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What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them...

Wow don't we have somethin in common..kinda..I just ended one today..Mine..lets call him cody.He lives about 45 minutes away from me so I kno how long distance relationships are...Heres some Positive things...whenever you see eachother your more anxious and excited to see eachother,and for me that was it!lol..the negatives are...you don't really get to see eachother that often,you dont know what there doin w/ other girls :\ and also you dont really get to kno eachother much cuz you dont see eachother that much..I broke up w. mine cuz schools starting and I might want someone thats AT my school..ya know?And also i'll never kno what he's TRULY doin w/ other girls during the school year..But maybe it'll work for you..i hope it does!I hope i helped!GOOD LUCK!(any more ?'s ask me!)

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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?

Just tell him how you feel..thats the best way.Just be like "your such a great guy and I really enjoyed being with you.But I think maybe we should just be friends!I hope its ok with you" be really sweet about it and maybe throw in that "maybe someday we can be more again!" I hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!!

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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

Personally..I don't really believe in 2nd chances..So I believe if they do it once they'll do it again..BUT I also think it depends on how long you've been together..if you've been together for like a year and this is the first time then MAYBE you should forgive him..but also i think it depends on what he did w/ this other chick.I'd dump him but its ALL up to you! GOOD LUCK!LEMME KNO HOW IT TURNS OUT I"D LOVE TO HEAR IT!

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Hi,I'm Charm & am 14. I have been with my boyfriend, Gregg for 5 years. We are only 14, but we are in love, it was truly love at first site! Anyway,When we both met, we promised eachother to stay virgins, until we got married, we know we will!Gregg is so romantic, he is always leaving cards in my lockers saying I love you and always hugs me and one time on our 2 anniversary, he gave me a fake rose, before i asked him y a fake one, he sed it was because fake one's last forever, like our love! I love him so much, but we kissed before ,but never made out, u no. we wud kiss on the lips, like a peck or something, but never actually moving our heads or something and we really want to make out, but how will I no wat to do? Help, I need to no how to kiss him.

It will come naturally..just go w/ the flow..Guys have it as like a natural instinct usually..lol.And if your wondering how to tell him that you want to make-out then I think you should just be like "hey would you ever feel like making out?"Be honest and I bet he'll say yes anywayz since he IS a 14 year old boy.lol.I really hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

WHO CARES WHAT THEY SAY!There probaly just jealous anywayz. And plus i think it'd be a compliment to be called mary-kate!I think you should try to deal..Tell them they can go to..ya kno what i mean.I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!!

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im really sorry about bugging u about this so much i know its annoying but the code still doesnt show up when u put it on there... i dont know whats wrong. maybe just dont put it in iwth these things "" at both ends and ill put them in myself..

HIYA!its way okay that ur askin..thats why im doin the advice thing..to give advice.lol well do you have a email? cuz i can send it to ya there..maybe that'd helP!

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hey u wrote advise for a qestion of mine giving me a code for backgrounds but it didnt show up so i couldnt get it.. maybe u can send it again or something?? that would be great thanks for the help.

yeah!here is the code again..



just put the url of the background u want where it says "url of background here" lol..I hope I helped..and if u didnt mind will u please rate me,my ratings are kinda goin down.THANKS SO MUCH! AND GOOD LUCK!! any more ?'s just ask!!

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my "so called" bff always hitts on my xbfs or the guys i like it reallly pisses me off but i don't knoe wut to tell her i mean ive talked to her about this b4 but she continues to do it! she says that im her bff too but my otha gurl tells me all this sh*t that she talks about me behind my back! so i don't knoe who to trust ne more! please help me asap!!!!!

Hey!You definetely don't want a friend like that..I had a friend just like that at one time..i kicked her to the curb.I just said im tired of you actin all good around me and then talkin crap about me..She tried stealing my boyz too!I told her to knock that crap off too!I hope i helped and i hope it works out!any more ?'s just ask..GOOD LUCK!

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okay found backrounds and stuff i want to put in my column but i dont know the codes to put them in there. so can you guys just post the codes on here? that would be great thanks.

Hey!Heres the code!!



hope it works!GOOD LUCK! any more ?'s just ask!

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I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?

Hey!I think that maybe you should just talk to him about it..Maybe he doesn't know hes doin that..guys are like that sometimes.You might just be blowin this out of proportion too.Well I hope I helped!GOOD LUCK!Any more ?'s just ask!

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how can i get a guy to like me?

Hey!I don't think there is really a certain way to get a guy to like you.Just be yourself! You should be patient too..eventually you'll find a guy who likes you..and for you not for who you TRY to be.I really hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play?

I think you should play..Maybe you'll grow to like it. I play basketball and I love it..But it also might not be for you.It might be a good experience for you too! But do what you wanna do! Don't let other people suck you into doin somethin you dont wanna.GOOD LUCK! HOPE I HELPED!!

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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what?

talk to him about it..tell him if he doesn't really love you then you think that you shouldn't even be together cuz that would be worthless..You can alwayz find someone else too.GOOD LUCK! I HOPE I HELPED!

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I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it.

I think it depends on the person..you should talk to her about your feelings and hers.Tell her how you really have feelings for her and not just a craving for more sex.I hope I helped and I hope everything works out well..GOOD LUCK!!

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heheh i know this sounds stupid, but whenever me n my b/f are alone 2gether, its like we dont talk much, and we feel really akward, like were forced 2 be hangin out 2gether.. which def. isnt the case tho. i mean, i try 2 be all outgoing and stuff, but i feel like he doesnt even wanna talk even tho its awkward in the car.. any ideas 2 get rid of the akward silences besides bringing up random convos? cuz i already do that... he just answers my question, then doesnt expand on it.. and im always the one askin Qs about his life.. he never asks about mine in person... see, hes a totally different person online than in person.. when hes IM'ing me, he talks like hes happy 2 be with me, and flirts alot, but i dont think he feels comfortable around me yet cuz we only been goin out 3 weeks.. help anyone?

yea i know how that is.Well if you've already talked about school and sports and friends and stuff..just try talkin about what you guys have been up to lately.or make out..lol that always keeps em quiet..jk only if ur comfortable.but you've only been goin out for 3 weeks soo..yea but I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

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what kind of complaints??? ...of the music.

Well..I guess it was freezing people computer and stuff.Or maybe they just didn't like the music..or maybe they couldn't get it to work for them so they started to try to get everyone else to not have it..lol.There were a lotta dif. ones..I hope I helped..please rate me. THANKS!

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im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please

I think you should just stay w/ where ur comfortable..then ur relationships will probaly be more stronger and stay longer..lol I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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I have really smelly feet and everything I've tried didn't work. And whenever I walk into a room no one wants to be around me when I have my shoes off. Do you know anything that would work? If you do please respond quickly!

Hey there!Okay you can try foot powder...you pour it in ur shoe and it gets on ur feet..lol my grandma has to use that...yikes..lol and u can try FEBRESE or however u spell it..that stuff smells SOOO good..everyone will wanna be by ya w/ that stuff on ur feet.lol Well Ihope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!!

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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':.

Hey there!Your Fine!!Its way okay to not have a boyfriend till your older.Your not to young but its okay if you haven't had a real relationship.A few of my friends haven't had any REAL boyfriends either..just boys that like them and that they like.Yeah I and my friends are alwayz talkin about how they wanna kiss someone..so your normal. If you feel your ready for a bf then go for it and get who you want..take chances and have fun! GOOD LUCK!

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ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing

Gabe

Definetely A...who cares what ur friends think...but definetely meet her in person and hang out and stuff and see if she's ur type..I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

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