If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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this is jazi14 and i am on smilihunz sn and my cuzin has a ?. she wants to know what 2 do about this prob she is having. see here is the thing.....she likes guys and she thinks she likes gurls..what should she do? she is worried that if she says somthin to her friend that they will not like her and she is only in the 7th grade. she said that she has had lots of boyfriends but yet she finds gurls attractive. what should she do? she does not have one of this things so she asked me to do it for her.... so can u give me some advise to give ti her @ jazi14 thanxs my cux really would like yo help. (link)
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If your cousin is only looking at these girls as attractive and nothing more,she's not bisexual. But if she is looking at these girls in a sexual way,then it's possible. Tell her you can talk to your friends about it,if they're your friends,they won't bash you. Don't view bisexuality as being shameful,even if you were raised as a devout Christian and all that. If that's how you are,that's how you are. Hope I helped,Kevin.
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I can talk to my best guy friend Matt on the phone for hours... and still find things to talk about. We talk on the phone a lot, but it's always me that calls.. or him calling me back. So I thought well I'll wait and see how long it takes for him to call me..
A week goes by, nothing.
Finally I have to call him, and we have like a two hour conversation and he even complained that we hardly talked the last week. (In my mind I was thinking yes and it tore me apart.) I mean it seems like he likes talking to me, but he never EVER calls..
What's the deal? Is that a sign he just doesn't really want to talk? Or am I reading into this to much. I know how it feels to be called my someone who you REALLY don't want to talk to, but talk to anyways.. maybe it's like that?
I'm so confused.. (link)
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Well this situation is kind of happening to me now. This one girl views me as a great friend and trusts me with anything,probably too much. I call her about 1/4th of the time,but mainly she calls me. Reason? Simple. If she's gunna call me all the time,why bother? It sounds like you like this guy as more than just a good ole buddy to me anyway. I doubt the girl that calls me would say "it tears her apart" if we don't talk. He probably likes talking to you,but since you call all the time,he thinks like me,why bother? I would tell him "Look,Matt,it's been awhile since we talked and I missed talking to you. Why don't you ever call me?It'd be kind of a change of pace" He probably doesn't even know he's upsetting you. Hoped I helped,Kevin.
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ok well i dream stuff alot and it happens and i know that happesn sometimes but mine are like real and sometimes they will be of people i will meet the next day so i think i am dreaming of complete strangers but they turn out to be people i meet idont know wut do think of this cuz i can answer these peopes questinos before they ask them cuz in the dream they have already given me the answer
plz tel me if this happens 2 u 2 (link)
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No I wish this would happen to me. How much alike do these people look in your dream to real life? If they're spot on,then you have an unusual gift. When you lack of better words,predict the future,are you predicting things that are pretty obvious like,what you're having for breakfast,or something more complex like an unknown guy talking to you?
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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that (link)
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This guy sounds like he has some serious issues. Why does he despise his brother? To answer your question,no way you weren't wrong in saying that. A man's brother should be one of his closest friends. I bet his brother doesn't hate him. If he wants his own brother to die,what kind of thoughts do you think he has about you?
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ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder (link)
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Yeah,I'd prolly do ya if you had that hairstyle. Consider this a compliment,not an insult. I say do it.
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I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER (link)
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Whoa. This guy talks about some pretty serious stuff. It's not unusual to talk about these kinds of things,but it is unusual to be obsessed with them. If you don't like him,tell him some crap like " Uh I don't think it's working out so well blah blah blah,fill in the blanks. It's nothing personal but I think we should break up." If you didn't like him,why did you go out with him in the first place?
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Hi my names Jenipher and Im15 , but everytime my x bf comes around me he keeps wanting me to stay the night ar his house... how do I tell him NO!!!
Oh and I really dont know any one on here can we just become friends??? thanks But HELP PLZ Jenipher (link)
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Ok,well Jen(hope you don't mind),as you probably already know a lot of guys simply won't take no for an answer. I have a very close girl friend who is haunted by her ex all the time. But the key to saying no,is simply saying it. And meaning it,be like "So and so,I don't wanna be mean,but we broke up a long time ago,and we broke because ..... and for that reason I really don't wanna socialize with you anymore." Be very assertive. It sounds bad,but you have to have no regard to his feelings. Say it and mean it,and if he still hangs around you,asking you to sleep at his house(so he can ultimately bang you)stay firm. Eventually he'll get the picture and move on. And yes we can become friends,if you have a problem, don't hesistate to ask. I'll help ya.
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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Why do u want a bf so bad? Guys are rude,crude,think about themselves and want sex all the time. And those are our good points. No,but seriously,finding a bf is not a scavenger hunt. Often times,you find somebody you like by total accident. If you go looking,chances are,you're going to come up empty. Just let it happen.
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Ok im like alaways masturbatingwith my self! yes im a girl! no bf either what do I do?
*Unknown sender* (link)
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Don't worry at all. Masturbation is completely normal. Only worry when you're always thinking about it and it's interferring in your daily life.
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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
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Well,you could have oral sex,your genitals could be stimuated by his mouth or vice versa. Hand jobs are a waste of time b/c we can do that anytime. There's no right or wrong way,just as long as he's in there.
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is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
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Hell yeah,guys love it. I know I do. 2 out of three girls do it or have done it.
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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No don't end it,but it sounds like you're infatuated with this guy. If you think about him leaving you,then you're not really too confident about the relationship. Don't break up,but take it a little slower.
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what is the kiss that guys like the most..? (link)
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Depends where you're kissing him. If it's on the lips,french. If it's down lower,we don't care. Just as long as you're there.
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what is semen? (link)
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Semen is essentially,just sperm. During masturbation or sex,if the penis is rubbed enough you will eventually ejaculate sperm. Semen isn't bad at all;it's how you got here. Some girls even like the taste of it.
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hi ok i have a bf i like him alot we dont get to see eachother alot i am pretty sure he is losing interest. like for ex. idk if its his pc or if he doesnt like me but whenever i am on AIM ill im him and he wont say anything it sucks. i dont want to call him just in case he just doesnt want to talk to me or becuz idk we dont talk on the phone a ton. and he used to say bye i love u no he signs off randomly without sayen anything. i dont no for sure why but i am very confused i hate it i just really want to mak him and me last long. (link)
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Well,he may have interest in another girl or he may be mad at you for some reason. When you do get a chance to talk to him,ask him whats up. Call him and if he doesn't wanna talk,ask him why. Ask are u pissed off or what? Be direct and make sure you get some kind of answer.
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hey...this may be somewhat of an awkward question but I just started shaving"down there" after receiving advice to go ahead and do so since I am starting swim season this summer. The only problem is that for some reason it's hard to shave it and when I do it really hurts. Any tips or helpful hints? Thanks (link)
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Well in addition for swimming purposes,it's really sexy too.Just be careful where you shave and not to cut yourself anywhere.
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I'm 13 and i'm dating a 17 year old...is that ok.?..but we're in love and he dosent ask me fo sex and treats me great...so why do my friends hate him and are mad at me fo hanging out in public with him???? are they jealous or what?!?!
signed, young love (link)
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Your friends see this guy is a lot older and they're trying to look out for you. Remember in another year,he'll be going off to college while you are just starting high school. Often times,guys M.O. is to have sex with and take advantage of young girls. I'm not saying he will,but be careful. Your friends are only trying to help you. They don't hate him,they hate what he might do to their friend.
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help (link)
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Yes you have two eating disorders. Your tremendous fear of gaining weight,and not eating is called Anorexia. Throwing up what you do eat is Bulimia. (Or almost spelled that way)Another one of your problems is your bf doing drugs. He's not the answer. Ditch him,eat again(protein and not too mant carbs) and exercise. You probably look very pretty,but you're about to really screw yourself up. Please do what I tell you.
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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
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Be very careful when you say you "love" this guy. You probably don't. And if he doesn't,well thats called rejection. This is something I know a lot about. I've been rejected so many times,I've lost count. In time,you get over it,and find a new guy who may like you.
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I have the worst habit of falling for guys really easy just as long as they're cute and nice. I have the tendancy to not only fall for them but to also obsess over them (read their online journals, get involved with their social life, etc) even when they've never met me before. Also, if I find out that a guy likes me, then I usually fall for him too. It's really annoying. How do I get over this stupid obsession of boys? (link)
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You didn't say how old you were,but if you're under about 14,then you're just going through the crush stage. Reading their stuff isn't cool;how would you like it if they read your stuff? It sounds like you like the idea of boys,not actual boys. Trust me,dating really isn't fun. Take your time.
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