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I can help mostly anyone in anything! Just to let you know i wanna be a pchyologist when 'm older so this is just like practice for me=)-

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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?

hey sweetie,they aren't real friends then if they like you because you have money or not. If I were you I would just talk to your friends and if they don't understand they aren't real friends and stick with the other "rich people" and act like it's not that great.Maybe people will start to like you again!hope i helped!xoxo Nicole

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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

hey sweetie,i think its fine!!!hope i helped xoxo nicole

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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13

srry i cnt answer your question its confusing xoxo nicole

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i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...

hey sweetie,i think you guys should have dated first but i mean if you guys trust eachother i think its fine!I would ask him out if i was you!!hope i helped xoxo nicole

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Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?

hey hun,DON'T CHOOSE BETWEEN FRIENDS!!! You can be friends with both of them! Just hang out with botyh of them at different times!Or hang out with them all at the same time and maybe you guys could aoll be a big group of friends!hope i helped! xoxo NiCoLe

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*

hey sweetie,That's a question you have to ask yourself,are you ready?and if oyu are remember WEAR PROTECTION!hope i helped xoxo Nicole

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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks

umm *Mean Girls* *Napoloen Dynamite* *White Chicks* A Cinderella Story* i dnt kno lol hope i helped xoxo nicole

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13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.

Hey babesz,i would wait about 2 weeks.It takes a girl awhile to get over something!But a girl likes when a guy helpes her get over there ex.So just help her out and she might fall 4 you!!hope i helped and everthing works out!!!xoxo Nicole~

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please help me. im 14 and when i was 9 my mum left me and i was left with my dad but my dad blaimed me and he started hitting me and then he has been taken to court but he wont get sent to prison because i cant give evidence because i cut myself and im 'suicidal' so they say im mentally unstable what shall i do i want to die and im scared.

hey hun,first of all i have to say i am SO sorry about all this!Call a child services place and get him reported!Don't kill yourself! Talk to a close relative about this and go stay with your aunt/uncle/grandparents!oh my i am so sorry about this! God Bless!xoxo Nicole feel free to ask me anything!

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What does it mean when you link a screename in aim?

Hey hun, my sn's are linked!It means you are gonna be on two sn's at the same time!hope i helped!xoxo nicole

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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx.

hey sweetie,there is a chance you could be pregnant just look out for the signs.But i highly doubt you are pregnant.So just look out for the signs but don't worry too much!!hope i helped!! xoxo Nicole~

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My boyfriend lives with me, and he's always here (I'm 14/f), that's not the problem though. I just feel like he never really pays attention to me. He's playing video games, or he's on the computer, and I do so much for him, all I want is attention. How do I talk to him, or make him want me more, not even in a sexual way, but I just want attention. How do I tell him this without him thinking I want sex and without him being mad and have it actually work? sorry it's confusing, but I really need advice. I'll rate.

hey hun, since you live with him you can talk to him! But before you talk to him jsut when hes playing a video game or on the computer just site by him maybe play the game with him or just go by him and hug him and kiss him! Then if that diesn't work pull him over on the couch or somthing and be like "we haven't did anything together for awhile wanna go out for dinner or something?" or something like this "whats going on?"i hope it all works out and i hope i helped!!xoxo NiCoLe~

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okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*

hey hunny,find someone and stick to them!But make sure you be yourself and make sure its someone you can talk to like they are your best friend!I think you might just be scared your going to mess up!Don't be,we are all human and make mistakes!And if the guy you end up dating cares about a silly mistake it shouldn't matter!hope i helped and everything works out!xoxo nicole

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This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*

hey babes,carry around mints or something.hope i helped!feedback&rateing is appreciated but u dnt have to xoxo Nicole

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How do you download music from music match juke box to an mp3 player? please i need help

Hey hun, sorry i can't help! Look it up.hope i helped =/ lol xoxo Nicole

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15f, okay ive realized that having like 2 or 3 best friends is perfect, no drama no nothing, and then they started hanging out with their old friends who are totatlly bitches, sry, but i could care less then at 300 in the morning last night i get these stupid phone calls of them making fun of me and my boyfriend, i just feel really hurt and betrayed by them because it wasn't them saying things but they were telling them to say things obviously because i tell them everything and to only them. i just wished that they could have made the other girls stop calling me. i just hope that you guys got that, its hard to understand, but what should i do, now all i have is my bf and his friends? should i talk to my best friends about what they did?

Hey Sweetie,They don't like a 'friend' to me.But if you think they are worth it go ahead and talk to them.I recommend it.And if they were real friends they would respet that and would stop.Adn if they are not good friends and don't respect that you deserve way better.But remember you need to respect that they found new friends but they need to stop making fun of you!hope i helped and everything works out!xoxo NiCoLe~

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I used to like this guy since kindergaten and he's been in my class ever since(except fourth). Now that I'm in Jr. High, I'm not interested in him or any other guy anymore. everyhting has changed since I started. Is this normal?

Hey Hun, That happend to me before. I am pretty sure it's normal.You just got so sick of waiting you gave up.I think...hope i helped please rate&feedback is appreciated! xoxo Nicole

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my ex b/f told me that he likes me yesterday...hes a year younger then me, and a grade below me... he knows that i dont like him...he said that he liked it alot the last time we went out. we are supposed to hang out this week. he says that i shouldnt feel bad, but i do.... things wont be very bad for me, but hes a shy person and i dont know if hes gonna talk to me when we hang out...is there anything i can do or say that will help him any...???

Just make him feel comfertable around you.Talk to him.Offer him things i dnt know.lol hope i helped xoxo Nicole

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ok so yeah i really like this guy hes so sweet hes a on the varsity football team as a sophmore hes a wrestler and so hott!! we are friends and everything already so i think that it would be good. hes like the perfect dream guy the problem is that he is my cousins best friend and they have been friends for the longest time too and his friend has been there for him through everything even the death of his father. so yeah i really want to go out with this kid but i mean i dont want to hurt my friendship with him or the relationship with my cousin or their friendship what should i do?

Hey hun,talk to your cousin 1st and see if its okay with her to date him!Then make it happen!Ask him out!Take that chance because our not always going to have chances like that!hope it all works out!hope i helped please rate and feedback please! xoxo Nicole

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My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_*

Hey Hunny,first of all i have to say i'm SO sorry but remember he is in a better place now!And your friend Nicole just think of it this way she will be fine! Talk to someone tell someone close how you feel!Get all that negitave stuff out of your system! Trust me everything will be alright. I don't think God would do that!God Bless you and your friends! Hope i helped xoxo nicole

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