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if u no the truth...what types of girls do guys like, like personality, clothes etc. And is it true that guys like girls that r "easy"?

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Guys don't like easy girls. I have a lot of guy friends and they hate easy girls. They like chasing after a girl, they don't want one that's been around. Guys also don't like a girl who wears toooo much make-up. They like a girl who isn't shy and confident in herself. As for clothes, I'm not sure because everyone has their own style and taste..~Hope I helped~

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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled

Your a great true friend. Your absolutely doing the right thing. Always being there for her. She might not show it, but I'm sure she really appreciates you. Never care about what people might think of you, since you know your doing the right thing. You shouldn't care about what others say. Their just being immature. People like that like to put other people down because their insecure about themselves. Keep doing what your doing!

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ok so there's this kid who goes to my school who is 13, and he is really funny, and i kinda liked him, until my friend told me that he wasn't a virgin and had done it like 5 times and i just can't look at him the same way anymore. I can't even talk to him. what should i do?

Don't listen to everything you hear about people. It could just be a stupid rumour to make himself look cool. Keep talking to him, even if he has done it, why would you not want to talk to him? It's his life and he chooses to do things even if they might seem wrong to you. But, really think about it, he's only 13. It's probably just a rumour. Don't believe everything you hear.

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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?

Just tell him, "If you really care about soccer or your sports, then don't smoke because it's going to make you tired and the first to be out of breath." Trust me! People that play sports and start smoking realize that it really slows them down when playing. Their not as good as before and they run out of breath really fast. If he doesn't believe you. He'll see it for himself soon!

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theres a party tom. night that my friends from my old school invited me too.... see i havent seen them since lik a year ago... do u think ill be left out? Should i go? or should i hang with my friends from my school

I think you should go. Even though you've made new friends, never forget the old ones. I don't think you'll be left out, since they invited you to go, so obviously they're thinking of you! You might feel a little weird at first since you haven't hung out with them in awhile, but things will eventually feel normal. You'll have fun! ~good luck~

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Can I Give My Kitten Infants Tylenol?

NO WAYYYYY!!!! Tylenol is meant for humans not animals. If you think your kitten is sick, take it to the vet!!

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One of my closest friends is in love with a guy that has a girlfriend. Is there anything i could do to help her break her "trance" with this guy? He doesnt have any intent of wanting to be with my friend, but she still is head over heals for him. what should i do?

It's fun having a crush on somebody that's already taken...Your friend will get over it soon, when she finally comes back to reality...Try taking her out and meeting new people, that way, she can meet someone and can start liking that person. After that, she'll forget about this guy.

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i have a science fair project im working on and the problem is: does the sense of sight and smell affect the way food tastes to us?
does anybody know any good websites where i can research stuff like this? thanx a lot

I'm not sure about any websites, but I do know that sight and smell totally affect the way food tastes to us. For example, I heard that Mcdonalds uses the colour red and yellow because it looks appealing to us and makes us want to eat, but if they would've used a colour like purple and brown, would you want to eat there? Not really....I know this doesn't answer your question, but it's kind of interesting to think about...~good luck~

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hey okay im a 14/f and im home sick from school today...i have a stuffy nose, really bad cough, and a super sore throat. my whole back and neck are really sore, and it hurts to move my neck really bad. is this just from being sick or do i have something else wrong?

It's just from being sick, or maybe it's the way you slept the other night. Sometimes when you sleep in a weird way, your neck get's stiff for awhile. Or it could be because of your sickness, usually your whole body aches. Nothing serious, so don't stress it. It'll go away soon...~hope you get better~

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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

Your only 14, it's hard to know what you are and what you want to do now. That's totally okay...It's also okay to keep changing your mind because your at that age where your trying to find out, who you really are. I'm guessing though, if you would rather be with a guy instead of a girl, but think girls are cute....Your probably more gay than bi. If you were bi, you'd go with any gender, but since you'd rather choose a guy...I think your gay...Who knows? You might change your mind a million times before you actually find out what you really like....~good luck~

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well, i know its strange, but sometimes i wonder if my parents were virgins before they got married. because they both married late in there lives )38 39ish) so i kind of wonder. is this strange to think? i mean im not going to go up to my mom one day and say hey mom how are ya doing? so btw were you a virgin before dad?

It's not strange, your just curious and that's okay. But I guess it's something you'll never know until you ask! Just don't be obvious about it. Start up a conversation with your mom, and slowly head to that topic...Hope it works!

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me and my boyfriend...well ex-boyfriend...broke up sunday. he broke up with me, i didn't break up with him. well the first two days after that were really awkward because we were always real good friends. well now he's starting to flirt again and do the same stuff he did right before i found out that he liked me. do you think it's him still having at least a little bit of feelings for me...or flirting to like make me feel bad or something...

I think he's flirting with you because he still has feelings for you and he's trying to show you that. Whatever he does, don't flirt back. After all, he hurt you. Show him what he's missing.

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I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?

That's totally not a very nice friend, but since you told her you have no feelings for this guy, she went after him. It's okay to go after a guy that your friend has no feelings for anymore, but I totally understand how you feel. Have you talked to her about this? If she's going to let a guy come in between your friendship. It's not worth it. A real friend will always be with you no matter what. Go ahead and tell her straight up, how you feel. If she doesn't do anything to show you she cares, then she is a FREAK.

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one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help

He may seem happy around you and your friends, but maybe at home he's sad and depressed...I think you should try talking to him, ask him what's up? Why would he try to get attention, if he always seems happy...Something is wrong with him, try to find out what it is, so you can be there for him and help him...

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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/

Your not stupid. I guess I'm like that when I watch romance movies too, but trust me, it's not really like how you see it on t.v. Being in love does feel really really good but at other times it could hurt sooooo much. Everyone our age (I'm guessing your in your teens) wants someone to love and that someone to love us back. All that luvey duvey stuff. It's normal at our age!

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okay...well on wednesday i went to church with my boyfriend..well not really we went to his friends house that is right across the street ...and he told his dad he was goin to church...his dad happened to drive by and saw him out of church..he made him leave so i just hung out with my bf's friends..and he called my cell when he got home n he didnt talk 2 me..i was like wats the point of callin you kno? well finally he was like WELL ILL JUST LET U GO HAVE FUN WITH THEM...and he hung up..the next day he called n apologized....he was like "im sry its just that i dont c u alot and i was mad at my dad for making me leave u" i was like its arite...well on friday we planned to do somethin today..saturday...and he called me n changed the plans to goin to c a movie @ 6....he sed hed call me back with the information lyke wat theater n movie we wer gonna c...he sed this @ 12 30 today....AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK!...i cleaned to get money n erything....and i cancelled everthing i had goin ontoday to c him...and he never called...and then friday (yesterday) he sed he was in trouble from wat happened on wednesday so he couldnt do nothin or go nowhere....but i called him later that nite...AND HE WAS GONE! i called like 2 times n his parents wer like o no hes not here hes gone for the nite...idk wats up with him....wat do u think i shuld do...im really mad about the movie thing....=\

The next time you talk to him, tell him what he did to you was totally wrong. If something came up, he should've at least called you and cancelled, but he didn't even do that! That wasn't fair to you, you didn't do anything wrong. Don't stress about this too much, sometimes guys will be assholes. Now, it's your turn to be mad at him!

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Okay well i told one of my ex bf that i loved him like in the end of the converstion and hung up before he said anything now today when we were chattig i told him that my brothers were making fun of him and he got all tough boy like and he never acts that way ad what not.he began cussing and he know that i hate when he cusses.so i told him ill stop talking to him and then he was like okay bye.so now we arn't talking and it sucks. i miss him and he seems like he doesnt even care about me should i just let it go i dunno!help

He's only trying to act tough!!! He probably does really care about you but he doesn't want to show it because like you said he is trying to act tough. Maybe that day you were talking to him, something happened earlier and he was just having a bad day. Be mature, show him you care. Be the first one to call him.

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14 f, i'm in high school and i'm not that happy. sometimes i think its really fun but sometimes i just feel like crying. people say high school is supposed to be the funnest part of you life.... please help

Honestly, I guess people say High School is the "best time of your life" because you don't really have that much responsibility then. As you get older, you'd have to have a job, pay bills, and look after children. So High School is when people go to parties, make new friends, experience new things. I know sometimes it could suck (like, MOST of the time). If your feeling down, don't worry your only 14, things will get better. So try to make everything fun, try to enjoy yourself!!!!

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hey i'm the girl whose walkman was broken because the sound was only coming out of the 1 ear. well it wasnt the headphones because i put other headphones in and it still didnt work, so i want to know if there is a place where i can get my walkman looked at/repaired. i have a Sony Psyche and i HEARD that they don't make them anymore, so where could bring it to get it fixed? my mom doesnt remember where she bought it. and would it be cheaper to get it repaired or should i just buy a new one? i have no idea. and i feel bad because we dont really have alot of money right now.

You could try to take it into any stores like Future Shop, Best buy, and Circuit City to have it looked at. I always go to Future Shop to get electronics fixed. Before actually getting it fixed, ask for an estimated price of how much it's going to cost. If it's too much right now, you could always start saving. Or wait til those stores are having a sale and buy another one....~Good luck~

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me and my boyfriend just broke up !! i broke up with him bc i thoght he was cheating on me and i guess he still likes me but when we got off the phone he said he loved me i cryed odse this mean i still have feelings for him or dose it mean i an ti attacted??
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You cried because you care about him. I think you do still have feelings for him, but that's my opinion.

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