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I have this guy friend and i have had a crush on him since i can remmber but hes always been like a friend now he has this girlfriend who doesnt like me she doesnt even like me going over his house every time she with him and im around shes always all one him and when i look at them out the windo (i live next door to him) she not she looks normal for once but what im trying to say is everytime they kiss he always looks at me and he as asked me out sometimes and says what his girl dont know dont hurt her what should i do? i do like him but i mean if hes with her i cant go with him
hey, your doing the right thing by not going out with him while he goes out with her. this guy seems to be the player type. if he really liked you he would go out with you and only you. even if the two of them break up i still wouldnt go out with him. if he would do that to her [go out with her while going out with her], what makes you think that he wouldnt do that to you also? good luck =].
Does anyone know any sites where I can make layouts like the ones on createblog ? Because I want to make my own layouts but I dont know how to make cute layouts. Such make a nice collage of pictures or icons. Thanks for the help
hey, try this link =].
http://www.chasebadkids.net
once you get there go to the layouts section. then choose tiny layouts.
How much are webcams? Where can I get them? And also, does it take pictures or just videos? What do you use it for? Any info would help :] Thanks.
hey, they have them at best buy for many different prices. =].
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Hi, first off I am a girl in fact, and I just turned 16 2 weeks ago.
So now I have that out of the way, I will share my dilemma, mind you it may get bit long because once I start, sometimes I forget the story is getting long.
Well it all started about a month or two ago when I saw this guy, lets call him Bill.
I help out my mom watch this booth during weekends, and that's where I first met Bill.
I had noticed that new shop just came in across from my mom's shop and I had noticed it was this middle aged looking women and this really cute guy, which happened to be Bill.
I was so glad because he seemed like he was around my age and really cute. Because there used to be some weird old guy working there.
But me being very shy, I'm not shy at all in other situation because I can just go talk to random person off the street, except for when it comes to guys that I think is cute. So I couldn't bring myself to say hi, so all day I was just watching him, and it seemed like he was kind of watching me as well.
So almost at the end of the day, I asked my mom if I could go look at what he was selling, and she said I could so I went over there and we somehow started to talk and I found out that he is 16 years old as well. (although i was 15 then)
He was real friendly and nice and again, cute. Then we started to talk and talk more, and even though we don't really have much in common, we seem to talk to each other really well. For example, when I gave him my phone number, because my friend suggested I should, he told me me wasn't good at talking on the phone and I was glad because I wasn't neither.(and he gave me his number as well) But for some reason when we are talking on the phone, we seem to talk really well. There isn't any awkward silent moments. (He called me on Christmas and I just called him last night.)
Then the lady working in front of me told me that he kept looking at me even though there were these pretty girls over at his shop.
Also there was 2 little kids that came by for one weekend, and they kept telling me that he likes me but he's too shy to ask me out.
And as long as this story might be, I am not even half way telling, but I will stop now because I think I got my point acrossed.
So what do I do? tell him I like him? because I am not sure about anything.
Also he might be just really friendly type, and for the fact that he has lot of chick friends.
So please help me and thank you in advance!
hey, well it seems to me like you two have a good thing going on. why would you want to just throw away all those good feelings like that? when your talking on the phone ease your way into asking him if he wants to do something with you over the weekend or whenever. say something like "what are you doing on friday?". then say "oh, well if your not doing anything i was wondering if maybe you wanted to go get lunch with me?". of course you can change up the day and what your doing. when you do the activity you set up let him know how you feel. say something like "bill, i really like you a lot and i just wanted to let you know how i feel". let him talk and hear his side of the story. hopefully you guys will make a good connection and get something good out of this. good luck =].
how do i get a guy i like go to the movies with me?
and how do i get him to at least hold my hand if it turns out he likes me?
hey, just start it out as a normal conversation. like oh i heard that the movie ______ came out today. then just talk about normal things. then finally ask him what hes doing on whatever day you can go. say "oh well if your not doing anything maybe you would like to come wiht me to see ______ on ________?". ease your way into asking him =].
Let me get straight to the problem.
My boyfriend is a really bad kisser.
He's only had 2 other girlfriends before me
and i dont know if he made out with
either one of them, but when we're kissing
he acts like i dont know i cant even describe it
but he definitely doesnt know what hes doing.
I dont't like kissing any more because its THAT bad. What should i do? I really need your help!
hey, just direct him in a nice way what you think would be a better kissing experience. without hurting his feelings explain to him what would be more sexy and turn you on =].
im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad?
hey, no its not bad at all. consider yourself lucky. girls can get there periods up until age 18, sometimes older. it just all depends on when your body is ready for it =].
okay i'll tell you this from the beginning I AM NOT EMO! i just have a question about them
how do they style their room? it's just a question that's haunting me
hey, they have alot of black and red stuff in there rooms. they often have posters of emo rock bands. they love pictures in black and white too =].
ok so, i sorta have a big nose. it's not HUGE! but it's not small or anything. so i was just wondering if there was anything to do that would sort of make my nose seem less notciable, like for example, a hairstyle or something?? my hair is naturally curly and thick, and i wear it down like that, and i also straiten it. it just has layers and angles. so yeah =] thanks in advance!
hey, im italian so my nose is pretty big too.there are no hairstyles or anything to hide it. so you just have to learn to live with your nose. its a part of who you are and god wanted you to have a bige nose. learn to love it, its a part of who you are =].
I really need help because I'm starting to get extremely scared.
13/f
Well two nights ago when I got out of the shower I noticed my right breast was really darkish blotchy brown around the nipple but there was like a circle of white around the nipple seperating the two. Also the nipple kind of looks swollen. My left breast looks fine and I thought if I ignored it, it would go away but it looks like its getting worse.
Please tell me if you know what is wrong. I'm too embaressed to tell someone but if I need to I will.
P.S. I tried researching but I couldn't find anything.
hey, well you should tell a trusted parent/guardian and go to see a doctor =].
Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore....
hey, nothing is wrong with you at all. infact sometimes i wish i could be like you. i give you lots of props. by not having a boyfriend your avoiding stupid boyfriend fights and heartaches. youll find that special guy someday. dont worry =].
can anyone give me information on mystic tanning? how do they do it? how much does it cost? can you get tanned naked or does like someone spray you? does it make you orange??
does it wash off? how long does it last?
im in fla if that helps :) i know i can just go in the sun but i hate tanlines.
hey, well mystic tanning is pretty easy once you get used to doing it. different tanning places do different things. the one that i go to you put on some lotion to make your tan even. then you go in a booth. you press a button and then it goes on in 5 seconds. you stand and get sprayed in the front for 10 seconds. then it gives you 5 seconds to turn and then you get sprayed in the back for 10 seconds. then you wipe off the extra spray that left on you. the tan is suppose to last 2 weeks. but if your active and sweat alot and take alot of showers it usually lasts a week or a week and a half. it wont make you orange if you choose a good place to go to. it usually cost about 25-30$ per session. you can either go in the booth naked or leave on underwear. its whatever you feel more comfortable with =].
So my boyfriend just left yesterday to go on a triop with his friends (guys and girls) for a week..and he called tnite saying he was at a bar..i am worried he's gonna meet some girls and cheat..is there anyway to make myself not so worried?
hey, well if your relationship is strong and you really love each other then there should be nothing to worry about. trusting is a big part of all relationships. you should be able to trust your boyfriend with no problem. he called you so that means that he was thinking about you. thats a good sign right there. dont be so worried. he seems pretty faithful to me =].
Hi well im having troubles,i really feel i love my ex boyfriend.We had a really intense relationship and it got to the point we actually said we LOVED eachother and meant it.He is a "player" he has had many girlfriends in his life and im the calm girl who only has had him.He did so many things for me,he went back to school...and my parents(specially my mom) didnt like him and he fought against them until he was given permission to be my boyfriend,NOT MANY GUYS ACTUALLY STAY WHEN PARENTS GIVE THEM A HARD TIME.The point is that it has been five months since we broke up,we have talked...and in our first conversation after we broke up he made it seem that he wanted to get back together but he hasnt done anything.He did do a lot,he lied to my parents and lied to me,Making up the lie that he got his ex girl pregnat which after he told me that he did it to "test" me.I feel that we broke up because he missed being single.I still love him and.But is he really worth fighting for?? or should i just forget about him and move on??Please help me
hey, you need to move on. you DONT need a guy like him in your life. if he needed to test you and your relationship then there is a big red flag right there. he didnt want to stay in the relationship so he tried covering it up by making up lies and HE LIED TO YOUR PARENTS TOO! thats a big no-no. good luck =].
Me and this boy used to date. We really liked each other a lot, things went wrong and friends got in the way, we both got hurt end of story. We always feel diff.about each other at dif times.and its been like 6 months since we broke up/ We been hanging out a lot lately, and we got into this jealousy fight, and then i just spilled it all out that i liked him. He pretty much said what i just said, i hurt him before, and he never knows how i feel, but he has thought about us gettin back together. We hung out the past two days, flirt soo much, but nothing more. I know i cant force something to happen, but i know somewhere inside of him he likes me, and im sometimes afraid to show him howw much i like him cause i dont want things to feel awkward for him, and just rush things and f*** it up. But idk, we might hang out tm. I jsut need to get some advice on what to do from here, i dont wanna hear juts wait it out, i wanan hear from someone who has once been in this situatoin and got past it. Like in my mind im thinkin talk to him about it in person, then see what happens, instead of the comp like we have been
thanks
hey, i think that on the comptuer you should let him know that next time you guys see each other you want to talk about your relationship. letting him know will give him some time to prepare and be ready for the talk. once you see him let him know how you feel and dont hold back. he deserves to know what your thinking inside. let him talk too and hear his side of the story. hopefully from there you guys can work it out and make a descison. good luck =].
one friend that i have mentioned before has been relly gettin on ma last nerves. i was late for skool one day went up behind her and said "boo" the girl turned around and punched me in the face and i was ready to scream and cry but i didn't.All i could do was hold my nose.Then, another day i was in the lunchroom and i tripped on her bookbag and fell on her and she took he hand and dug her nails into my wrist and i started bleeding. i have been in so many arguements wit her and she says stuff behind peoples' backs. it wasn't pretty. please try to answer me right now!!! THANKS!!! and she said she is very nice. HA!!
hey, stay away from her. dont give her the time of day. you dont need people like her in your life. just to teach her a lesson report her to the principle. show him the marks on your wrist if there still there. also if she does something to you next time like the nose thing, go to the principles right away =].
13/f. I'm not really scared of the dark or anything, but here latley i've been getting really scared. see, since it's been christmas break i've been staying up until around 3:00a.m. because i don't have school the next day (yeah, you all probably new that, but oh well, hehe! jk). so, when i'm about to go to bed, i put my dog up, and turn off all of the lights. but i practacly (sp?) run to my bed because i'm really scared. and before i go to bed and i'm on the computer and stuff, every little sound i hear i get soooo scared. for example, i was in the tonight brushing my teeth and i swear i heard loud foot steps going by the door. i don't think it was my parents because they never get up in the middle of the night, but it could have been one of them. but when i heard "footsteps" i got sooooooooooooo freaking scared. should i like stop watching scary movies? or go to bed eariler when my parents do so i don't have to stay up by myself? i don't know what to do, but i'm getting really tired of getting scared all of the time. i really need some help! thanks ppl!
hey, this is normal. everyone experiences something like this at one time or another. you should go to sleep with the tv on at night. that way it will block out the noises that your imagination is making you hear and there will be light. also by occupying yourself you wont be thinking about the noises, therefore you wont hear them anymore. if you dont have a tv in your room, the radio will do the same thing except then there will be no light. you could get a night light in your room and just use it at night then when your done with it in the morning hide it somewhere so no one can see it lol =].
ive had 2 periods in one month, about 17 days apart. i NEVER EVER EVER get them that soon. im regular between 28 and 33 days. ok so is this pregnancy, stress, or something else??
thanks to all who can help!
hey, its not pregnancy or stress lol. theres nothing wrong with you. its normal for a girls period to be irregular =].
does anyone know *!!AND HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH!!* a website that reads your angel cards or something similar?? AND MUST BE ACCURATE! i really would love help with this if you have experience...thanks. :]
hey, are you talking about a victorias secret angel card? if you are then message me and ill help =].
i'm 14/f
LAtely i've been thinking about my life and things i think i want to become or do for myself. The thing is i've been getting really scared because the person i wanna be is the exact kind of person my friends don't like. I want to move on in my life, but i don't wanna loose somthing really special. I love my friends but the more i spen time with them the more i realize we have pretty much nothing in commen and it seems i don't fit in, and somtimes it really seems like they see it. So what do I do ? Do i stay with them pretending to be somthin im don't want to anymore or do i change and risk loosing my friends?
hey, dont ever be soemthing that your not. if your friends are your real friends they will love you whether you dress like a fashionista or punk. if they cant accept you for who you are then there not your true friends. if you want to meet people join a club and then youll already have the same interests as them and then from there being friends with them should be easy =].