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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps
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WEll put some posters around your neibor hood tellthem Trained dog and for free or for sell either one put adds in the paper if your parents dont mind but that cost some so I would go with the posters
Hoped I helped
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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WEll really its not how old you should be its are you really in love with this person I mean you dont want to have sex at a young age just because your friends did I know its hard I am 14 and allot of my friends started to have sex already you should make sure the person you have sex with you love because you will alway remeber it...
Hoped I helped
~MeGaN~
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So I'm just wondering...if you want to be a model and you are a girl, what are some basic requirements that most agencies want? (link)
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THey like the women to be skinny and smooth skin and to have a great body
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hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do?? (link)
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Well You can go out side when its dark and tell ghost stories. And you can watch some sad movies I cant think of any but I'm sure you can order pizza and play truth or dare And just play some crazy but phone stuff out side thats what I did lashed year when I was 13 hope the party is fun
Megan
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im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman? (link)
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NO I mean yall arent related by blood so it really isnt odd or anything now if he was related to you by blood that would be odd
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This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*
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Well I know how you feel I asked my dentist and he jsut said chew mint gum all day so I mean hey try that lol
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When do your breasts stop growing because I'm 14 and I wear a size B bra and how much will I be when I stop growing? Thanks! Please try to give me a range of my bra size for me! (link)
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WEll people stop and all different ages but the most common 15-17 so your almost there lol
Megan
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ok last valentines day my b/f took me to buy a puppy. i wanted the first one i saw a little pekinese puppy. i was purebred so he paid 900.00 for the dog. i've never had a dog before just cats and i didn't know what i was getting myself into. now i can't stand the dog. i can't train it to go to the bathroom outside, its super hyper, jumps on my son and tries to hump him. i can't imagine how much it would cost to fix him. i want to get rid of the dog but my b/f doesn't. we're constantly fighting about it. any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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Well I know its hard but to train the dog you need to give him a treat when he goes to the bathroom out side get some stuff to spray out side that they can only smell and it smells like pee. And to fix him its about $150.00 but if you dont want to put an add in the paper just put some signs around your neighborhood or some thing like that, that wont cost anything
Hoped I helped
Megan
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do u know a way u could practice slow dancing WITHOUT a guy or friend or anything like just up n ur room>? (link)
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Its kind of stupid but a stuff animal and move with the beat jsut hope no one walks in on you lol
hoped I helped
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what does masturbatting mean I hear people say iro n here all the time (link)
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BLah blah blah little ears want to know big people stuff ask your mom
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how do you delete aim screen names? i want to delete my old sn and get a new! how would i go about doing this?! i rate! :) (link)
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Before you sign in yuou clikc the screen name you want to delete and then hit the delete key on the keybored and something will pop up the say or you sure blah blah blah say yes
hope I helped
Megan
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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
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shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
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I dont think you can trust her I mean if she blamed some stuff one you and you got in trouble for stilling when she didnt some of it is a friend worth it to get in trouble on the time I dont think so
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Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?
thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
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If he sticks his finger to deep he can pop your cherry
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hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx! (link)
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Well lots of different things are in any punk music or rap fashion is easy to me just stuff like Aeropastal clothes any thing there. Hair is a different story I mean differnt things for different people
hoped I helped
Megan
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what is a good way of convincing your parents to get you a pet!!!!(((other than puppy eyes or making a deal with them, already tried))) (link)
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Well the way I got my paarents to get me a pet I got a fish and showed them how hard I could take care of one you can discuse it with them about it.
hope I heped
Megan
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i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should. (link)
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Well once you kiss him a couple of times he will catch on just keep making some moves but like you said dont make all the moves just always flirt with him and all if you hold his hand all the time it will become a habit for him he just probably nervous
hoped I helped
Megan
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My boyfriend has a really nice sports car. its a camaro! I was wondering what I could get him for a gift for his car that he'd like. any ideas? (link)
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Well you can get him something like a seatcovers or something funny like fuzzy dise my boyfriend used his lol or if he has a cd player in his car you can get him some cds
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How does a person get rid of stubborn black heads...especially on the nose...My nose looks like a strawberry(except skin colored)
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USe some clean and clear and some pure stripes they actually work when you use them together
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help help help...we will rate u... we no someone who is thinking about killing/cuting/or running away! She is the type of person who would really go out and do it. but whenever we try to call her she hangs up and now she wont answer her phone and she isnt on AIM anymore...we dont know what to do or think...all we think about it what the worst sanerio is!!!
HELP
RATE
PLEASE!
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Well you should try to go to her house and talk to her and if that doesnt work you need to tell some one like an adult soem tihng most me really bad for her to do that and if she lets you talk to her tell her how you feel tell her you care for her to do that
hope that works out for you
Megan
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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?
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Kind of your stomach will get wider because its gasping for food
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