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guy i like hates me
ok i live in a small town, and me and my friends walk all over, like to small resteraunts and stuff, im 14/f by the way not like an adult. and i see this kid that i like sometimes all over. but he hates me, he doesnt really know me and i dont know why i like him, but i cant help myself, hes not even good looking. neway, i just want to become friends with him, i kinda know its impossible, but idk, what should i do?
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well this has happened to me and ur heart can only tell you what attracts you to someone,but when you see him be yourself, smile a little,but dont creep him out and when the time is right talk to him and you will slowly become friends=)
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Try to talk to him. Help him get to know you a little better. If he shuns you down do not bother with him. Then that just proves he is not worth your time. You are only 14 there are plenty more guys out there and you have plenty more years!
Good Luck!
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I don't think becoming friends with him or anything else is impossible. You should be more positive and try to be more optimistic. Maybe you have low self esteem and he's picking up on that. It's time for a little more positivity in your life. When you like yourself, others will like you too. You just have to be secure in who you are.
Also, many guys who are around your age don't know how to express interest in a girl yet. All they know how to express is indifference and/or dislike - like is usually much harder for them. Look at this as a challenge - make him like you. What's the worst that can happen? You find out he's not worth your time and you're better off without.
That sounds like a pretty good lesson to learn to me!
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Listen to me on this one don't worry about it. Two people that hate each other have a better chance of going out than best friends. It may sound wrong but it's the truth. Think of it like this. Love is a mixture of two emotions pleasure and pain. Hate is also a mixture of two emotions anger and pain. So even if two people hate each other that's still half the equation.
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