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is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=) (link)
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not at all, just to keep it a secret from those who would think that though
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ok i was reading this magazine and in the magazine there were about 100 guys who described there perfect girl.
most said "caring, thoughtfull" but some of them described appearances. 1 guy said "preferebly long, brown hair" and the other said "curly, brunette hair" but none of them said blonde.
i have short blonde hair, and i was wondering if guys really do care about hair color or style.
thanks. (link)
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Hair color does not really matter. I like blonde girls best but that is just me. Usually I go for athletic girls that are smart and just take whatever hair color they have. It's not a big deal.
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ok so im a 16/f and im going to call this guy that i like today. but okay i met him and talked to him twice. and he likes to skateboard and we also talked babout music. but bseides that what else should we talk about since we barely know eachother? and also i need some flirting tips! thnx (link)
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Talk about what he would like. Guys really like it when a girl talks to then about their hobbies like sports and other activities. It's kind of hard to tell you how to flirt on the phone since a majority of flirting is body language. Keep your voice flirty and laugh sometimes.
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Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent! (link)
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Make sure you get his number and email address first of all. After this no worries. Just relax and let Fate handle it. Email me later with what happens next I could probably guide you through a large part of it. For now though deep breathes, relax, and get his contact information that's all I ask for now.
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Normally, i am a really outgoing and funny person. but whenever i get around the guy i like, i get really shy and nervous. i want him to like me back, and people are always saying to flirt and make him laugh. but i get afraid that i will say something stupid. how can i get over this? (link)
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Build up your confidence. There are a lot of ways to do this. Just relax and act like you normally would.
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14/f
There is this guy thats my friends friend, and we dont know each other very well. anyway, we met once before and my friend introduced us. then, when i was leaving, i went to say bye to my friend and the guy. but when i left he asked me what my name was. no big deal i told him again. then the second time i met him i was sitting outside with my friends. he comes up and sits really close to me, a little closer than shoulder to shoulder. i turn and look at him, and he asks me my name again. i got nervous cause he was just a few inches away from me, but i answered. was he trying to flirt with me or was he just being a jerk? (link)
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He probably just wanted your name. It's kind of hard to tell from just that.
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16/F junior in High School
I'm usally good with guy advice, but I can't seem to figure this one out..
There is this boy I really like. Ok well I don't like him but I do. I love the feeling I get when I'm with him but when were not together we ever rarely talk, and my cell has a special ring for him when he calls/texts me and I get SO excited my stumoch drops. Though I don't want a boyfriend but I still want to hook up with him and everything I just dont know how I should feel about him. I have a CRUSH and I never ever crush or think anyones HOT and I think hes hot. If anything I think I'm only attractide to his looks, cause otherwise his personailty for girls..sucks..HE LOVES GIRLS..and I dont get jealous..but he makes me want to kill other girls. I just don't know what to do. ( a major factor might be the fact we had sex, hes the second person i did it with but i dont feel like that is a reason i think about him 25/7) I am honestly undecied about how i feel..and its freaking me out.. (link)
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You already did all that with him whats the problem.
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what do you mean let him have his fun as long as im having fun i like him alot and i broke up with my bf...i dont kno how to tell if he likes me or not and i dont want to ask him if he likes me thats weird (link)
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Well you need to let the guy do his own thing for a while. Just remember you need to have fun to or your confidence will drop. Ways to tell if he likes you would be he will flirt with you, keep eye contact, and smile a lot. He will also touch you and be more friendly. Hope I answered your question.
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I need help and fast. i dont know what to do. i am going crazy. i have liked this guy for a while now and finally before skool ends i got up the courage to talk to him. then my friends started calling him alot and after a while he stopped answering. i am pretty sure he got annoyed. when my friend would call him he would talk then i would call and he wouldnt talk to me. i do not know why. when i finally start talking to him skool ends and of coarse since he doesnt answer his phone i have no way to talk to him. i dont know if it was cuz he was shy or if he didnt want to talk cuz at one point when me and my friend called his brother was trying to get him tot alk on the phone with us and he wouldnt. now i cant move on unless i know for sure if he likes me or not. i dont know why but i just cant move on. so what do i do. i want to enjoy my summer without worrying about stupid guys but i cant get him off my mind. (link)
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Just find another guy you like. It's summer just have fun and you can try again next year but for now I suggest you relax.
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ok i live in a small town, and me and my friends walk all over, like to small resteraunts and stuff, im 14/f by the way not like an adult. and i see this kid that i like sometimes all over. but he hates me, he doesnt really know me and i dont know why i like him, but i cant help myself, hes not even good looking. neway, i just want to become friends with him, i kinda know its impossible, but idk, what should i do? (link)
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Listen to me on this one don't worry about it. Two people that hate each other have a better chance of going out than best friends. It may sound wrong but it's the truth. Think of it like this. Love is a mixture of two emotions pleasure and pain. Hate is also a mixture of two emotions anger and pain. So even if two people hate each other that's still half the equation.
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Gosh! I hate the fact that I don't know how to flirt! Everyone says that guys dont like me because of the way I act. I'm 14/f and these guys are like 16 or 17 maybe. My cousin keeps telling me that she doesnt act like I do but she didnt have b/fs when she was my age either! Shes 16 and she said the way I act is a turn off! PLZ HELP! (link)
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When you flirt just remember body language is more important. Back straight, open posture, don't forget to smile and keep eye contact. When you flirt do it with all guys not just the ones you find attractive. Talk about them not just yourself and stuff the guy would be interested in. Good luck and just have fun with it.
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i need boy advice. how would i get a boy whos going into 9th and im going into 8th i no him not well were in all the same sports hes pop and im in the middle and a lot of girls like him ALOT hes funny and into sprorts track cc and basketball hes supper cute and supper nice how would i get him interested in me? (link)
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You tell me you both play sports and that's a good thing. Guys who play sports really like athletic girls. You need to flirt with him a lot but not just him. Make sure to flirt with other guys so there is competition among them and he will think about you. If all you do is flirt with him he will sense there is no challenge and forget about you. When you flirt keep eye contact and smile all the time. Good luck.
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so i totally had a crush on this guy for a few weeks, since like, may... like 27th or something (it's june 14 today). so like, his bff is on my bus, and he's never really talked to me before, but lately he's been like acknowledging me & talking to me more.. idk why... but today, i asked him to sign my yearbook, and he wrote, "to my dearest (my name here)" and i was like omfg, do i like him?... cause yeah guys like me and all but this kid is kinda cute... and what about my crush? i think my crush hates me anyway now cause of my friend hahaha but seriously. Help.
- sined, confused (link)
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I would say to pick the one you like better but also take into consideration the one who makes the first move. Don't worry about the other guy hating you people who hate each other have a better chance of going out than best friends. This may not be the case all the time but don't get stuck in the friends zone. I know what I am talking about just trust me and go with your gut feeling.
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I really like this guy. He's my best friends step brother. He asked me out a couple weeks ago, but then broke up with me three days after he asked me out. He said he doesn't get to see me, so it'll never work out. He never even asked my number or email address. It makes me mad that he was so dumb not to ask. I still like him and he was only my third REAL boyfriend. I just started dating soooo, yea. And i really want to not like him, but i do like him. I need help! Am I mental? (link)
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Just find another boyfriend you like better. It's not that hard there are probably a ton of boys where you are. Pick one you think is a lot better than you're old boyfriend.
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Okay, I dumped my boyfriend a week ago and now Im going out with a new guy.But every day I think about my ex boyfriend..How do I stop thinking about him?Or do you think I still have feelings for him? (link)
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To stop thinking about him just find a better boyfriend. Remember love is like energy, it cannot be created or destroyed it can only change. Find someone else better to spend your love on. If you wanna call it that.
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How do I get over my ex boyfriend? (link)
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All you need to do is find someone better. Once you do this you will forget all about your ex. It's not that hard either just look around until you find someone. Remember love can't be created or destroyed it can only change. Find someone else to like and all your problems will be solved.
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he does touch me and hes my best frend so i know him pretty well.......he was touching me and i played chicken with him at a pool party but sometime he does this with other gals just because hes like that idk what to do (link)
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Just let him have his fun. As long as you are having fun to it should be no big deal.
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ill make its simple
i started talking to my old campfriend and his friends. he likes me A LOT but i dont like him. i rejected him a couple times, and he keeps asking me for more chances. i dont know what to tell him, but im pretty sure like one of his friends.
what can i say to him to make him get over me?
i would feel horrible if i did anything with his friend, but he shouldnt "own me"
help is appreciated (link)
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Just give it some time. Chances are he will find someone he likes better and you can help out if you know what I mean. Once he likes someone else you can hang out with his friend. Until then I don't know what to say. Good luck with this one.
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ok so im with this guy that im pretty sure im gonna break up with beacause hes to prude and its not realy going anywhere and he doesnt even call me ....i semi like this guy J and i cant tell if he likes me or not...i dont wantto ask him rite of the blue and we were at a pool party and he was playn chiken with me what shud i do how can i tell if he likes me or not (link)
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Break up with your bf if you want it's not my call. However you can tell if a guy likes you because he will flirt with you and touch your arm, back, etc. Just ask him if he wants to hang out and try to get to know him better.
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i was going out with this boy before and we broke up, a few weeks later he got with one of my friends, but now we are goign back out but i can't help to think what he thinks when he sees her or really what happened between them two..what can i do to not be so jealous of something that happened 8 months ago? (link)
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Just relax. Trust your boyfriend and don't worry about the past. The past is gone can't do anything about it now.
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