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Ive been single for a fiew months now and I have been screwed over twice pretty badly by guys. The first guy told me he loved me and then i found out that on a night when i was suposed to be with him he had sex with a girl 4 times! the other time was more recently. I had been hanging out with a guy more often and he would put his hand around my waist and pull me close and want me to stand next to him so he could hold me and stuff and then i found out he was with another girl also! I was crushed both times. But moreso the first time then the second. Its hurt me badly and brought my self asteem down even lower!
My question Is basicly What are some ways I could make myself more confident? I have been told if you are confident with yourself people can notice. Also How can I get a guy to like me? a good guy. Do you have any makeup tips or cloths tips or any tips at all! any advice. It would really help.
Love maddie<3
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First and foremost, be yourself. I know it sounds stupid but it's the best way. Second, shopping helps MY self-esteem but i dont know what other people like. Doing something your good at also works. Third, if you want clothes and makeup advice, as long as youre not uncoordinated and your face doesnt look like a clown youre doing just fine. (If youre wearing it>>)Lay off the black eyeliner. I know its popular but it looks stupid if you cant wear it right.- As far as boys go, some girls like drama and if thats you then go after the bad boys (which sounds like what youve been attracting yourself to). Try getting into sports if youre not already in something the consists of boys and girls. Alot of guys respect a girl that can whoop his butt.
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Well if you are to join a certain activity or learn a special skill that could help. Like me i play the flute and a bunch of instruments. Its not you its the guy so dont blame yourself they are stupid for doing that. They were only after one thing and thats not a good quality in a guy.
You sound like a really nice girl who didnt deserve that. If you show an attitude that you dont care what they did it will bother the heck out of them. They were out to hurt you and they got you but if you show that you didnt care then they will back down. I have had so many boyfriends that broke my heart but i pick myself up and tell myself that i can do better and so can you. He will come along you just have to be patient for now just concentrate on school.
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Hey,
You don't have to try to make guys like you. They will just come to you. Just be careful, not all guys are worth your time, which you've already experienced. As guys get older, they mature and their tastes in girls change. Theres a guy that loves each different type of girl. Don't change yourself to get a guy, you don't need to. They'll come when it's the right time. Don't get discouraged! I never went out with anyone from my school, I always went out with older guys while I was in Hich School. In college, theres so many people, there is bound to be more than one pursuer. :) Trust me, there is. Just keep your chin up and realize you're better than them!
~Luna
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hey im sure you dont have to change any of your style and makeup tips but like dont always beleieve a guy when he tells you he loves you and like dont let them treat you how they want let them know that you have to make some decisions too, and just be yourself thats the way they like you when you just be yourself !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!
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