okay well i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I would really like to make out with her and hold her and stuff and just be able to cuddle with her. there's just one problem. I get a hard on whenever i like think about kissing her or anything when i'm around her. I dont think of her in any sexual ways. does this happen to anybody else? or is it normal?
Chelsea_babe_69 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 7:54 pm: Ok from hearing story's from some of my guy friends...and my boyfriends....this is totally normal. The reason this happens...is wen you think about "kissing" her or doing w/e...you think it might lead on to more and more. Let me tell you soemthing thooo....you have to get it under controll...I have 7 rules about guys...i cant say them but one of them is they have to be able to controll themselve...-ex. getting hard- in a "sexual" time. Dont blow you load early...ya gotta wait or "let the oven pre heat b4 you stick the chicken in" ;o)
kevin1986 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 7:00 pm: I would hope you'd get a hard on. It would be abnormal if you didn't. Doesn't matter whether you thinking about her sexually or not,the male body instinctively knows what to do. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:46 pm: Its normal ... because alot of people do .. actually think about stuff like that
babiiLindS89 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:16 pm: its soo normal,...i mean yea i'ma girl and i understand it completly,.. it just makes me proud .. fer real .. lol i l0ve it when guys get hard when they are around me.. Juts be cool with it and if she sees it ( who cares ) =) ..
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:10 pm: Heh. My guy had that problem when our relationship just started to get...interesting. I never said anything, but it was - um - obvious. Lol...
Think about nonsexual things, if you can. Direct your thoughts to something totally obscure to get your subconscious off of sexual stuff.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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