i know that hell take it personally. i would talk to my other friends about this but they r not on and tomorrow they have a bball tourney. please help and answer asap cuz idk how long i can keep from not saying anything...thanx ..me...:(
All I can think of is.. only go for the guy you like and dont worry about other guys or its gonna get to confusing and just tell him straight up!!
hey. i have no friends becuz my x best friend got the whole elementry school on me becuz i talked to her boyfriend on the phone becuz i asked him wut the homework was. i have no life. wut should i do?
Ahh that's to bad she did that! Don't worry, I am sure someone likes you.. not everyone can hate you!
ok, i think im cute and attractive, ((brunette w/ hazel eyes here)) and guys like me i thought...but it ive only gotten asked out by a guy ive known since like 2nd grade ((and im in 7th)) i just dont no y guys dont ever say nothin...please help...guys preferably but girls ok
...katie...
everyone has a special someone out there waiting! dont give up! im sure u are pretty! rate me plz!
I'm 15 right now and I'll be 16 this September. I am fixing to start high school 9th or 10th not sure since I was getting homeschooled. I want to go back to normal school though. Ok so I know I'm like all pretty and I have no problems with the way I look. So see the problem is girls have a problem with me. They are all like wanting to kick my but and crap for no reason and saying crap like "oh get a tan" and blah. What should I do? I think girls are totally jealous of me. I am afraid of going back to school because I wanna stay out og trouble now. Basically I'm wanting to go back to school to get friends and stuff. Since I'm getting homeschooled I lost all of mine. I am thinking about getting a job this year maybe I'll meet people then. What would u do?
Don't listen to what girls say.. we are jealous of every single girl who we think looks prettier than us haha! And ya I would get a jobb to meet people!AND JOIN CLUBS AT SCHOOL TO MEET ALOT OF PEOPLE!! hehe well goodluck rate me plz!
There is this guy,Josh I like him and he likes me. I know it sounds like theres no problem with that but weve gone out 2 times already and hes gone out with like all my friends ( well but jessica lol). I think the longest realiship was like 2 weeks. He is like never satisfid. He also likes my other two friends.I dont want to get hurt and i dont want my best friend jessica to get hurt, and we both like him and likes us!! I dont know what to do!! plzz help i rate!!
All that I would do is wait for him to make a move! Cuz there is nothing you really can do but be yourself and wait and let him make the choice of who he wants to be with! Good luck!
A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?
Just tell her that you really enjoy hanging out with her but you do have a life and you can't be with her everyday. She should understand. But make it clear that you DO enjoy hanging out with her to make her happy. Rate me plz!
i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
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Heck ya man I'd call it.. or else it's just gonna bug you.. and bug me too haha! Call it! Rate me plz
hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.
....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.
Woah that like made alot of sence why ppl do it. I never understood why people do it but you made it clear. I hope you find help hun! It sounds painful.. try to thinm of something else to do :]
how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup?
Don't bring up his name at all! Just be there for her all the time and comfort her by giving her hugs! Rate me plz!
how can i meet cool guys at camp? and how can i get them interested in me?
Introduce yourself to them. Start a conversation about like sports or something you know alot about to get him interested and just be yourself! Rate me plz!
I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!!
Kevin Lyttle- "Turn me on"
Kanye West-"Jesus Walks"
Jessica Simpson-"Angels"
Sharpie marker- her favorite color black
Placing it on her wrist
She drew a dotted line
And a heart for good measure
The empty heart that stained her skin
Looked vacant next to the scattered stripe
She didn’t have a knife..
So the razor blade would suffice
And on the dotted line she sliced
wooah.. thats really descpritive
Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!
Nope not at all I do it everyday. But make sure you curl them before you put on mascara.. you don't wanna rip them out.. ouchie!
I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?
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Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!! 16 female
Wow.. haha! Well this is what I think of it..because you kept going back out with shows, shows you always have had feeligns for him no matter how hurt you were. And if you still do have feelings for him idk y you broke it off. It does sound like you two were meant to be. I hope everything works out! Rate me plz
I have been doing crunches regularly for a while now and I only see little results of a six pack. Do you know of any other ways I can get a six pack a little bit quicker?
Only do crunches every other day thats how you build muscle cuz brucnhes rip your muscles!
is it coOl to have sex?
No :]
everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him
Tell your friends that it's def. not up to them to decide who you wanna be with and to keep it to themselves. If looks don't mean anything to you then tell them that and to keep their mouths shut cuz they are ruining what you two have got! Rate me plz and good luck!
my best friend is a guy and we've gone out twice but i've been talking to him alot and i'm starting to like him again but after we broke up last time i told my self we would just be friends but i don't know now. what should i do should i tell him try to forget about it or what
I'd tell him you still have feelings for him. Breaking up was a big sign.. but getting back together was also a big sign and now that you still like him shows you a part of you still wants him. So I'd talk to him and maybe he feels the same way! Rate me plz hun!