If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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This guy sounds like he used to like you but for some reason doesn't anymore. Ask him straight up "Do you like me or what?" and don't leave until you get a damn answer this time. When he didn't answer you back,then he probably doesn't like you and doesn't know how to say it without hurting your feelings. Tell him you'd be interested in going out with him and that he owes you an answer. If he doesn't feel the same way,forget him,and find a guy who does.
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i dont think im grl friend material. i dont know why i guess i just think that. does anyone have any ways that i could become more grl friend material. im 14. (link)
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Well,you may just lack self confidence. I'm not really "boyfriend material",but I do the best I can. I don't have a girlfriend by the way. But just be nice and treat guys with respect and you'll do fine.
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I have a crush on a guy that's I've known for 3 years. he is on year older than me and his younger sister, who is one year younger than me, is my best friend. I've had a crush on him for more than 4 years and we used to like each other, but not to the point of dating. She's told me that she THINKS he likes me too but we're not really sure. My mom and his mom are REAL good friends, but my mom is the boss and their mom is an employee, and according to my mom she doesn't want us to date or be anything more than friends because she's afraid if anythign will happen, it will ruin their relationship. My 3 questions are--How do I drop hints to let him know I still really like him? How do I know or get him to show that he likes me too? (because at times he can be a real bi0tch.) and how do i show my mom that if anything happens we'll stay friends? (i've already tried talking to her about it...) thx (link)
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To answer your questions: You can flirt with him some,but mainly it'd be nice to come out and tell him that you like him. You'll know whether or not he likes you by his reaction,if he smiles,then hes happy. If he's like "Oh that's kool." then he's not interested. Finally,you can't know for sure no matter what that you'll still be friends. I doubt that what happens between you two will affect their realtionship,if it does,they're relationship isn't on very solid ground.
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how do i tell the guy i like that i like him. pls give me real conversations that i can have, not just things like "just follow your heart", i dont think that would work...hurry!!!! (link)
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Hey Joey,I really care about you a lot. I'd be interested in going out with you. I like your personality/sense of humor/whatever. How do you feel about me? Say it with confidence and you won't go wrong.
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thanks for your advice!! i followed it! :) IM me anytime ya wanna chat LilSexyShawty Ox
xOox Lexi ((InLoVex3)) (link)
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I'm glad I helped but what was the advice I gave you? It obviously turned out ok,because you're thanking me.
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I think i might be Bisexual. i am a 15 year old female girl. When i look at some of my female friends, i look at their breasts. i know this is not normal. when i masturbate, i imagine other girls in ym head. usually they are people with whom i am good friends... i know that this is not normal adn very weird, but is ti wrong? right now i like 2 different guys but at the same time i want to fuck my female friends. do u have any advice for me? (link)
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People can have fantasies about the same sex and not be bisexual. If you are with another girl and like it,then you're bisexual. You say it isn't normal,but this is actually becoming very normal. You also mention it as very weird,which it is not. A lot of guys,myself included,consider this a turn on. Don't be ashamed if you are,your guy will be lucky.
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okay well i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I would really like to make out with her and hold her and stuff and just be able to cuddle with her. there's just one problem. I get a hard on whenever i like think about kissing her or anything when i'm around her. I dont think of her in any sexual ways. does this happen to anybody else? or is it normal? (link)
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I would hope you'd get a hard on. It would be abnormal if you didn't. Doesn't matter whether you thinking about her sexually or not,the male body instinctively knows what to do.
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okay i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I think i'm in love with her:-D. She's so awesome. What could i get for her or do for her to show her that i love her? i wanna do something original but not to weird lol. thanks lol. (link)
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Dude have you seen Spiderman 2? Just read her poetry. Make her feel like she's the most special girl in the world. Until you break up,then she's the biggest bitch in the world. But that day hasn't come yet,so yeah read her poetry.
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hey um u have a big problem because like um i like this guy and he is my neighbor and i think he likes me and knows that i like him and stuff and like he hasnt talked to me since i asked him if he wanted to go with my somewhere and he makes fun of me alot and is he just being like immature or does he like me?
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He sounds like an idiot. If he's capable of having a mature converstation,ask him if he's into you or not. If he says no,screw him. I know if a girl asked me to go somewhere with her,I think I'd try to talk to her a lot.
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hi katy .. i have a problem :-/ there is this kid i rele rele rele like but we've went out 4 times 5 times in the past month .. the longest was recently and it was 2 weeks but he broke up with me bcuz he liked some girl that would give him head and have sex with him :-/ i love him alot .. and he says he loves me .. what do i do??? (link)
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Well he obviously doesn't love you enough to stop getting sex from the other girl. You don't love him,you only think you do. He doesn't really love you either. Ditch him,find somebody else who really likes you,sex or no sex,and move on.
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hey katy .. theres this guy i rele like but idk what he'll say if i tell him how i feel soo all we do is talk like friends talk .. :-/ idk if i should tell him how i feel or not .. we're REALLY good friends and i don't want to hurt our relationship :-/ help me please!! (link)
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Do it. He's probably a chicken like me and doesn't have the guts to. Do it at night too,outside,ya know the usual romantic crap.
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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Yeah,this one is kinda sticky. In addition to having a problem about your friend's sexuality,she also cuts herself,which is just as much of a problem. Tell your mom what's going on,no matter what you think she'll say. She's your mother and nobody else in this world is gunna love you more than your mother. Also,get your friend some help,cutting yourself is dangerous. Even if you two did start going out and then the relationship ended,she'd probably cut herself then too. Or whenever she's depressed. So,get her some counseling or whatever you have to. All I can say is good luck.
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i really really like this boy, he tells me he likes me too, and we just broke up but i still have feelings for him! i mean, he tells his friends i never have a chance with him again, i wanna confront him about him lieing but i dont want him mad at me cause i want to get him to like me!
--what should i say to him and what should i do to get him to like me!?-- (link)
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Ok,he's lying to you because he's not lying to all of his friends. Why do you still have feelings for a guy who says you have no chance with him? What makes him so high and mighty that he's too important to give you a shot? Secondly,you can't get someone to like you,they have to do it on their own. Thirdly,you should say you're a real jerk and tell him where the hell to get off. In addition,he probably just told you he liked you so you'd give him some. I mean,after all,you have no chance with him right? Trust me,babe,you don't want one.
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i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people) (link)
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You get to see all of it. I'm looking forward to seeing it so E-mail me and tell if it's good. My address is in my advice column.
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Recently, my girlfriend dumped me...for, I'm not even sure why. We were togehter for about 4 months, and I think towards the end of the relationship...she wasn't liking me all too well. I don't know what it is that I did. But, I just wanted her to be happy, so I made the breakup easy on her..at least. She broke up with me over the phone, and I just said, "Alright" and tried not to act real hurt, so she wouldn't feel as bad. But, truth be told...I am so hurt. It's been about a month. I just really, really, miss the girl. And I think that...-maybe- the reason she broke up with me, is because there's always been this one guy she liked, but he's younger. Like...3 years, or something.
Anyway, I'm so lost. I don't know what to do. I don't want to confront her about it...she just, I don't think she wants to talk to me. She won't talk to me on any messangers, or the phone, whatever. I'm like..totally out of her life now. But I miss her. She's perfect. I just, want her back... (link)
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Ok ok,lemme get this straight. This girl you were going out with for a few months just up and dumps you,you don't bitch too loud about it,she won't return your calls or anything,but she's perfect? Dude, raise your standards,especially if this guy is like just reaching puberty. You don't really miss the girl,you miss the idea of her. Plus you're a little too passive,you made things a lil too easy on her. Be more of a prick man.You did nothing wrong and shes gunna ditch you for some guy who believed in Santa Claus last year? You'll soon figure out how much of a bitch she was and in your next relationship,you'll learn from your mistakes.
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man...u guys ... how do i tell my bf im mad at him?? its somethng from the past but still he hasnt apologized or even brought it up and im really surprised...i dont wanna juss randomly be like OH WHEN U GOT A NEW GF AND JUSS DROPPED ME THAT REALLY HURT ME...i juss dont kno how to say it *we werent tekinially bf/gf but we wer dateing and then he stoped callin n got a new gurl and juss left me hanging!!* hes really is a sweet guy n told his best friend he made a huge mistake blah blah but when is a good time to bring it up and wat exactly do i say???? (link)
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Well when you first started going out ,did you ever agree that the both of you could see other people? If it's something you never talked about,then no he didn't cheat and you're overreacting. He should've mentioned something,but hey if you leave the door open for a guy to weasel out,he will. I don't think I'd apoligize either,there's nothing to be sorry for. If you're like 14 or 15,you shouldn't tie yourself down like that. You'll have your married years for that. Bring it up just when you feel like and say what comes to mind. Don't tell me you have no idea what to say. I bet you do. So say it.
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what turns on guys? x0x lol thankkkz .. i need the advice =p (link)
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Oh wow, I'm gunna have fun with this one. Forget everything you read in Cosmo. 74 ways to excite him and all that is just a ploy to get you to buy the magazine. Harrison Ford said it best when he spoke " The best way to turn a man on is to show up." It's true,guys are always ready to go. If you really wanna get us going though,show interest in us. Flirt a lil bit,just enough to get his imagination going,and don't be a prude. Don't be afraid to burp every once in a while. Don't be all bashful about sex and laugh at his dumb jokes. Play a lil hard to get,but not too much. There's a fine line but women usually know how to walk it. Plus it helps if you're really hott.
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Theres this really cute guy down my friends street and his name is Zach , but when I told my friend she kept saying he has a gurlfriend , but when we were playing Basket ball with him and My other friends down the street he just kept staring in to my eyes and when I went to sit down he'd sit with me, What do I do??? HELP ME PLZ JEnipher (link)
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He's interested. A guy who looks at a girl's eyes is a romantic type. He likes to spend a lot of time with you(namely sitting next to you and crap like that). Flirt with him innocently and see if he goes for it. Then coyly ask him if he's dating. If he ain't,bag him. Hope I helped,Kevin.
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hey..i'm 15 girl, well..i like a guy..and i wana be couple with him...i'm sure he like me too..
its juz that i got a bf and he got a gf..this month i'm sure that i'm gona break up wit my bf becoz he got another gf..but the thing is the guy that i like is famous,and lots of gurl like him..its juz that he dunno how to pick one..what should i do to be couple wit him. (link)
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He's famous? Well,who is he? If he's got so many girls he can't even choose,I wouldn't go with him.What makes you think he's interested in you? I don't mean this as a cutdown,but as a serious question. Don't just dump your bf because this other famous guy is famous. Dump your bf if you don't like the guy anymore. Hope I helped,Kevin.
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well i am going to see this guy i havent seen in awhile and when i meet him i want him to say wow u have lost weight!! lol so i need help starting a diet like i need excersize's and lol yeah i just need help!! (link)
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Depends how much you wanna lose. If you're significantly overweight(30-40 pounds) go on a diet with high protein,low carbs. Stay away from breads,pastas,etc as much as possible. Stick to milk,meats,vegetables(even if some have carbs) and fruits. To speed this process along,run. Start out short distance,then gradually build up. You're young,so your metabolism is high. Whatever you do,don't not eat. Hope I helped,Kevin.
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