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I am doing a project on the diversity in canada and i need some pictures for it. Anyone know where i can find them (link)


I do not know what I scan pictures wise of any interest to you. I am SIGH a Canadian and not an American. I can tell you about politics, structure, the country, stupid laws and a ton of things if needed for your report. As far as images sending a postcard of something can be arranged. What do you need really?

Try also some Canadian MPs and Provincal MPPs tell them--they eat this up-- That you wanted them to tell you about their country and have their constiuent office mention a ton of things. Get from AAA or CAA as the case may be their books on Canada and they include pictures sometimes and or they will have actual books about the country.

Try travel agents too pretend you are planning a trip but cannot decide what Canadian city you wanted to go to. Mention 5 you need to know about and boom info in there and pictures you can use. Just never ever let on you are A)NOT AN ADULT and B) NOT GOING ON A TRIP until they send stuff. It's a research tip I started at age 8 and made my voice deep as it gets.

If you sound like a little kid all you do when asked how old are you? is this "Oh, I get that all the time I'm pretty old. I sound lousy on the phone and get mistaken for my daughter...." Don't give age use that.

Sometimes lying is okay if they will not fork over the information to a kid. I do not condone lying outside of getting info for reports for school and never, ever, tell someone you will do this or that or write this and that for free stuff if you won't. Rule of thumb on free stuff and info.


where can i find quote by famous people for like an assignment for school??? thanks (link)

Hi,

There is if you go to a local bookstore and ask for it a book of quotations from everyone from Shakespeare to more contemporary famous people. It is a great thing to own especially for newspaper or assignment work in school and later on in college/university.

Now, when it comes to the Internet do not be lazy like most students and get it off of there. Your teachers will know instantly and the grade will be less. Anyone can use the Internet. They want you to learn how to research and dig--use the books, reference libraries and sources not used by your classmates. Get the book for sure. The more obscure or not someone they would think you know that said something dynamyte would earn you higher grades and respect.


On Friday (16th) I'm going to visit my aunt in Florida. I live in NJ, so I'm taking a plane down with my dad to see her. The thing is, ever since 9\11 I have been PETRIFIED to fly. I've gone on vacation a few times after that and I cried pretty much the entire way to our vacation spot I was so scared. I'm really trying to get over this, or at the very least figure out a way to calm myself down. Anyone have any ideas? (link)

This is what those evil malicious bastards that committed those deads want. They want us scared as hell. Our stance, and Bush's stance should be we're not to take this lying down--as it is.

In fact, air-safety has imporved a lot more since September 11th than ever before. Granted, it is still not that great but they do in fact have cockpit doors that are fortified meaning nobody else can kick down or open them. Federal Marshals can sometimes be undercover.

If a plane is presumed in trouble there are signals in the cockpit to indicate it. Fighter jets if they think a damn thing is wrong on an airliner guide it back to safety and start questioning people.

About all that you will experience is a takeoff that you did not like and a landing you did not like. The rest of time you will be safe and fine. 100% of most flights go well.

As far as crashes go--forget it. Airplanes are far more safer than any mode of transportaion and you will be fine.

I have no idea where you live but see if you can squeeze in one of those lessons where people will take you on a helicopter (tour of your city) or in flight lesson because you are scared by Friday. Once up there, you'll soon ignore anything else.

Like you there's no flipping way I would go on a regular jetliner without working over my fears first but that would happen.


in football today i broke a kids neck and he's parylized from the neck down. im fine with it, completly, really i am. i think i was just doing my job. but im not sure how i should act about it. should i just act like i feel bad or somethin? (link)


Talk about your troll trying to disrupt this place by getting millions of answers to the above stipid question. If this one is for real this person is more cracked than many I have met or read advice questions from. Again, if this was real this guy is a loser outright and a bit of a dumbass (sorry if that breaks rules) to say How should I act about it? If you do not know do not ask--we cannot help your cold heart.

The whole I was just doing my job even is so or fake in the question shows he doesn't get it. A person is paralyzed how even as a football player is that your job nimrod? As a football player the idea is to win a game and not severely injure someone or destroy a life.

This proves the question is a fraud: Should I feel or just act bad or something? If you are ansking in reality how to act give me a break and look up the word remorse in the dictionary, find your soul, and remorse, merge the two and try and make this person's life better because guess what?

Accident or not or even if this all BS A person is in some way responsible for making sure this kind of event does not happen again to another kid and to make this kid has a decent enough life. This whole thing will teach you to become a man and not an jerk asking should I be remorseful how should I behave and or feel? Think about it--you should know by now.


My dad never graduated from college. He was offered a very nice job when he was a sophmore at college and he took the job to help pay for his 10 brothers and sisters to go to college. He works for Delta now as a dispatcher. He got a 30% Pay cut in January and now is getting another 15%. I`m really scared of whats going to happen to my family. Can he get another job if Delta goes under ? I haven`t had a hair cut in over a year and im wearing my brothers old shirts because we can't afford much right now. ( Both my brothers are in college so alot of our money is going there ) What is going to happen if Delta goes out of Business ? I`m really scared were going to be hommeless. I've tried talking to my parents about it but I start to cry every time becuase I`m afraid of what is going to happen. Please help :( (link)


What if, what if, what if the whole world blew up tomorrow? I mean comeon that's absurd. It is also as absurd as you worrying over something that may not even happy. Who are you or anyone else to know what the future brings? It may be good for all you know. Last thing I knew all airlines were on rocky ground. If Delta goes out of business which I doubt it is not the only airline in town and your father has far more skills than you know of to find employment.

Having said that they have done a damn good job of caring for everyone thus far and will. There is social assistance and countless programs to keep people from going homeless which is nowhere near where your family is at.

Stop fearing the unknown as all anyone has is today so why worry? Cross the bridge rather than leap over it when you get there. There are always answers. Go about business as usual and enjoy yourself. Your parents know what is going on and you better believe they have plans and options you do not know of.


I was giving my boyfriend oral sex the other night and my little brother walked in. What do I tell him??? (link)

I would not raise the topic unless he in fact does. What he saw may not be what you think he saw. He may not have seen an awful lot. If he starts asking questions then tell him age appropriate answers. Unless he wants info do not give it to him not knowing who or where he would say anything. He will come to you rather than you go to him. Odds are you are more embrassed than he is confused. If you do not want him blabbing to people let the issue die if you can.

He probably brushed it off anyways if he's in the 10-13 stage as "Oh, that's what this is and what they were doing." and not care or so you hope. Again, say nothing unless he comes out with questions and even then say nothing he should not know.


Kay well like im a cheerleader and every cheer leader has a big sis/ little sis. Every game we get eachother a little cute gift that has to do with like who we are playing sooo we are playing the Panthers...and i have no clue what to do!! HELP please!! thanks much babes : ) (link)

Either you are or you are not a cheerleader. There is no like. A lot of teens put that in writing and in speaking. I wanted to point out not to be mean but rather save you being docked on reports for doing that. It is misuing in the eyes of a lot of profs, writers, teachers the language. There's a ton of them out there such as the word like that people use too much including at this time, at this junture, presentialy which all mean now. My rant is done.

Put simply to deal with your problem find a black panther Beanie Baby which does exist or a smallplush toy or keychain and you should come out well.


well you see i'm a mom of a 5 year old and he never leaves. and lately me and my husband have been wanting to have sex. and we're a very loud couple if you know what i mean. what do i do? (link)


It was either Bill Engvall or Jeff Foxworthy who said it recently. A cassette deck and children's tape that lasts 30 minutes is the only hope in hell you know you will have a normal sex life having kids. You know you have 30 minutes but hope that last song that starts up lasts longer.

Put it midly get something that interests him/her for an hour and put a lock on your door and try to do what you need. Either that, get the kid a sitter one night a week to keep your marraige going. Otherwise, the kid wins and the adults suffer. That kid has you so controlled at age 5 imagine when he/she is a teenager.

You have to also get some (you are not a bad parent) more parenting strategies and lessons to get a 5-year-old to be independent to the point where they are not clingy. It is at this stage behavior they have to drop. Get your mother and father in there helping with that and get your life back. Geez, if was like this for 5 years I have no idea how to dealt with the lack of itimacy.


hi! i want to buy a piercing gun. i have done 4 of my own piercings with needles and such, but i REALLY want a piercing gun. I know that legalluy everyone can get them. Where can you buy them?I've heard you can buy them at walmart, but i called the one by me and they don't have them. thanks. (link)

Wal-Mart as they should be are scared of selling anything with the word gun in the title. Having said that look in your Yellow Pages under Beauty Supplies and find out to get one. If that yeilds nothing call a hair-stylist and ask where do people buy piercing guns if they want to do X themselves?

I was thinking calling a tattoo and piercing place. Then again, why would they tell you? They want your business so they can put the hole in your nose, ear, or other place you can pierce. Definitely, look under beauty supplies in the phone book. You'll find it but it may take a lot of searching,


Does anyone know a website that I can look at/buy paper/waxy braclets that I can order them to say "Vote for me!" (link)

Try a Google Seeach. I take it you are running for student office. Great. As a Vice-Preident for over 3 years at a night school with tons of cultures I learned who to protect in terms of their interests amd who not to fight so hard for. I was acclaimed (meaning nobody wanted to run against me) for President the fourth year. I am not bragging just trying to illustrate a point.

Toss the bracelets idea, stupid poster, candy, buttons. Use neither or. Instead tack a slogan up on posters and fliers (limit the amount around the school and say "Honesty and Integrity For A Change." If anyone asks you where the braclets, where's my candy?

STUDENT POLITICS 101 HOW TO WIN MOST OF THE TIME LESSON:

Tell them straight up "Who would you rather have someone who bribed you with those things or someone who was honest and told you what they could do?" Point out also "Everyone giving you candy wants to make you look the other way to ignore what I will bring up..They don't know what to do once elected."

Also have great speeches, mention supporting charities, things you realistically can and cannot do and point out other things other people promised before you that you know cannot and will not work having heard that from teachers.

Remember know the role going in, examine what others did befoe you and capitalize on it and look at all the mistakes of the last three people in the job. Highlight it in speeches and show without saying it who the better person is. If in the chance you do not win understand this They were not ready for you and B) They will soon see they ought to have chosen you when someone else messes up.


14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?

- confused & clueless
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If you are confused or unsure you want to do something in the least bit sexual throw up the RED FLAG. Tell him straight up "I really like you and or love you but sex is something I am not ready for and I am not ready for X, Y, Z either."

If he does not respect you and your decision he can pack up and get out. Do not ever compromise yourself for someone who wants sex and then will ditch you. Be strong in your convictions.


My best friend who isn't a virgin, and I am 18 and am still a virgin, by choice I feel that I should wait until I am truly in love. Well any ways we got in to a fight to day and she said some ignorant thing, saying that I am a virgin because I can't get none. Which is so not true. I don't know if I should still be friends with her or not. And then we get in to fights because she is with her boy friend all the time, and we never spend any time together except for school. what should I do (link)


As for sex it is not the be all and end all of experiences. Anyone who built it up to be so has obviously never had it. Some might find the first go boring, difficult or nowhere near pleasureable. It is not a competition or a race to get to do it first. You are being smart and biding your time and waiting for the right person.

Whether 40 or 18 it does not matter to anyone but you and your convictions for waiting. Anyone who does not like this news (that frankly you should have kept to yourself) tough shit! It is not their body or them making the decision.

As far as this friend goes she sure as hell is not acting like one. Let her have her boyfriend and stay away when she wants to be friends again tell her straight up the garbage you no longer put up with.


Does anyone know any attractions/fun things to do for a group of about 10 13and14 year old girls to do in Niagra Falls? I'm on the attractions/fun things to do committee of my girl scout troop and I dont know what to do! (link)

I would hope they mean you are going to the Canadian side of the Falls. I have never known why but Niagra Falls, NY is pretty much dead with nothing there in the way of anything let alone an attraction. You will need passports and all of that before going--goes without saying.

Aside from Maid of The Midst Niagra Falls is loaded with quirky musiums. The famous of all of them is Madame Tusades (sp?) They have shrunk in size in recent years but have a ton of famous people in there and did (I don't know if they kept it) have a horror section.

There are if you have never been the whole wanted posters and goofy over the falls in a barrel photos and whatnot. There is an excellent museum I cannot remember the name that traces history of the area and ancient eygpt too.

Skyline Tower costs too much and avoid the Fun House and the stupid musuem with alien beings royal rip off. At the top of Clifton Road 4-5 across from Tusades is I think it's called Movieland. You will know this wax museum by two things--all the moveposters lined up on the wall and unless they moved it in the entrance Marilyn Monroe with the famous skirt scene.

Inside the museum is a ton of famous movie scenes and stars in wax. It is a really good museum to go to. There is also a Criminals Hall of Fame. Avoid it, it's a rip-off and besides people should not profit off the crimes of Jeffrey Dalhmer and his ilk. Who wants Charles Manson jumping out in the dark on them? Tjis museum still exists but should not.

Why is Canada better? Well the Falls on our side is larger and New York's is more like a regular waterfall.


I'm new to the school, and I just talked to this kid today who doesn't talk to anyone either, well I just asked him a question. He seems really cool & I really want to start being friends with him, or just talk to him. I don't want him to think I'm super weird, but I just want to start talking to him, because we're the only two that don't in the whole class of 25 people.

What's a good way to start conversation with this kid. The only time I see him is in that class, so I don't really know what to say. =/

Thanks a bunch. (link)

Make it easy. Ask him if he is just as scared as you are about the new school year. That will get him to open up with answers. Echange names, number, IM and whatnot and agree to meet up on a weekend. Bingo, done, no big deal. Happens and works 90% of all instances. If you admit being as afriad of the unknown as him that will loosen him or anyone else up with the same problem.


I'm 3 weeks into high school, and I've run out of ideas for outfits! Basically i mostly own tees and jeans, what can I do to spruce up my wardrobe? Some tips on things I could make, or inexpensive things, or simply something to add a touch to an outfit (like a cute hoodie or necklace) would help me a lot.


thanks xox0 (link)


It's a good attitude not what a girl wears that is the difference. A girl could be beautiful and dresses to the nines but an outright snot. Be happy with what you have already as you really do not need much more. A lot of people are going around in hand-me-downs. That reminds me if you do not like certain things and or are done with them be sure to donate those clothes.

You have answered your own question by saying what if I mix this with that. As long as it matches and works that's all you need here and it is your own sense and know how to do what you can with what you have got.


I think im an average looking girl. I have chestnut borwn hair, blue eyes, long lashes, and I nice body. My friends tell me I'm funny and fun to be around. At camp one kid even said I was hot! At school, no one has ever liked me. Not even in elementary has anyone had a dumb crush on me! What don't guys like about someone like me? I'm not nerd though I get staright As and stuff. I don't get it! I know looks aren't everything but I have a PERSONALITY! Guys, what wouldn't you like? (link)

Do not ask guys your age what they like in girls they sure as hell do not know. I was one of them. Girls at this age are three times more intellectually developed than they are. Girls therefore know more often what they want than boys do and take cahrge and get it.

I have a feeling what is happening is lots of boys like you but feel intimidated to talk to you because you are beautiful and they are shy and think she would never ever want me so why bother? Make it easy for people by learning about them and leaving the door open to things.

Rsentment could be another reason you are having trouble. If you score top marks and the teachers dote on you the kids in your class will give you grief. You have to be modest, keep your marks to yourseld, never be loud, or precieved as an arrogant little priss.

Your personality is fine as far as I or anyone else will tell. Nobody is going to like you or love you even if you do not like and love your ownself. If your self-esteem is in the gutter than no wonder your mental vision on who does and doesn't like you is flawed.

Who and or what are you mentally out of tune with when it comes to relationships? Get the answer and figure things out. Be a listener first and then a speaker around people.

I KNOW YOU DID THIS AS WE ALL DO IT: Think about the people you did not listen to or brushed aside. Maybe those people are the best friends or lovers you could be with. What were you doing when they came looking for you or were too afraid? Think about that and be more open and people will come to you. Any arrogance, conceit, anger, fear will sink your boat.


Im 13/f

There's this guy I really like. Last year, we were really good friends, especially since we had all our classes together. Now we're in the 8th grade, we have NO classes together (grrrr)! I barely see him during the day. Now we've kind of spread apart. What can I do? Do you think Instant Messaging could help in any way? (link)

The Internet as I said earlier keeps someone close farther away from you than closer to you because here is another road block being created to stay farther away then come together in the same room.

NOBODY is always busy. If they use that line it means they ARE TOO BUSY for you and trying to give you the brush off or end things nicely and you are not getting it. If they truly care for you they will make time for you.


HOw can i tell if these guys like me
Okay there are three guys whom maybe show signs they like me or something like that. One is called Ben, the other is called Connor and the other called Ryan

Ben always asks me weird questions like Are you a lion tamer? when i say no he's like well only cool people are tamers. then he's like oh sorry never mind, I didn't mean it. And one time I was trying to open my locker and this guy we'll call him Jim just kept on closing my locker door whenever I tried to open it. Ben started pulling his arm away and he's like leave her (me) alone.

Connor sits behind me and he always rubs his shoe against my shoe when I told him to stop he just smiles at me and keeps doing it and he has a girlfriend.

Ryan always bothers me whenever I try to do my locker combination he messes me up by turning the nunbers the wrong way. He also shuts my lucker when I open. Today he asked me what my name was.

Sorry its so long but are these signs of them crushing on me or what. Please HElp !! (link)

Warning signs should be going off about each of them. The first guy sounds a bit weird but okay. The second one has a girlfriend and could be a serial cheater so forgot that. The third one is an attention seeker and borderline bully.

If any of them like you I would be genuinely surprise. It looks as though they want to make you their plaything in terms of bullying, bothering, harassing. If they could not ask for your name in a normal way instead of bothering you about it then do they really give a shit? Something tells me these three want to work together to make you miserable. Do not fall for it especially if they are pretending to like you--then want to trip you up.


ok this kid i like is in my first period and he wants to kiss me tomarrow IVE NEVER KISSED ANYONE but i dont want him to no that im not sure what kinnda kiss and how would i no can u give me tips incase its an open mouth kiss urgg im so nervous (link)

Tell him no offense or anything but I like to know people a lot better before they kiss me. If you would like a kiss get to know me and we will see what happens. A kiss is meant to be intimate and between two people and private. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure there is no harm in waiting and telling him that.

As far as open-mouth kissing goes move up to it. You will know how to tilt your head and everything else in time. Do not rush the kissing thing or do it because of someone else and pressure. You will not enjoy it so you ought to be ready for it. If dazed, confused or overwhelmed hold off.


In the commercial for "Just Like Heaven" w/ reese witherspoon, what is the song playing in the backround, and who sings it? And, if yu can, cood yu give me the link to the song. Thanks for whatever help you can give me, i'll rate 5's for any help (link)


Try going online to hmv.ca (Record store) and going to the drop-down menu and hit soundtracks and then the name of the movie. Usually, there are audio snippets of each song and you can find out through pressing the links until you happen upon it. That is how I do it if I know the source. When I have no idea who sung it or where to find it this process takes a lot longer until someone says "I know this song it's by that girl insert name."




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