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I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry!

Why dont you tell him what you just told everyone else tell him that your not ashamed of it and you dont find it weird or gross and your turned on by it

luv roxie

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ok, so there this guy at my school, and he told my friend, sarah, that he thought i was 'wicked hott'. where does that usually lead to? jw, and please dont delete! i dont want to start getting into any realtionship, and i need 2 know where i'm heading! i just need one or two answers! thxx!

I think he likes you why dont you start talking to him if you like him to good luck and i bet your pretty anyways

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hi...my name is anna. i like this guy who is a year older than me. hes really sweet, quiet, hillarious........and to my knoweledge hasnt have any-very many g/fs. everytime i see him i cant speak or anything. i saw him the other day and i ran. how stupid am i. I RAN!!! i couldve done anythingelse but no....i ran. i was wondering...like what do i do? i met some girls who sit with him at lunch. they know him so well. and i dont. im sooo jealous. i cant stand the madness of having a b/f but i think hes rite for me and im so clueless. thank you soooooooooooo much!

Try and get him to talk to you when hes stood still or walking slow walk infrount of him and smile when you walk past. I he starts to talk to you take a deep breath before you say anything and you should be fine. If he doesnt talk to you
start talking to him just talk about what he likes to on weekends or what classes hes in or does he play any sports just casual stuff dont run away lol:D good luck

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Ok so me and my friend ill call her *Kaia* last year in 7th grade we were in all the same classes. and we sorta grew away from each other in a way. but this year in 8th grade me and *kaia* only have 1 class together and it seems as if we are actually becoming closer...since we dont see each other as much. and we can talk about anything now..and last year we couldnt talk to each other about a lot of stuff. Is it possible that since we arent seeing each other we are actually growing closer? and also could it be because we like each other for who we are..not for what we dress like? thanks for your help! Ill rate you if i like your answer!

yes its possible Because the fact that you see less of each other makes you able to talk about anything which is good. Thats a sign of good friendship if you like each other for who you areand not what you dress like which i think is great.
keep it up

luv roxie

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if i am 10 am i too young to date?

I think 10 abit young but if you like this guy and your not doing anything sexual related then that fine

luv roxie

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My friend just got a boyfriend awhile back. He's a really sweet guy, but he always flirts with me & my other friend. At a dance last night he kept touching me! I told my friend that he's bad news but she didn't think much of it. I know she deserves so much better than him. What should I do?

Just be there for her and its her choice but along the way keep telling her that its a bad idea and that he doesnt deserve some one as special as her

luv roxie

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Is there any way you can record youself on the computer? Cause I sing, and so I can show it to people to see if It's any good. Does anyone know how??

You need to get a microphone and record you self singing and save it into a file

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hi, i am 13 years old and i no a friend and i think she has an eating disorder. She always watches her weight and what she eats. She looks at herself everynight and sees if she gained any weight. But everytime I ask her if she is, she says no. Do you think she has an eating disorder and if so how can i help? please help me asap...i rate high.
ex Oh ___*

You need to tell her shes not fat and she never has been build up her self esteem she might see sence and forget about it all if not i think you should tell some one you trust who can help go see a school cousiller or talk to her family
im so sorry to her about all this

luv roxie

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Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!!

Why dont you talk to them tell them that your not a little girl anymore and that you need more space and need to have different friends and go out tell her that your resposible.

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

morning sickness craving different foods
not wanting to eat or drink
tender boobs
stomach pains

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I was looking at others advice columns and noticed that a lot of people have more than one photo onto their column page, I was trying to figure out how that was done and it didn't work, could someone help me with this, specific directions if possible. Fives will be given to those who answer the question.

You just go onto different sites and copy the infomation into your profile
here are some websites for you:
www.Nuthinbutnet.com
www.starlightmks.com
good luck

luv roxie

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I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~!

Talk to her tell her that you still want to be her friend and that when ever shes around other people shes very distant from you.
She might want a change of freinds because everyone needs different types of friends but she has no right to act differently and leave you out

luv roxie

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are the cookies in the computer bad? should i delete them? if so which kinds ?

No there not bad unless you have been on porno sites or anything because cookies can tell your family or who ever reads them what you have been on and said

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My boyfriend and me have been going out for like a week or so now and hes 2 years older. What is the farthest we should have gotten by now, im 14 and im just wondering if we are going too fast.

Kissing and cuddling no sexual stuff hes 16 and your under age and if the police found out he could be send to a childrens prison

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ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *

Ive had that feeling before, If you really dont want to dont tell her you have deleted it buy accident and dont no where you found it but if she doesnt like him then that shouldnt be a problem maybe you like him. Just tell her what i said good luck

luv roxie

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i have a problem. i can never get tampons in all the way! i'll push really hard but it doesn't work. it only goes in a fourth of the way. what can i do to make it go in?

Mabe you need a smaller one dont start with a big one it never works and when inserting relax and it should work it doesnt always i could do it eather mabe you should stick to pads

luv roxie

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

No just be suttle put stuff like you mean the world to me or you rock untill your ready to say that you love him if you do then you can put that
have a good time

luv roxie

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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

underwear if you want to wear thongs or french nickers go right ahead or wear some short shorts.

luv roxie.

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is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?

No its normal for a guy to have feelings and have an erection, I think some girls will see it as a complement some wont

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Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f)

Why dont you tell him the situation about your parents and if they ask where you were if you diside to go to his house just say your at a mates house

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