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my Xbf
Hi my names Jenipher and Im15 , but everytime my x bf comes around me he keeps wanting me to stay the night ar his house... how do I tell him NO!!!
Oh and I really dont know any one on here can we just become friends??? thanks But HELP PLZ Jenipher
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Ok,well Jen(hope you don't mind),as you probably already know a lot of guys simply won't take no for an answer. I have a very close girl friend who is haunted by her ex all the time. But the key to saying no,is simply saying it. And meaning it,be like "So and so,I don't wanna be mean,but we broke up a long time ago,and we broke because ..... and for that reason I really don't wanna socialize with you anymore." Be very assertive. It sounds bad,but you have to have no regard to his feelings. Say it and mean it,and if he still hangs around you,asking you to sleep at his house(so he can ultimately bang you)stay firm. Eventually he'll get the picture and move on. And yes we can become friends,if you have a problem, don't hesistate to ask. I'll help ya.
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