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ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ? (link)
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well if you already knew then there wasnt much to tell but he was probably doing that to spare you feelings and if you already thought she liked him and he told u it too then who know what might of happend but if someone likes him theres nothing u can do about it u know as long as ur with him just be happy as long as hes not cheating or something but i can see u being upset but just talk to him tell him how u feel to prevent things like this from happening in the future no need to cause a big sceen and make the relationship have problems over something small ya know well i know im probably not much help but i hope i helped a bit and i hope everything works out
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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...
Bush?
or
Kerry?
moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!! (link)
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i say kerry
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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate (link)
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it evanescenesce or however u spell it and i think the song is called my immortal
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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam (link)
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Well i go for personalatity but they have to be somewhat decent looking ya know what i mean but yeah if my friends change like appearence wise i dont really notice cuz im around them every day so i guess i kinda see them change every step of the way without noticing so ur friends probably wont notice too much but if they do they are ur friends they should still like u especially if they like ur personality they wont care what u look like and other peoples will probably like u too not just your friends or ladies whatever im trying to say but yeah hope everything turns out ok
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
-Anonymous (link)
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aw thats so cute u guys are switched usually the guy is the one that causes all the problems no affense guys, and the girl thinks the anniversary is special but u dont want to bug her too much cuz if you do then that will make her mad and annoyed and u guys dont need to fight anymore if its ment to be it will happen it just might take a little time and if you end up with someone else thats okay cuz im sure it will be someone great but for right now just go explore well i hope everything turns out okay hope i helpd a little
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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
thxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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i would call and if its fake then you will feel silly for being so nervous but glad since u were so nevrvous if that makes sense loland if its him just talk to him i get nervous sometimes too but after the first time it gets easier hope i helped some
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A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint? (link)
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I would in the nicest possible way tell her you dont want to hang out with her cuz being mean is just not nice lol or if you know any other people that live by u hang out with her 1 day and introduce her to a few people so she wont always be wanting to hang out with you and she'll no a few more people
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ive liked this guy for a while now but im not sure if he likes me . weve talked a few times but he never realy expressed or showed any emotions. i dont want to just qive up on him and move on . . please help (link)
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i would talk to him tell him how you feel maybe cuz you never no when that door of opportuity will be gone and when it is you will of wished u would of told him u dont have to straight up be i like you how do u feel about me u can work up to it yeah hope i helped some
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okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!! (link)
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i would call if you talk to her u may get to talk to you dad but i know if i had the oppurtuity i would jump on it and its not her fault she left she has to do what the parents tell her to do well depending on how old she is idk but yeah if you dont like it all u have to do is hang up or dont call back but they could turn out to be really great people
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hey. i have no friends becuz my x best friend got the whole elementry school on me becuz i talked to her boyfriend on the phone becuz i asked him wut the homework was. i have no life. wut should i do? (link)
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dude that sux im sry i was in kinda the same situation but not the whole school just all the people that i lived by but i would talk to them and if she wont listen to u tell the bf to talk to her she should trust him and ur "best friend" should trust u thats dumb when one person gets everyone to hate u when u didnt do anything but yeah i hope everything works out but things will be better in HS cuz there are more people hope i helped a little
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Ok. I know 2 ppl who when they are around me act like they like me but they really hate me. They don't want to be mean to me and tell me to my face they just like to talk to me behind my back. Should i try and talk about them or just tell them off or ignore them?? Plz help me!! (link)
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yeah i would just tell them straight cuz one of the people i know are like that but i jsut dont answer her calls or anything ud think shed get the pictured but no she just keeps calling and calling and calling but i havent said n e thing to her either but i think u should talk to them
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I'm miserable.See over spring break i met this kid lets say his name is Jake..and over the past 4 months we've been talking every day.I most likely wont be able to see him again until next summer.The real problem is i like everything about Jake* and he likes me too..we're like perfect together.But he's at camp right now so i haven't been able to talk to him and i miss him like crazy.ne ideas on how to pass the time..n also could u help me try n get over him..ive tried but no guy ever compares.please help asap.
admin. plz don't delete. ;-(..
thankz guys. (link)
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Well to make time pass by try not to think about him too much cuz when ur waiting for something it seems like forever to get there and it sux also try to keep busy so that u dont think of him so much go out and do things with friends and stuff this will help time go by and even possibly help u get over him hope i helped a little
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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!
-so confused- (link)
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thats stupid of them to be mad at you unless u had already made plans with them but if you didnt then they have no right to be upset with you cuz you have your own life oustide of them and they could of hung out with eachother or something just talk to them im sure everything will be okay between u guys ive been in similar situations hope i helped some.
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see i have this friend who i leave lots of messages on the phone but never calls back is she my friend
-bubba78
P.S.i am just a girl who needs advise! (link)
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She could just not be able to get to the phone or busy or something like that or she could be ignoring you or doesnt feel like talking there or w/e but i think ur best bet is to talk to her in person and see if she was busy or ignoring you or what not ya know. my friend was the exact same but we were still friends but idk i hope i helped some
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I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much! (link)
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well drink lots of water and eat some vegtables cut down on junk foods and sodas if you eat or drink those and cut down on meal sizes and do excerise. do cardio like walking and running or swimming and others too like lifting weights or something hope i helped some.
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ok well my hair isnt curly but its wavy and frizzy and juss like i hate it...i straighten it with a straightener and ive tryed like 3 diff kinds...and they get it soo silky but it never stays straight and the ends curled in and it juss pised me off...so i started ironing it...it works gr8 (yea a clothes iron on an ironing board)...it stays straight all day and is pretty straight when i wake up!! after i shower it gets ugly again and its jsus a hassle ironging and straightening ur hair eryday!! wat can i do?? r ther ne like straighting conditioner/shampoo that will help? ne good straighteners...i really dont wanna iron it it kills it!! HELP (link)
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i use a straightening mousse and i blowdry my hair with one of those brushes that clamp together and have bristles on both sides kinda like a straigtening iron but its a brush it took me a while to get the hang of it but it works pretty good now that i can do it right and my hair stays straight all day and it only costs like 6 or seven dollars hope i helped some.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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Well if he likes u so much he wouldnt make u do something you dont want to do. If you dont want to be with him anymore i would just tell him cuz u deserve to be happy and u should feel comfortable around the person you with, or try to talk to him and work things out. Hope i helped some.
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