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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex?
Most believe that you should wait until you are married to be doing that sort of thing. I think that when you get married you will feel comfortable enough to have sex. You will know whether you are ready when you feel comfortable about it.
right, well my hair is naturally curly. but i straighten it every day. when i leave the house its like perfectly straight but like 2 hours later, its not. its so annoying!!! my friends recommended hairspray, but ive used some hairspraying products before, and they arent good. but they didnt cost alot. sorry 'bout how long this is but ya know. so does anyone have any tips/products that might work? TY x0x
I have naturally curly hair and i have to strighten it everyday. Eventually from straightening my hair so much that it was trained to be straight so i didnt have to straighten it so much. What i do is divide my hair in half like a half ponytail. I straighten that part first until it is stright. Then after it is straight i put it into another ponytail so it looks like you have half in the upper side and half on the lower side. Take a little more hair off the top part and straighten that. Then when it is staright add t to the part that is already straight. Take the rest down and straighten it. That way you have straighten each section of the hair. Dont put hairspray on it because that causes dandruff.
k, well i have red hair. & im thinking about getting streaks in my hair. or something like that. what would you recommend? i rate high!
I recommend black highlights it brings the red out in your hair. or even really blonde streaks it makes red look really pretty
Ive been single for a fiew months now and I have been screwed over twice pretty badly by guys. The first guy told me he loved me and then i found out that on a night when i was suposed to be with him he had sex with a girl 4 times! the other time was more recently. I had been hanging out with a guy more often and he would put his hand around my waist and pull me close and want me to stand next to him so he could hold me and stuff and then i found out he was with another girl also! I was crushed both times. But moreso the first time then the second. Its hurt me badly and brought my self asteem down even lower!
My question Is basicly What are some ways I could make myself more confident? I have been told if you are confident with yourself people can notice. Also How can I get a guy to like me? a good guy. Do you have any makeup tips or cloths tips or any tips at all! any advice. It would really help.
Love maddie
Well if you are to join a certain activity or learn a special skill that could help. Like me i play the flute and a bunch of instruments. Its not you its the guy so dont blame yourself they are stupid for doing that. They were only after one thing and thats not a good quality in a guy.
You sound like a really nice girl who didnt deserve that. If you show an attitude that you dont care what they did it will bother the heck out of them. They were out to hurt you and they got you but if you show that you didnt care then they will back down. I have had so many boyfriends that broke my heart but i pick myself up and tell myself that i can do better and so can you. He will come along you just have to be patient for now just concentrate on school.
Okay my boyfriends birthday is Saturday so I want to throw him a big supper but I dunno what to cook for him. I got the cake lol. I'm not sure on what to cook though. So can anyone help me out plz..
♥Shawntay
You should cook something simple. ctually cook things that e loves to eat. Every guy appreciates it when you cook things they like. like vegetables, maybe hamburger helper or tuna helper. You could make cookies. You could make steak. or even spagetti.
Well I am M/14 and have to friends F/14 and well at the moment I am more honest with one of them that the other. I tell her evrything because a lot of what happens to me has happened to her. But when my friend and I go to tell her stuff she never knew about us she gets really upset. No matter what she gets upset grossed out pissed off. I have no clue what to do, and should I be telling her anything?
If you feel like you can talk to her then you should but the person to be asking how they feel is her. Just ask if it bothers you that you talk to her about stuff. If so then dont tell her but find someone else that doesnt bother them that you talk to them about anything. Try a diff. friend of yours.
OKAY I REALLY REALLY REALLY NEED HELP! so anyone who can help PLEASE DO=]
OK so here my PROBLEM - how can you really flirt with a guy (by the way im 13 hes 15) if you ONLY see him on fridays; ONLY FRIDAYS! and you have his sn, and tlak to online. also, you have his cell number but never call.
ps- i like him vvery much, so i cannot give up just liek that, and ive known him for about ayear now so please help me. i reealy like him and i dont know what to do.
Tyr inviting him to the movies or someting that way you can see him more. Flirt with him during the movie or even before. I knwo you cant really flirt online or on the cell but you can talk to him and invite him to some fun activities. You should call him if you like him and he likes you.
Okay.. Me an this girl have been friends since like the 6th grade and now we are freshman. Well at the beginning of the school year she got caught taking pills along with some other kids. Well every since then she has been hanging out with these other people that are wrong for her. So now she does crack, weed, sniffs muscle relaxers && drinks. I try an talk to her but all she does it cuss me out. She says this is the happiest shes been in awhile, and that she likes doing it. She says shes tired of me acting like a "perfect christian" thats it's p'ing her off. She also said that if i told anyone that she was gonna beat my butt. She parties every weekend and even on the weekdays. I don't know what to say to her anymore about it. I want to help her so much. But I dunno what to do. Please help me.
I know how you feel. The same thing happened to my friends. They did that stuff and wanted me to do them but since I am christian i wouldnt do it because i knew it was wrong. They would make fun of me for being such a goody too shoes. There isnt really anything you can do but let her learn from her mistakes. When she does learn all you can do is help her when she needs you. If you make her stop she will just pull away. Its good that you are christian and wont do these things. She thinks that drugs are the answer for her anger but it is not and soon she will learn that and she will need you. I know it is hard for to let your friend throw her life away. All you can do is try to get her to stop and never give up on that.
My boyfriend is always saying stuff like, my other boyfriend this and my other boyfriend that. He says he is just playing but sometimes I dont think he is. We are both 16 and we live together and its starting to get worse and worse. I am deeply in love with him and I dont know what to do. He also grabs me y the arms and my hair sometimes, is that the start of abuse? If some one could answer that question and help me with how I ould make the other boyfriend thing stop, I will love you forever!! Thanks, Kacy
My brothers friends all joke about that stuff to but they dont really mean it. I think that he isnt serious because if he was wouldnt he be with a guy instead of a girl. I dont think that it is the start of abuse but he really seriously hurts then i suggest seeing someone else. I know that your in love but if he is hurting you then you shouldnt be in that situation if he loves you back.
i am 20 yrs old n studying medicine...i hav a hectic schedule like 4m 7 am till 4 pm i am in college..den i am really tired but i am 66kgs n wanna hav a weight loss of 10 kgs to b fit ...wat can help me get rid of dese extra kilos...plz help ...i am in hostel so food is provided by dem...plz help me stay in shape...
Eating healthy and drinking alot of water helps you get into shape. Exercising more than you eat helps lose alot of the weight you want to. You should drink water and exercise a little at a time then gradually increasing. I suggest not snacking in between meals. Alos dont eat to much chocolate that builds body fat and drinking to much pop. You probably have mostly water weight so if you do these things it should be gone in no time.
right now i have my first real boyfriend, we've been going out for about 2 weeks. he's great. but he's all i can think about. we hung out fri night and now its monday and i'm sick and i cant think about anything but him. its driving me crazy. my throat is sore but i called him anyway and we talked 4 a little while but it didn't work out too well cuz my voice is almost gone. whevenver i'm not with him i'm thinking about him. i need a way to stop thinking about him before i go insane.
Maybe you should find a hobby that you really enjoy doing. If you try to concentrate on only this hobby you may be only thinking about him only sometimes.
I'm like in tears trying soo hard not to cry so sorry if i mess up on any spelling or anything.
Heres some background:
Okay, like 14 years ago my mom had breast cancer. She survived and has been cancer free for about 12 years... My grandmother passed away from it in 2001 and many women in my family have died or have breastcancer in both sides of my family. Also my family has a sort of decisese that evreyone women on atleast my mom side of my family has that it makes lumps in your breasts and stuff.. Now the guys have that cancer related to breast cancer and my pappap has it but it too old (83) to get treatment..
What i need help on:
My mom went today to get a Passmere and that breast checkup thingy and seh said they drew blood work. When my dad got home they were talking about thing then my dads being like out of it and has been laying on the couch ever since he got homw itha blankey wrapped around him. And my mom, she looks horrible and my mom always looks great. She looks like shes sorda worried. Anyways we went to go pick up my sisters and i was talking to my mom about what was wrong with my dad and she kept saying nothing he'll be fine nothing he'll be fine then she said nothi (started to say nothings wrong) but then stoped and said he'll be fine so again i said is tehre somthing wrong with dad and she said I'm the one who went to the doctors he didnt why would tehre be somthing wrong with him? Then she said when i have to worrie then you have to worrie. i have this realy werid feeling they might think the cancers back. .. maybe there just nervous of getting the resluts but i am almost crying and sick to my stomich.. can someone help im not sure what im asking just some advise or help she wont tell me but i'm not sure why we usaly seem realy close.. anways please leave me somthing...
---13/f---
I think that you should just always be there for your mom. She might not be telling you because she is probably afraid you cant handle it but she might be telling the truth and there is nothng wrong. You said that you had a strong feeling that there might be somehting wrong so all you can do is wait for your mother or father to come to you about it.
What do peope think about the zen micro. I heard it was a great mp3 player but i want to know what some other peope think about it. And is it worth your money?
I think its a waste of money. I dont think it is the best.
what's nargela and how does it harm you
go to google.com and type the word and it gives you wensites about the topic. you can read about and it tells all the affects and how it can harm you and stuff
Ok so a little while ago i was brushing my teeth and the thing that connects my wire broke off. Like how its glued and stuff, it just broke off. Im worried because they say it can start decaying really bad or whatever but i wouldnt think it would be that fast or even that part. But i have an orthodontalist appointment on Wednesday so should i just wait until then or have my mother call and ask about it? Thanks.
i think you should go to the doctor and have your mother call to also.
this is really mebarassing but..you know how people make jokes about buttt hair? is it normal to have it?
Yea it is normal to have butt hair. It is part of puberty.
Now I have a comment to make and a question. Everyone will tell you how you shouldn't go for the sex and you shouldn't like the cuter guy. Now I know I live out the parts about the cuter guy being nice and all that. Everyone tells you not to do stuff, but in the end you end up not taking their advice at all. You end up doing the opposite. For instance I asked a question about should I like the boy who I've known since kindergarden or the hott one that goes to a diff school. Everyone says that the guy whos hott is a jerk but hes not. My point is it just cracks me up because you all waste your time writing how you shouldn't do things but in the end everyone always does the opposite. So whats with it? It's point less when people say follow your heart well you wouldn't be asking a question if you could!
So whats with all of this?
(I put it under sex cause people always answer the questions on sex)
I know what you mean but you cant base a persons personality on their looks. Not all hott guys are jerks. If you have know this one person since they were in kindergarten then you basicly know their personality if you are friends. I dont know why people do the opposite you just have to give them advice and hope they take but if they dont then they can deal with the consequences.
there's these two guys that I like lets say ones name is Bob and the other 1's name is Jeff well me and bob have been dating on and off for about 2 years i like him so much...id do anything to make him happy and i mean anything but since my grades were going down because i was paying more attention to him then my homework. Well me and bob decided to break up for a while until my grades pull up... Bob lives in texas down in corpus chrisi and there was a huricane down there his friends talked to me and told me that he said he hated me and i havent hear from him since. That is until today. Well since his friends told me that he said he hated me this other kid asked me out and i said yes. Well this other kid's name is jeff and i kinda like jeff...he comes to my house and we hang out alot. He likes me too. I don't know what to do i really love Bob and well i know im too young to say that (im 14) but i really do love him and id do anything for him well i dont want to hurt jeffs feelings and i want to make bob happy i have no idea what to do! SOME1 PLZ HELP ME ILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!
Well i think that you should stay with Jeff. If Bob is not talking to you then why should you bother waiting for him. I know that you love him but you are letting this othe guy(Jeff) get away. If you break tings off with Jeff you go on with life wondering what would have happened if i would have stayed with him. It obviously didnt work with you and bob or you would still be together.
Righto, my monthly visit (period) just came by again. It's weird, it's really uncomfortable and it hurts just to walk.. I was just wondering how can I make my cramps a little better and any hints/tips on periods? Thanks
Eat chocolate it always helps my cramps. And if you are in school then take headache pills before you leave that way you wont have cramps through school.
Hey everyone. I'm in a spot of a dilemma here. You see, I have this friend who I've been chatting to online for around 2 years now and he's coming down to meet (don't worry, he's not a pedophile or anything. we've spoken on the phone and web cam and all) anyway, we were planning to see green day together and he already bought the tickets and his plane ticket. Anyway, a few days ago my good friend who lives here bought me a ticket to see Green Day. It was going to be a suprise but then he found out I was already going and had to fess up. Anyway, the next time he saw me he HANDED the ticket to me, which I now have. My good friend bought the ticket for me as a present and I don't have to pay him or anything, and I'd feel bad making him give it to someone else. But the other guy can't cancel his plane ticket or sell his ticket (since he lives in brisbane and i'm in melbourne) advice please??
thanks
Why not take both tickets. Even though you will have two tickets it wont hurt to use both of them. Or ask a friend to come along. You should hang out with both of them. That way none will get their feelings hurt and you wont feel guilty. Its not your fault you didnt know this was going to happen.