Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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Okay well all us girls know how hard it is to get over a boy after he dumps us or just says he doesnt like us anymore, especially when it was super unexpected. so my questions are...
how do you get over them? besides getting another one. cause I can't get another one.
and
Do you boys feel the same way? like if we ever did that to you? do you feel like crap for days on end? do you guys like obsess over it as we do?
Do you ever even miss us? or do you just move on right away cause you just thought we were attractive?
Thats people! (link)
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To get over a guy as best as you can, you just got to stop thinking about them, stop thinking about the good times, and make some good times with your friends instead. Go shopping, have a movie marathon, spend the night at a friends, try picking up a new hobby or just have fun with the current hobbies you have. But before you do all this: cry if you need to. Cry yourself silly, and get all those sad emotions out of the way so you don't need them anymore and you can focus then on good emotions and good times.
And, well, I'm not a guy, but I'm sure they do feel the same way. I don't think as much onto the point where the cry for days and eat ice cream haha, but I'm sure they feel crappy whenever they're dumped. It really does depend on the guy. If he was just into the girl for stuff and cause he thought she was hot, I'm sure he doesn't care if she dumps him or not other then the fact he might think its sucks because he won't get any [ even if he WASNT going to ] but then other guys who really liked the girl would probably be hurting for a good while.
I hope I helped.
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What do u think the percentage of a high skooler getting a new band together but we all play instruments and like going all the way like selling out stadiums are? im jw (link)
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I think it's a very low chance. But my brother had a band not to long ago, and they got pretty famous around Pittsburgh, alot of people knew who they were and they became friends with other popular local bands. But, college came in the way of that, ha. Anyways, even if you were thinking of starting a band [ which I assume ] you should still at least try if you're determined enough and make enough starting out concerts and open for bands and make yourself known and try and get a record out there. Making a myspace and adding other bands would also help. Anyways, I hope I helped.
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Well, there are too boys in my grade that have major crushes on me. Unfortunately they are both major geeks. I know thats mean, but it's true. anyway they both keep asking me out and fighting over me, but i don't like eather of them. I told them both nicely that i don't like them , but they won't listen. Then i told them the mean way, but they still don't get the picture. Plz I ed HELP.The mental kind too.LoL :0) (link)
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If they're still not getting the picture, just tell them both again one more time, if it doesn't work, the most I can say is give them the cold shoulder. Not forever, but until they realize that you really meant it whenever you said you didn't like them like that. And just don't think about them, talk about them, anything. I hope I helped.
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i just made a contest myspace site. whats a quick was a can get a lot of friends fast? (link)
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Become friends with other contest sites and ask them if they whore you, you'll whore them back so everyone gets new friends. Also, go to www.friendstorm.net and enter your FRIEND ID in the little bar and add as many people as you want. And after you get a certain amount of friends, ask them to whore you and if they'll want whored back so their friends can also add you. I hope I helped.
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PLZ Help!!
I'm 13 and last year I liked this guy and he asked me out and I said yes but wait till summer's over when we have more time. But now that the school year's come, I don't like him anymore. He thinks that I still like him, but I haven't really given him the chance to ask me out because I don't know what to do. I can's block him for too much longer [man why can't he take a hint]. HELP!!!?!?! (link)
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Really, the most you can do is be honest with him. Trying to ignore him and block him is only going to wind up hurting him more in the end knowing that you were doing all that because you don't like him anymore. Whenever he asks you out, just tell him the truth. Be like,"I'm sorry, but ever since summer happened, I've sort of lost my feelings for you." But let him know he's a great guy and all, and it's not like it's something he did, it's just you guys haven't talked or anything so the feelings just sort of fizzled off. Guys sometimes can't pick up on hints whenever girls drop some. But let him know you still want to talk to him and be friends and everything, and hopefully he'll understand. If he's upset, just let him cool off for a bit and see if he wants to continue a friendship later. I hope I helped.
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Ok, I dress very Chici-ish and my friends make fun of my fashion sence what should i tell them? (link)
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If they were your friends they wouldn't be making fun of your style of clothes. They might even be just jealous of your style. Just tell them you don't care, and hopefully they'll stop ; but if not, just ignore them anyway. You know you look good, and that's all that matters. I hope I helped.
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Ok i've been trying not to call my boyfriend and see if he would ever call me,but he never had except once. But that was awhile back
So does he still like me are not????
How can I get him to like me more to????
6th grader (link)
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Haha, he's a guy. Girls are always more into the calling all the time and everything, when guys won't usually do it as much. So, just tell him "talk to you later, call me tonight?" and if he doesn't, just call him instead. You guys are only in 6th grade, him not calling isn't that bad. Just think of it this way ; if he didn't like you, he wouldn't be dating you. :) I hope I helped.
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ok so i have a boyfriend
who goes to another school
and like i really like him and stuff
but on friday we had this dance
and like it was like this huge grindfest
and like i grinded w/ other guys
and like it wasnt that big of a deal
is that considered like cheating on my bf?
xox thanks (link)
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Cheating is when you kiss or more with another guy. I don't know about holding hands, I wouldn't consider it CHEATING, but I wouldn't be holding hands with another guy if I had a boyfriend. ANYWAYS, no, it's not cheating at all. It's just dancing. I hope I helped.
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Ok. . .I've been going out with this guy(we'll call him "J1") for almost 4 months. . . But I don't like him anymore. . .I like my best friend(who we'll call"J2") I've known "J2" since 4th grade and he's told me he likes me too. . ."J1" is the type of guy who won't break-up with a girl. . . He's too sweet( in fact too sweet for my liking) I dont want to be just another one of those girls who dumps him. . .I'd rather have him break-up with me. . . And to make matters worse there's a Dance at my school this friday. . . HELP ME PLEASE
13/f (link)
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Well, it's pretty simple. If you're not finding yourself liking J1 anymore, break up with him. Don't let it linger, don't let feelings continue, and just be honest with him. If you just let it continue, in the end, him finding out he just got dumped and you've been kind of "pity-dating" him would only hurt him more. And I know you don't want to do it, but if he's not going to do it, someone has to. And don't try and figure out a way that'll make him wind up breaking up with you, cause that's just bad. So, just be honest with him, and let him know it's not working out, and you're really sorry. And with the J2 guy, if you like him, go for it. But don't be hanging out with him and flirting with him if J1 is near you guys. Give it some time. I hope I helped.
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Okay, so theres this boy in my school 'steve', hes a senior...and hes like a god {well u know what i mean} and we hang out sometimes and i really really like him, His cousin 'rob' is my age and he's best friends with steve. Rob tells steve to back off and not like me. Steve does sense they are best friends. I don't know if steve likes me..because he can have almost any girl he wants, and hes usually into blondes {i'm brunette} but i still think i have a chance. He's the kind of boy who expects BJ's after like a week though. and i'm NOT into that...any advice?! Should i ask him to hang out more or something? (link)
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I would say just remain friends, nothing more. Not even friends with benefits or anything. I mean, if you already know he wants sex and BJ's and such the first week of dating a girl, there's no reason to get with him. And if you did start dating him, he'd just want sex, you'd be all emotionally involved and stuff, and you'd get hurt probably in the end cause if you won't give him any, he'll probably go find a girl who would. So my advice, just completely forget him, or just remain friends. I hope I helped.
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Okay well I have a hickey and I was wondering if anyone knows how to get rid of it or make it so nobody can see it? Reply Back Pleasee! Thankss :] (link)
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if you put a spoon in the freezer for a couple of hours and let it get real cold, if you put it on your hickey, it should puff up your skin and hide it a bit, and i also hear apricot cream works real good. also use cover-up. i hope i helped.
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"I can love you like no one can, I can be your Superman." It's sort of a new song. I think it is r&b or slow rap. I need to know the name of the song and by who. Thanks =] (link)
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I googled it, and "Superman" by Brown Boy came up. I hope I helped.
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ok soo i hate mi cuzin but she wont leave me alone wat do i do? F/13 (link)
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You can try talking to her about it, don't tell her you HATE her, but whenever she's starting to annoy you, just tell her you're not in a good mood so if she could just please talk to you later or something.
Or, just ignore her and whenever she starts to annoy you, focus on something else or walk away from her.
You can't really tell her you HATE her, cause that just is going to create more drama and plus, I don't think family reunions and gatherings would be real comfortable, huh?
I hope I helped.
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does anybody have a picture of 2 puppies that are cuddling close to each other for a best friend card?? I'll really appriciate it!!! (link)
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Here's some pictures I found:
[ I find these top two absolutely adorable! ]:
http://users.argolink.net/penguins/Puppies%202.PDD.jpg
http://www.polygor.com/images/2-puppies.jpg
http://animals.timduru.org/dirlist/dog/Good_As_Gold-John_Weiss-Dogs-2Puppies.jpg
http://www.shar-pei-orlando.com/images/2-puppies-S.jpg
http://dog-food-zone.com/pet-articles/images/2%20puppies.jpg
http://members.shaw.ca/Luv_dogz/images/2%20puppies.jpg
I hope I helped!
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what does this mean in german? my friend takes german in school and her teacher said this to me
" Hallo v gayn see hoyta? " sorry if its not spelled right. thanks (link)
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Ha, I took german for a little while.
I think what you mean is "Hallo wie gehn sie heute?" which basically means, "Hi, how are you today?"
So, if you want to reply, just be like "Gut" for "good" or wunderbar for "wonderful".
I hope I helped.
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I'm really into drawing, so I was wondering if anybody knew any celebrity websites that have drawings of them?? please and thanks (link)
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Here's some sites I found:
http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Museum/2593/gallery1.html
http://www.dueysdrawings.com/celebritydrawings.html
http://www.geocities.com/art15uk/
http://drawings.dolphinitybv.com/
I hope I helped.
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does anybody have any cute pictures of fabric that I can look at.... I don't really know why I'm interested in this, but I LOVE to look at different types of fabric styles and such... THANKSSS!!! (link)
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Here's some stuff I found:
http://www.joann.com/catalog.jhtml?CATID=54497
http://www.gregaanesfurniture.com/fabrics.jpg
http://www.tribilliards.com/images/bar_stools/fabrics/G2_01.jpg
http://www.quiltsandsuch.com/images/fabrics/fabrics_vine.jpg
http://www.jmsewingservice.btinternet.co.uk/images/fabric_2.jpg
I hope I helped.
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I was talking to my best friend on the phone yesterday. (She's a girl, im a guy.) And she said she liked me. I like her too, and I told her that. It should be easy to figure what to do next but it's not. We want to be more then friends but were afraid of ruining our friendship if something happens. Also, she is afraid it would be too weird but I don't think it would. So I guess Im asking, should I ask her out? Or should we just stay friends even though we want to be more, just so it won't be weird? (link)
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I think you should at least give it a shot, so you at least know what would happen. I mean, what if you two never went out and it could have been completely normal and great? If you both find it weird to be dating in the beginning, you can always just remain friends, and there wouldn't be too much emotional attachment cause you wouldn't have been dating for like, a year or anything. If you two were to break up, it might be a little strange at first just remaining friends, but after awhile it gets normal again and like it never happened. [ I know from experience ]. I hope I helped.
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ok well you know for the abercrombie kids some of the shirts say Est. 1892 ? well does that mean that they had abercrombie in 1892? lol please help, i'm really confused! (link)
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I just found this on a site, "The brand was established in 1892 and became known as a supplier of rugged, outdoor gear. It was acquired by The Limited Inc. in 1988 and in 1992 was repositioned as a more fashion-oriented casual apparel business..."
So it was founded in 1892, but wasn't a clothing store at first, it was just an outdoor shop. [ which may be where that moose thing comes from, i have no clue ]. I hope I helped.
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16/f.ok so i just moved to a new school and the very first day i met this really nice girl. shes so sweet, and i sit with her at lunch. ive even gone over to her house and hung out with her. shes not really the type of person i usually hang out with, but shes so sweet. but over the weeknd i met these group of girls that go to my school and tehre more my type. they invited me to sit with them at lunch and they want to hang out with me more, but i dont know what to do. these girls dont liket he girl i met the first day and they dont really associate with her. who should i sit with and how do i break the news to the other one? thanks.
p.s-sitting with all of us together would NOT be an option. thanks. (link)
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Well, what I would do is just divide the days up per group. Like, since there's 5 days of school, you sit with the group of girls Monday, Wednsday and Friday and sit with the other girl Tuesday and Thursday, or the other way around, whichever. What I think would be alot easier on you is to just split the lunch period half and half. Spend half of it with her, the rest with the group of girls. You shouldn't have to ditch one for the other, you should be able to hang with whoever you want. You'll just have to learn to balance your lunch period. I hope I helped.
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