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birthdayy...
okay... so im 15/f almost 16..
sorry that this is soo long and thanks in advance for your help and answers.
so i will start from the begining.
last june me and my friends were at some huge event. that was just kind of on a street. and my one friend lets call him jack. well he was talking to me for a while. and then he had to go do something that had to do with the event. and then i said to him oh yeah did you see brooke? and he was like shes here where? and he pushed me out of the way and went running away and didnt say anything to me the whole rest of the night. i just forgot about it.
Then August 7th he found out that i liked him because my friend had told him. The the next day (August 8th) i saw him at another kind of event thing near my house. I was driving by and i saw the event thing. so i went down and saw all kinds of friends. including jack. when the thing jack and my other friends were doing was over (a kind of performance thing) i went over and started talking to some of my friends. Jack didnt talk to me once. And he was with Brooke (the girl he pushed me out of the way to go running over to last time). And The next day was my birthday so i thought he might have came over and said oh yeah happy birthday if i dont talk to you or something. cause we were really good friends. but he didnt. he didnt even say anything to me.
So me and him got into a fight that night online. My friend christina helped me and him sort things out. And he had told christina that he was going to get me something for my birthday which was the next day. And before i had said to christina that he didnt remember my birthday and he would probally remember booke's birthday.
So The next day ( august 9th my birthday) i dont get a gift from him. i dont get a card from him. he doesnt even say happy birthday to me. So i got mad. and the next day he apologized and said well i thought it might make you mad at me.
And for his birthday i made him a really nice card that took me like a longgg time to make. And i know i deff. said happy birthday too.
So whatever.
This year for his birthday (which is in march) i made him a really nice card again that took me even longer. And i gave him 50 dollars too.
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He doesnt even remember when my birthday is. Because i asked him and he didnt know. So i didnt tell him.
And this really made me mad that he didnt know when it was after everything that happend last year he still didnt rememeber.
is it wrong that im mad? or is it normal.
Thanks for you time and please answer this.
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omgosh he sounds like a jerk. talk to him about it. wait why was this in augest? augest of last year??? cause today is just julyY?? im confused please tell me in my feed back and ill edit it and answer some more
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Hey,
ofcourse its not wrong for you to be mad at him, because the guy obviously is obssessed about brooke, and he is crazy in love with her.And he probably didn't really love you as the way he loved brooke, so when he heard that you like him, he was kind of embarrased to talk to you, and in the same time, he thought that you guys were freinds, and he was kind of disappointed to hear that you had another feeling towards him.
But either ways, no talking to you is definitelly not the way to deal with the situation,and is dead wrong in every action he is doing. He did remember your birthday, but he didn't do anything about it, because he was probably to busy with brooke, and he doesn't really care if you get mad or not.
So let me tell you something, i have had a best friend before (a guy) for 6 whole years, and then on the 7th he met this girl and was so crazy about her,and he just started ignoring me and ditching me and being so mean to me for no reason. And he even forgot my birthday and didn't care about me at all anymore.
And thats when i knew it, that he simply met someone new that changed his whole entire life, therefore he moved on and just simply left you. Thats what all people do, they move on and meet new people and leave the old ones. It may hurt so much, but thats the truth and sometimes you have to listen to it.
Sometimes, he could feel that what he did was wrong and go back to you, and sometimes he may not. But either ways ,don't wait for him, and move on with your life too. And don't run after him, and don't go talking to him, because if he wants to talk ,then he can talk, and if he doesn't, then its his loss. Because i am sure that he doesn't know that he is losing such a truly amazing friend like you, or someone who love him so dearly as you do.
So go on and find someone who really does deserve you ,and someone who loves you back and cares about you.
and if you need any other help or advice,
Please be free to contact me,and try to consider all i said.It will really help you to hear the truth and to hear whats right for you and what should be done.
Goodluck with your life:)
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