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Q: Im kinda bored... do you know any websites with funny videos?....anything entertaining
www.youtube.com & www.bored.com

Q: hey..i think your column is awesome, and that your super pretty. any way, my problem: my best friend is my brothers g/f. she is 17 almost 18. and she has this cousin who i like SO much. the problem is, he is a year & a half older then me, but he is 2 grades older then me because he skipped a grade. btw im 13/f. anyway way. i wanna go out with him so badly, because i like him so much, but i think he is too good for me because im not anything special. like im not tht pretty or smart or nething. my question...how can i get him to wanna go out with me without coming on to strong?? ive never actually met him but ive seen him a million times & i can meet him any time i want through my bff. thanks so much...ronnie

p.s. sorry if this popped up twice.
thank you!!! umm flaunt what you have!!! and just talk to him alot be like heyy your my brothers girl friends cousin righhtt? and act like u like him!!

Q: hey, i currently this straightener.

http://etm.freshegg.com/clientimages/18/resized_coriolisspink1_Resized.jpg

but it doesnt really work well on my hair at all. i have medium length hair and its curly. it often frizzes and it looks good right when i straighten it but after about an hour it gets wavy. so my question is .. i need a good straightener for back to school and i want some stores where i can get them. i do not want to buy it online so if you guys could tell me some stuff about yoru straightener and exactly where you bought it that would be great.

-caitt
Sallys

Q: is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian?
of corse not

Q: Today I decided to completley put my faith and trust into God, I really took him into my life today. However, I just started going to church last year so I was never baptised and never confirmed. Can I still expect to go to Heaven? What exactly does being confirmed or baptised mean?
Everyone goes to heaven. Just not the bad people. Baptism is when you are free from original sin.

Q: What do the numbers after a person's name mean in the bible?

ex- Mark 16:16
chapter 16 ; verse 16 in the book of mark

Q: Please dont be offended by this, it's something i have been wondering about, it sounds discusting (and it is) but i think it must have happend.

Did God only create Adam and Eve or did he make other humans too?

I ask, because if it was only up to them to populate the earth hen surely incest must have taken place :-s

Adam and eve could have lots of children but then when they died there would have just been brothers and sisters left so that means that they wuld have had to make babies with eachother to make more people.

Is that what happend? i know it wasnt illegal back then but it's just so icky.
i know its a wierd question to ask but no one else ever talks about how people were made.
Well just be happy that happened. Cause or else you would not be here.

Q: I love and believe in God and have my whole life. I come from a religious family but recently it's been really hard to believe. In the past month, I've lost my Aunt and my best friend's Dad to cancer.


My Aunt was just about the best person I've ever met. Honestly, sometimes I can't stand my extended family but she was different. She was always sweet, energetic (when she wasn't in the hospital) and optimistic.


My dad is always working so I almost never get to see him except on Sundays. My best friend and her family live next door so I was always around them and her father. He was such a great man and acted like a great father figure to me considering I don't have any older brothers and my dad is always working or busy with clients.


It's not fair that they get sick and die when there are murderers and such running around everywhere. It's not fair that God does this to me, my family, and my friend's family. My Aunt and her dad were great people and it's not fair that God takes them from us like that. I want to still believe that it all happens for a reason and that God loves me, and he know what he's doing, but I can't. I don't know what to do.
God is real. Trust me on this. I lost my father to cancer, my house to herrican Katrina, my love life stinks, and my friends are all mad at me. All i do it pray. Hes there.

Q: How do you apply eyeliner? I don't know where to put it or how to put it on without poking my eye. please help!
at the creese of your eye. practice

Q: Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.

Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)

While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.

I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.

I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.

I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.

But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.

I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.

Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.

- appologizing to God for this.

HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?

- how do I stop this

any ideas?

- this feeling

even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.

AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?

this feeling is sick.
I want to die.
its okay. if you are really sorry, then God will forgive. Tell her, dont lie. thats wrong. Tell her. just do it.

Q: I'm not trying to offend anyone,
there are a lot of stories about fairies, and there are a lot of stories about God.
We don't have proof that fairies or God exists...yet so many people are convinced God does, while fairies or something of the sort are classified as just things in story books.
I'm not trying to get attention or anything, but I kind of don't get it.
So, just wondering...do you have an answer?
theres proff. dreams.. prooff. how did we all get on this earth? trust me theres proff.

Q: i was wondering if anyone knew how to get my hair like this:

http://www.prohaircut.com/Colour_vision_175.html

i recently posted another question like this, but my link was broken and i was wondering if anyone knew how to get it like this. i have a curling iron, but i dont get the curls exactly like the link because they do not appear as tight. THANKS! =]
go to sallys. tell them what you want. they will know exactly to get you to buy.

Q: ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
me and you are oposites... from where i am EVERYON is a viginnn. .and one guy pressered me into sex. sooo i had sex. yes and now im a whore. DONT HAVE sexx please =[ your fine

Q: okay i wanted this headband to go with one of my outfits but i dont know where to buy one. if you ever saw the hills on mtv, lauren wears one a lot. its black & thick at the top but gets thinner until it goes behind your ear?? anyone know where they sell those??

thanks!
EDIT:

I bought some at stein-mart today =]

Q: okay... so im 15/f almost 16..

sorry that this is soo long and thanks in advance for your help and answers.

so i will start from the begining.

last june me and my friends were at some huge event. that was just kind of on a street. and my one friend lets call him jack. well he was talking to me for a while. and then he had to go do something that had to do with the event. and then i said to him oh yeah did you see brooke? and he was like shes here where? and he pushed me out of the way and went running away and didnt say anything to me the whole rest of the night. i just forgot about it.

Then August 7th he found out that i liked him because my friend had told him. The the next day (August 8th) i saw him at another kind of event thing near my house. I was driving by and i saw the event thing. so i went down and saw all kinds of friends. including jack. when the thing jack and my other friends were doing was over (a kind of performance thing) i went over and started talking to some of my friends. Jack didnt talk to me once. And he was with Brooke (the girl he pushed me out of the way to go running over to last time). And The next day was my birthday so i thought he might have came over and said oh yeah happy birthday if i dont talk to you or something. cause we were really good friends. but he didnt. he didnt even say anything to me.

So me and him got into a fight that night online. My friend christina helped me and him sort things out. And he had told christina that he was going to get me something for my birthday which was the next day. And before i had said to christina that he didnt remember my birthday and he would probally remember booke's birthday.

So The next day ( august 9th my birthday) i dont get a gift from him. i dont get a card from him. he doesnt even say happy birthday to me. So i got mad. and the next day he apologized and said well i thought it might make you mad at me.

And for his birthday i made him a really nice card that took me like a longgg time to make. And i know i deff. said happy birthday too.


So whatever.


This year for his birthday (which is in march) i made him a really nice card again that took me even longer. And i gave him 50 dollars too.

and

He doesnt even remember when my birthday is. Because i asked him and he didnt know. So i didnt tell him.

And this really made me mad that he didnt know when it was after everything that happend last year he still didnt rememeber.


is it wrong that im mad? or is it normal.
Thanks for you time and please answer this.
=]
omgosh he sounds like a jerk. talk to him about it. wait why was this in augest? augest of last year??? cause today is just julyY?? im confused please tell me in my feed back and ill edit it and answer some more

Q: This is a shot in the dark, but can anyone help me figure out this program? I'm having trouble entering expenses, like mileage.
sure

Q: umm this may be a stupid question, but how do you kiss? i mean do you just go for it? what do guys expect out of a 13 year old? closed mouth open-mouthed? please help!
slightlyn open your mouth and then stick your tounge out about 2 inches and play with his.

Q: hi i was wandering if anyone could help me find a cute middle name.... my daughters first name is gonna be Kylee ( pernounced like (kigh leigh) and i need a cute middle name to match with it. i appreaciate it! Thanks!!
*sarah*
kaylee may or kaylee grace

Q: yeah my sn is rchez731, hit me up on it sometime
alright, sure

Q: I just recently had a baby and i have alot of stitches in my vagina area i'm just wondering i've been feeling horny is it safe to materbate?
try just by rubbing the clit

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Hey! My name is Sam. Short for Samantha. Im one of those Tipical 13 year old girls. I am a absolute horrible speller. LOL! yes. Um, let`s see. You can ask me almost anythinggg.=p

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