I have this guy friend and i have had a crush on him since i can remmber but hes always been like a friend now he has this girlfriend who doesnt like me she doesnt even like me going over his house every time she with him and im around shes always all one him and when i look at them out the windo (i live next door to him) she not she looks normal for once but what im trying to say is everytime they kiss he always looks at me and he as asked me out sometimes and says what his girl dont know dont hurt her what should i do? i do like him but i mean if hes with her i cant go with him
Hrcoole answered Friday December 29 2006, 8:41 pm: this might be hard to take in, but your doing the right thing, stick to your ground. if he is with someone and is asking you out... that is cheeting. tell him it is either her or you. persoanly i would not go out with him, just because he seems as a player. cake and ice cream too. my best advice is to find another guy, that will treat you as the only one for him. you know what i mean? you can find a lot of more guys that will treat you as a princess not the ice cream to his cake. hope this helps [ Hrcoole's advice column | Ask Hrcoole A Question ]
xXxPorschexXx answered Friday December 29 2006, 8:28 pm: You are right you cant go out with him when he is still going out with her! There is two choices really but it depends on how much you like him. You could either move on as best you can and just stay friends OR you could tell him you have feelings for him and if he says he has them back then say he should finish with his current girlfriend because its unfair on her. If he does have feelings for you and he continues to go out with his current girlfriend then it is unfair. Say to him that he has got to understand that you should not consider him until he has been honest with his current girl friend. So a think hunn that you should just talk to him about it and definately not go out with him whilst he is in his realtionship! but tell him to be honest with both of you! But otherwise b pateient hun! Hope ive helped xox Porsche [ xXxPorschexXx's advice column | Ask xXxPorschexXx A Question ]
iloveaar answered Friday December 29 2006, 8:28 pm: if he would like you more than the other girl ...he'll dump her for you ..dont you think??if you really want to be with someone you'll do what ever it takes ..not keeping it hidden..also if he wants you to be the other girlfriend....don't you think that if you get to be his girlfriend he'll have an other one at the same time? cause hes that type of person who likes more than one seriously
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idgurl572 answered Friday December 29 2006, 8:23 pm: I think you should tell hiim if he can't give her up to be with you then you don't want to be with him. He has to provve to you that he really likes you and that he is willing to give something up for you....i think your best bet is to wait until they break up, and don't go out with him while he is still with her because you better look out for drama if you do. know what i mean?
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