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what are some good idie/rock/emo
songs or bands.
i need a new myspace song but ive had like every single song!
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umm... there is:
incubus (drive is my fave song!)
afi (Miss Murder is a good song!)
hope i helped!
-Bess
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My best friend lives in Jersey and I live in Florida. Ive been crushing on him for a few years now and im not sure if I should tell him. He has a g/f and its like every time i get ready to tell him something like that comes up..should I just wait until he is single or until im ready or just go ahead and break the ice.... (but thing is I dont know if he likes more than a friend)
My age: 15 Female
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i hate to be the bearer of bad news but i would say back off... he is already in a relationship and you never know he might be serious with this girl. just wait... time will tell! good luck!
-Bess
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Ok..soo i met this guy at a baseball game and he got my number from one of my guys friends. So he called me that night..and now we talk on the phone every night. And i mean we're starting to like eachother but the problem is..he lives like an hr n 30 min away. We really want to hang out..cuz we've only met once. But the problem is..it wont be awhile till come up there again..like the end of the summer. WHat should i do? (link)
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well i suggest continue talking to him on the phone... and if you really want a relationship to work jsut keep intouch with him as long as possible.. it maybe hard that he is so far away but as long as you attempt to stay intouch you'll be fine! good luck!
-Bess
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What does an IOU have written on it.
its my boyfriends bday, and he was recently injured so im trying to do a cute IOU for us to go to a college football game or a local teams baseball game, when hes able to walk again.
what could i put on it?
im gunna have one shaped like a football, then another shaped like a baseball. But i dunno what to put on it.
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you could write something cute like "This is a sexy IOU especially for you!" i don't know something cute like that. good luck!
-Bess
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i have the money and all, but i am just wondering if the pink razor phone is worth it all ..what are some cons and pros about it? (link)
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my friend has one, and she absolutely loves it... she can take pictures, and she has some neat ringtones on it too! But as some of the other advicenators said, some people get it cause its a cute phone!
-Bess
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13/f
i want to lose extra fat from my lower stomach and upper thighs because the rest of my body is pretty toned except for those areas and it drives me crazyyy. lol so i figures i could on my tredmill about 3-5 days a week and ate a little healthier it would help (along with daily activity). k so 3 questions. 1 do you think that would work..2 about how long should i run on the tredmill..and 3 what type of foods should i eat(specifically)
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1. I definitely think you should try the trendnill and some crunches to help tone the upper body.
2. Try at your own [pace if you think you could run a mile the first time then by all means..
3. Create adiet that helps you.. be sure to eat a lot of healthy fruits and vegetables.
good luck!
-Bess
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ok im 13f i used to be really emo i wouldnt whair (sp) black all the time but i cut and like evryone could tell and would joke makefun of me 4 it and than afta school i started being normal but now im always in a bad mood and i cry for no reason and i just hate it what will help me not feel so depresed ps im still emo (link)
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everyone has their depressing moments, but if its constant there is a need to worry! I would talk to your mom or dad or whoever you feel comfortable with and tell them you need to get help. maybe it would make you feel better if you could talk to someone. good luck!
-Bess
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I like this boy he always stares and smiles at me. I was in flag football and i was on his team and then this girl joined after me and later at lunch he walked up to me and said im training you for football alone then the girl said what about me and he said no way!! I have heard lots of rumors that he likes me and im starting to not like him but i still don't know if he likes me. i'm so confused does he seem to like me??? (link)
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he likes you definitely if he stares and smiles at you thats all you need. and he even wants to train you in football. i'd give him a chance if i was you. good luck!
-Bess
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My parents and I really don't get along because my dad sets double standards between my sister and I.
Well he makes himself impossible to live with. He always says stuff like "I'll smack you in the face if you dont do this.." and the sad part is I'm 18 years old. Yeah I should just move out, but I don't have the financial means to.
It's driving me crazy. I can't seem to do anything right, and he always is quick to point out things I do poorly in rather then see the things I sucueed in.
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i know this sounds cliche, but i would sit them down and tell them how you feel or i would bring this up with another family member (an adult, of course!) and have him/her talk to your parents. or confide in that person if you need them for help. good luck!
-Bess
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Ok there's a guy I like and it's summer already meaning schools out. We both go to the same school.
So we both like each other. There's one problem: When he's online and his best friend jamie(a girl) is on, he doesn't IM me or anything.
Then when she isn't on, he IM's me as SOON as I get online.
Why do you think he doesnt IM me when his best friend is on?
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have you ever thought that maybe... he likes you soooo much that he talks to Jamie about you to get ideas on how he can ask you out. you never know he might be confiding in Jamie on ways to ask you out. hope i helped!
-Bess
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here is the deal i'm 17 the guy i'm seeing is 20. i didn't want him to meet my parents yet bC me and him are nothing but friends right now. and i wanted to wait to see where it was going before my parents meet him. well today me and my best friend and her boyfriend and Scott(the guy). where droping me off. my mom said something about wanting to meet them.
dad goes out there and acts really mean, he comes back in and says that i'm not allowed around him anymore. i don't wanna stop seeing scott. cuz we have hit it off so well. no i don' tknow what i need to do. cuz my parents are going to trip really bad now when i'm with Kristina. (link)
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well i would explain to your parents that you guys are just friends tell them. and if you want to prove to him how much of a nice guy Scott is, say to your parents invite him over for dinner or something and they can see themselves how nice and gentlemen like Scott is. good luck!
-Bess
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I used to be good friends with Nick and Eric, but then Nick got into drugs and smoking, Eric started drinking, and they both began having sex with girls. Eric is only 13, and Nick is 12. ( I`m 13) I stopped hanging out with them because they're only around girls to get in their pants, and their so bad. Well, my best friend doesn't realize thats what theyre doing. They even tell her they only like her cause she's got a massive butt but she doesn`t listen. I don't want her to turn out like them, HELP! (link)
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i would suggest hanging out with your friend as much as possible and kicking Nick and Eric out of your "Circle of Friends" make it known that you don't like what they are doing and make it known that what they are doing is wrong. good luck!
-Bess
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14/f
well, theres this girl and shes suposeed to be my "bestfriend." but shes everything but that. she lies to me all the time, she strives to be the center of attention, she tries to get in the way of me and my boyfriend. Also she embaresses me infront of all my friends/boyfriend and always leaves me out of plans. But shes always like omg i love you!! bestfriendsforever! but its all bs. but if i try to confront her with it, she turned all my friends againest me for two weeks! i dont know what to do anymore. i dont have any other friends besides that group of friends, and i cant take it. please help me! (link)
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first off, you call her a friend that surprises because that is NOT the way a friend is suppose to treat you. i'm surprised you still give her the title of friend, because to me it looks as if she doesn't even deserve that title. you should sit her down and tell how you feel, tell her how much your hurting and tell her it not right for her to get everyone to turn against you. and as for everyone else they are basically what we call "followers" they are people who don't have their ideass so they decide to find a perosn who they feel is "cool". basically tell your friend to cut the crap and stop causing drama and making a scene and making it all about ehr. hope i helped!
-Bess
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My hair tends to get very frizzy and puffy after being wet, I was wondering if there's any shampoo's, conditioners, or styling product that will prevent this. (link)
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try garnier fructis! my sister and she says it works for her. good luck!
-Bess
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I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16. (link)
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the best advice anyone can really give you is "BE YOURSELF". if she doesn't like you for you then she isn't worth your time. just be calm and cool about it, be like "hey we should hang out sometime, what about this weekend?" oh and be sure to compliment her like saying " you look pretty" etc., good luck!
-Bess
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This is gonna sound disgusting but during the past week my feet have been smelling really badly. They never used to be like that, its just happened recently.
What can i do to stop them smelling?
If it helps, im 13/f
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you should try going to the store and get dr. scholl's foot line powders, i know my cousin had really badly smelling feet and when he got the powder it did wonderss. also it might be because you are constantly wearing sneakers and socks, which can cause sooooo much sweat and smell too. if you do wear sneakers i would say get the powder for them. and wash your feet if you want. hope i helped.
-Bess
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how do i make new freinds over the summer?
PLEASE
i rate 5s
if you just try
even if you dont know
i need new freinds bad
my freinds talk shit and nvm
just PLEASE
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i'd say go to a camp for the summer or find a job at a place and start making new friends. suggest hanging out to the people either at the camp or the job. good luck!
-Bess
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14/f
Well my best friend went out with my ex-boyfriend 2 days after i broke up with him, even though i wish i hadent. I only broke up with him because he lived to far away.. But it just bugs me that she did that, and i dont know what to do. I told her that i didnt care because i dont want to let some guy (no offence) get between me and her- but it is! Any help would be great, and i do rate.
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first off let me say that shouldn't be your friend she should be more sensitive to the fact that you like him still and that you just broke up with him becaus eof long distance. i would talk to her about that because i'm sorry... but that is not an example of a friend that is an example of a backstabber. tell her how you feel hun. tell her how you feel about him and how you feel about her going after you broke up with ex 2 days before they got together. good luck!
-Bess
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my friend pushed things with me and this guy and we started going out to soon. we both liked each other but not enoght to be together. well we broke up cause we didnt think we were ready for that type of relationship. well now things are weird between us and i hate it. i still like him and he still likes me but when ever we talk it is akward. i dont know what to do about it. so advice me up! (link)
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i'm kinda of in the same situation, my ex and i are now trying to become friends for now. i still like him... what i would suggest is plan a fun day with your friends and invite him to something thats fun like going to the movies and just hang out with him and treat him as you would with your other friends. i think its best if you start off with friends for now and over a period of time it won't seem awkward anymore trust me. it might remain awkward for now but thats why you need to give it time. it takes time to make things not awkward. i wish you luck and the best.
-Bess
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so i party alot and so does my boyfriend and recently i walked off with my friends boyfriend and my boyfriend freaked out like saying he wasnted to kill her boyfreind so i broke up with my boyfriend ))who i really liked(( in front of everybody like cusing at him and the works and so i left ((this was a 3 am ) and he called a million times that night and the next day and he still thinks we going out but i clearly stated ITS OVER but i dont thin he gets that> how should i tell him i want to be friends nothing more and also its hard because we are going to six flags on saturday with his family ugh what should i do? (link)
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i think it would be best to sit down and talk to him and explain. and if that doesn't work i think it would be in your best interest to cut all contact from him and his family. talk to him first and see what he has to say. good luck!
-Bess
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