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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED

Don't go, Just in case. It is not even cool to take the risk.I hope i've helped! = )

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what did you do? did you like it?

She's my best friend,It was like nothing.

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would you ever kiss a girl

Yes, I have.

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How can I rate someone? Please help me.

When someone answers your question, it should say rate the person,click that.

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

I personally don't think there is such thing as a poser. I think you should be able to dress the way you want and nobody should be able to say anything about it. If you don't skateboard that's alright, but dress how you are most comfortable dressing. Hope i've helped! = )

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tomorrow is my birthday but im not having a party cuz my parents r strict like that. family is coming over n stuff but see i havent talked to my best friend alice since the day before yesterday. i mean she knows its my b day tomorrow but idk if shes gonna come. should i invite her ne way? but i mean what would we do?

Invite her and call her and see if she's able to come. It's always extra exciting to have a best friend with you on your birthday.

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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

Well, to be totally honest with you. I've tried so many long distance relationships and they never work out. Because, since you can never see them, How do you know they're not cheating? And you can never see them and you can never have the fun that you can in a real relationship. I don't think it'll work out and hunny, it would be so much easier to find someone that you can just lay with and cuddle and actually be able to talk with. So, just talk it out with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Good luck!

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How do you get over a hangover?

Sleep and take advil or pain killers.

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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused

Tell him that you want to be friends with him, but you're not ready for a steady relationship. Just be straight up honest with him, because if he finds out that you weren't honest, he's going to come back and find a way to stab you in the back. So just talk it out with him and see how it goes. Good luck!

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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them?

Try calling them. And if they're talking behind your back, they're not true friends. Try talking to them and tell them how you feel, if they're your real friends, they would care.

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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

Nope. You're not a virgin anymore once you have sex. Experimenting is one thing, but actually doing it because you like girls is another thing. It's acutally perfectly normal. But, make sure you keep checking out the boys. =D Hope I've helped..Happy new year!

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i always have dark bags underneath my eyes. they used to only be there if i havent had much sleep, but now you can always see them. does anyone know how to make these go away or know of any good makeup or something that would cover it up?

Compact or coverup.

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Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????

Well if you're able to trust him and believe him that he loves you, go for it, I would definately think about giving him another chance. But, if you think he's going to screw up and just make you go through the same thing you did before, than ditch the asshole. I hope I helped you! = D

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i just met this boy and hes 18 and hes wicked gorgeous and nice and he let me borrow his cd and im gona be burning cds for him and possibly chillen with him sometime..but the thing is i like him, alot and i cant get him off my mind..but he has a girlfriend. and i dont wanna do anything with him even though i was gonna make a move on him the 1st time i met him..but then i thought, if i was his g.f and another girl macked up on my boy..and i found out, how i would be hurten so i didnt do anything..but i just cant forget about him aand how i didnt do anything to show him how i feel..yeah i told him but idk..do you think i did the right thing by controling my urges and just tlken to him?

Tell him how you feel. Also tell him that you're not trying to ruin anything between him and his girl you would just like to be able to get to know him better. It's probably not the best advice you've got so far. But if it helps any, than I am happy for you. Good luck babes!

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I hate school so much and i am trying to get in a new school but i think my principles hate me or something they are so mean to me and i cant stand it! Well I need someones help what would you do if you were in this situation?

Talk to your parents about that. And since your principals are mean to you, I would change schools. No matter if they don't like you, they have no right to be treating anybody in their school like that.

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I think i'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow to "hang out". What should we do? Cuz we'll probably be bored like usual. Thanks!!!

Well. Take a walk with him and talk, watch a movie, kiss, cuddle.. Things like that.

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I'm inviting 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering party. We're going to the movies, which'll take up like 4 hours.. But do you guys have anymore ideas.. Thanks XO

Go to the mall, or hang out and do hair,nails...girl stuff.. etc. Unless there is boys there also, than I'd say chill at the mall.

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i just gave birth 5 weeks ago and my disposible stiches are irrating me so much, the dr said it was normal but id like to hear other opinions...also my discharge is really goopy, i think its the disposable-ness of the stiches??? im not sure...help...

The stitches are usually irritating. But for the discharge, you might want to check into your doctor about that.

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What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time?

When you love the boy
When you feel you are safe doing it
and when you know that he loves you back..

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what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them?

The blood rises up and fills the penis and they can start getting them when they hit puberty.

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