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ok well i wore my ring to sleep last night i usually don't but i kinda forgot to take it off and today just a few min ago my thumb here the ring is on my finger is like a greenish black. Why? Is this good or bad? What shoud i do?

cheap ring. it will come off soon, if you don't want that to happen again don't get it wet or sleep on it. (or you can even just get a new ring that is sterling silver that won't leave anything on you) = )

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Hey.. what does it mean in the song your so last summer by taking back sunday when they say: 'boys like you are dime a dozen' i was curious.. thanks

tons of worthless boys out there.

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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do?

i'm really sorry about all of this. i can't even imagine what you're going through. i can see why you wouldn't want to go to your friends, maybe you can get some professional help? (guidance couselor, school adult, psychologist or just anyone who is willing to talk to you and make you feel better.) in the mean time, just try to do some things to keep your mind off it. things will get better.

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my [unofficial] boyfriend and i have been together for nearly two years. his 16th birthday is in a few days and it means we will finally be able to actually date. for his birthday i bought him a two keychain set. there is a key and separated is a heart with a place for the key that says "he who holds the key can open my heart." also i bought him a really sweet card. so i have two questions.
1.is this enough? should i give him a single rose or something else?
2.how should i give it to him? i was thinking i should put the key in with the card and put the heart in a bag and give it to him after he reads the card and gets the key.
opinions would be nice. boys and girls.

well, gifts really shouldn't matter in a relationship. if you feel like this is enough, then it is. if you don't maybe you could take him to a nice dinner or something? the keychain thing idea is so cute though! i think when you give it to him you should be holding the heart though, not in a bag. then when he opens the card and sees the key, show him you've got the heart. i hope i helped you out some.

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i've had the sameeee s/n for a really long time with my name in it & i'm looking for some more ideas. i can't come up with anything that i'll use for awhile.

-i'm tall/long legs
-brunette(but i already had a brunette s/n)
-i like fashion u kno, AE, af, hollister, ripped jeans, pearls, big sunglasses, purses
-i play basketball
-i like having fun
-i love my bf, family, & friends
-im in hs

idk stuff like that

thanks!!

tallbrunettebabe
AEcutie03
hollisterxO
ripmyjeansxO
bballhottie67
AFisforlovers
fashionista xO
funinthesun
iheartfashion
dressmeupnpearls
iheartpearlsx3
brunettebmbshell
pursesareLOVE

hope you like these. = )

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13/f
I didnt know what this went under but any ways i have like stretch marks on the sides of my boobs and there not that visible but is this normal? and if so will they go away? and if not is there anything i can do to get rid of them? thanks so much ill rate 5's for any good advice

normal.

they won't go away unless you get this really expensive laser surgery thing. shea cocoa butter will help. you can get it at target or walgreens. here's a picture of a good brand.

http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?id=prod1514874&CATID=303550&skuid=sku1514863&V=G&ec=frgl_629060

it's really cheap too. = )

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I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP!

hang out with friends that don't and who will encourage you not to when you want to start. that way, you're not the only one NOT doing it.

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ok about a month ago i started talking to this guy from myspace that lives in the next town over. He is super sweet, everytime we talk he says, "hi beautiful" and i always get like butterflies in my stomach whenever i talk to him or think about him. Well last night a differnt guy from myspace started talking to me who lives in my town and after talking for a awhile he asked me out, which i said no to b/c we just started talking and caous ei like the other guy. the second guy is not as sweet but we have things in common. Now my question is whenever i talk to the first guy i get excited,buterflies in the stomach kinda feeling but i have a hard time talking to him, but with the second guy i didnt have that butterfli in the stomach feeling (well i did when he said, "u know what i like you")and i didnt have a hard time talking to him so why is this and which guy is it i should go for??

Thanks so much in advance!!

oh and im 16/f

the guy you talk with easily, and don't get butterflies in the stomach is just a friend. go for the guy who gives you butterflies. hard time talking is because there is connection, and maybe the two of you are nervous?

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hi..ok i like this kid and he is really cool and hes in my classes and we talk all the time and we flirt ALL the time too...but the only thing is that he has a girlfriend..now i dont know what to do, do i flirt back when he flirts with me, or stay away?

flirt back. who cares if he has a GF. maybe it's time for him to get over her and move onto you.

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ok there is a song that i want to know the name of and it goes like

"when i touch her she's like oooh when i rub her she's like oooh...." and so on and i LOVE that song but i duno tha name
can someone please tell me

twista feat. trey songz-"girl tonite" here's the lyrics.

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Girl-Tonite-featuring-Trey-Songz-lyrics-Twista/6CC597EBB9F3779848257092007EC695

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you give good advice. I added you as a fave collumnist.
--caden--

thanks so much! so do you, i'm deffenitely adding you too!

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what does the phrase "eat the phone" mean?

um, nothing?

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ok so there is this guy we like eachother and i told him i liked him like one month and a week ago in a note but he didnt write back so now alot of guys are flirting with me and i think he may think i like one of them since he doesnt have good self esteem but he asked this girl a grade younger out and he knows she absolutley is obssesed with him and will say yes but its hard for him to ask girls out so i dont think he likes her but i dunno wat to do cuz the other day i told him i didnt like him i dunno if he heard but lately hes been standing next to me staring at me more than usual and trying to start conversations wat should i do??

well, once he saw you with the other guys, he probably figured he had no chance,so he just gave up and went for the younger chick. now that you told him you dont like him though, hes going to try EXTRA hard to get your attention and get you to like him. if you truly dont like him, be friendly not flirty, tell him you want to be friends. you can still have convos with him even though your not BF and GF. but if you still like him, tell him how you feel, flirt, GO OUT WITH HIM. he seems like hes trying hard to get you, which means you mean a lot to him.

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okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it?

shower the night before you straighten. it helps.

get a better straightener. (hot tools ceramic or CHI)

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Im asking for Dance Dance Revolution for PS2 for christmas. There are a few different versions such as extreme and Max and Kareoke. I know I dont want Kareoke, but Idk about extreme and max. What is the difference between them? Which is better?

Any help Would be great! Thanks in advance!

extreme is much better. here is info on it.

http://www.buynshop.com/productinfo/44/VG-DDR-ULTDX/

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ok ....so ill be like rubbing myself down there and ill get really really wet and then ill have to stop because its like i cant explain but it feels good but weird and then when i try to rub myself again i cant because it hurts i would have to wait for like 2 mins...is this an orgasam??if not then is it normal and what is it?

normal. = )

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does anyone kno a good web site with some bible verses or a place where i can search bible verses and dont tell me google cause i already looked and didn't do any help

http://www.bibleontheweb.com/

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My brother's birthday is coming up next week he is turning 24 and i have no clue what to get him. He doesnt play video games and he doesn't like band tee-shirts. It can cost no higher then $30. If anyone has any helpful suggestions it would be very helpful.

gift card to favorite store.
watch.
pajamas.
wallet.
favorite game.
CD.
favorite movie.

or if you're into the whole gag gift, here is a good website.

http://www.wonderfullywacky.com/men.htm

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i'm a really dark brunette.
and i've been considering going blonde

yes or no?

and if i did get it done,
they'd be able to dye my eyebrows too right?

oh and is it true that if you have dark hair
you're eyebrows shld be atleast one shade lighter than you're hair color?

thanks, i rate.

♥

go for it!! yes they can bleach your eyebrows to lighten them.

for dark hair, yes it should be a shade lighter.

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Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen

it's called "nobody puts baby in the corner"

here are the lyrics.

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Nobody-Puts-Baby-In-The-Corner-lyrics-Fall-Out-Boy/3AA49B8098A446D548256E64000AAA7D

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