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I like putting people in mildly uncomfortable situations to see how they react- like they're all a science experiment to me. I can't seem to get close to anyone outside my immediate group of friends.

Is this because i've had issues of abandonment in the past? (mother committing suicide when i was 3 and dad taking off, am living with aunt and uncle now).

or perhaps is it because i'm surrounded by idiots in my school?

i don't put anyone in immediate danger or anything, i just get people frustrated by denying them things. is it wrong/bad? (link)
It's pretty bad if you get a lot of people mad at you. I used to do the something similar, and the eventual reactions I recieved were painful to say the least.
As long as you have your immediate friends, you'll do okay. it's not uncommon to be only close to your immediate friends. Just don't try too harsh of experiments on them, save that for the idiots that surround you.
It could have to do with abandonment issues. Maybe dwelling on your mother's suicide and your father taking off sparked your curiousity in people's overall interaction. Afterwhich, you set up situations to test other's limitations, emotionally.
It could also be because you're surrounded by idiots, and messing with them seems way too easy.
My advice is to find a more productive hobby. Art or something... Or you can still conduct your experiments, but be more subtle in your approach. i'm sure by now you've received enough reactions to form a conclusion. All of this simply shows that you're an outside thinker, a sign of early brilliance.




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