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I was doing Capoeira (brazilian karate) and I hurt my leg and it's getting worse. What should I do?
Get to the doctor as soon as possible.. it may be an option you dont want to take but you might have a serious condition and it could get brutal if you dont stop it before it really gets bad. ... hope i helped
XoXo
about 5 years ago my grandmother died from lung cancer. before i was born my grandfother also dies from lung cancer. about 6 years ago my other gradfather died from pancreas cancer. Now when i see my father smoking and my friend chris smoking and drinking it worries me that they will leave me soon. I constanly cry when chris talks about getting blazed and my father smokes because i dont want the same thing to happen to them. then i just stand on the side lines and feel like i cant do anything about it. is there anything i can do to help them or not make it so hurtful for me to be around them?
UNDERSTAND that they are addicted. Ask your dad and your friend chris if they would stop if you could help them. You can research ways to end their addiction and help them along, offer your help. Also tell them that you are so terrified of loosing them and you wouldnt know what to do without them. Explain clearly to them how you feel and beg and plead them to stop. If they tell you that you wont, let them see you shed some tears, and dont give up. Keep bringing up the topic until they stop, its a serious situation and you need to be involved so that you can save their lives... name all the people who you know who died of smoking and tell them you cant take it 1 more time ....
GOOD LUCK HUN!
XOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOX
srry, this is a weird question but its bugging me.... it takes my hair 3 hours to air dry, and like 20 mins to blow dry... is this normal? cuz its realli annoying.. thanx
Yeah its normal. Tons of air being blown directly next to your head will take a lot shorter time then mild air thats not blowing against your hair to make it dry. Think of it this way, if you plug the sink in so the water wont go down the drain, and let small drips come out it will take FOREVER to fill up, if you put it on full power, it will be like overflowing within 30 seconds. understand? hehe >> good luck XoxO
Ok...I bleached my hair blonde and it looks really good but my aunt is a cosmotigist or however u spell it and she said it would look better if i got dark highlights put in it...what color highlights do u think i should put in it to make it look better?A chose between red,brown,or black.Thanx!
get some red highlights to make it like a strawberry blondish-- it'll look cute nd yet very original.. good luck and hope i helped..
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muah
how come when i ask a question itll take like an hour or two to actually show up and get answered?
cause lifes tough... lol and advicenator monitors are BUSY too lol...
ok heres a random poll: which kind of clothes r u most into?
•abercrombie/hollister
•hot topic
•pacsun
•vessie b type stuff
•atletic type stuff...soffees,t shirt,n tennis shoes
PACSUN ALL THE WAY!! Go for the surfer look its fun, and fresh ... :-D
XoxO BEST WISHES!!!!
hey.im tryin to look for a quick job something easy.im 16f.can anyone give me a few suggetions?that would be really helpful thanx
Try a local coffee house, like starbucks or something. It would be a lot of fun and not really messy work to make the coffee, plus its not too hard a job. OR-- you can apply to several restaurants you like and you can be hired as a bus boy... try cute stores in the mall, anything that you would have some fun doing... i wish you best of luck
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MUAH
Where to begin? I was seeing this girl off and on for 9 months. She was "using" this 55 yr old arab guy for rides and stuff. I didnt condone of the usery but I didnt feel like it was my place to tell her how to live. After about 5 month into the relationship I moved to miami( we are in VA). She came to visit for a week and it was like a honeymoon without the marrige. Everything was great. When she came back she told me she was pregnant. I sent money up there to her and had my friend drive her to the clinic. I sent her flowers everyday for a week afterwards. So I came back home and while we were spending time toghether through much over hearing the wrong conversations I suspected there was more to her and his relationship. I was right. In short the kid wasnt mine and I was being played the whole time. the break up was awful and I am emot. wrecked. I took her back only to find out she didnt give him up. Now my head is spinning and my heart in shattered. Any advice?
Shes not faithful at all and therefore has no respect over you. My advice is that you send her a long letter, explaining how she has hurt you mentally, and explain every last detail of how you feel. Afterwards, try getting her out of your head. As terrible as it is, you dont need her anymore, shes so mean to you! She broke your heart. And maybe you never will forget her all the way, but you need to slowly but surely ease your mind out of the thought of her.
good luck
Hope i helped
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when do u kno a guy is being too perverted
when he starts doing things you feel your not ready for and hes obsessing over gross things like porn... stuff like that
ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice!
its not bad, its probably whats on your mind all the time. No you shouldnt have tried it!! Every year the smoking industry causes more and more death. Its an addiction that you will never get rid of so think it over... i dont think its a very good idea nd you will regret it.
hey..ok me and my friends wanna spend the rest of the summer having soooo much fun. we havent been doing much..cuz we cant think of anything..anyone have any ideas??
ok here you go sweets
-SLEEPOVERS!-
-HOME MADE LUAUS ((GO TO A POOL, YOURS OR HERS OR COMMUNITY, AND MAKE SOME PINA COLADAS ...YOU CAN BUY THE MIX FROM THE STORES, AND GET FLOATS THAT YOU GUYS CAN TAN ON AND SOME SUNGLASSES TO SHADE YOU FROM THE SON)
-TRY CHECKING OUT SOME TEEN CLUBS-
-GO TO A WATER PARK-
-GIVE EACHOTHER MAKEOVERS-
-MAKE A SCRAPBOOK TOGETHER-
-TRY COOKING TREATS FROM A COOKBOOK-
-BUY A JOURNAL TO RECORD EVERYTHING YOU DID TOGETHER OVER THE SUMMER, INCLUDE TIME OF DAY, DATE,MONTH
-HAVE WHIP CREAM FIGHTS-
-GO TO THE BEACH-
-LISTEN TO LOTS OF MUSIC-
-RIDE YOUR BIKES IN A PARK-
-MAKE WATER BALLOONS AND HAVE A FIGHT-
-MAKE A BIG END OF THE SUMMER BASH AND INVITE ALL YOUR FRIENDS-
-GO SHOPPING-
YOU ARE LIMITLESS!! HAVE FUN AND GOOD LUCK
RATE ME PLEASE!
XOXOXOX
I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.
Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...
I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.
What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught"
Ok girl you need to set a few boundaries. Really, when it comes right down, do you want to be dating someone who smokes pot? If you do want to go out with him just because you love his personality, you may want to ask him FOR YOU and YOUR RELATIONSHIP to try quitting. Tell him its only b/c you love him and you dont want to have to see him go. If he quits, it will be 1000 times easier to let the word out that you guys are going out. Another thing, if people know, then you can go out during the day and you dont have to be wandering the streets at late hours, which is kinda dangerous not to mention. If you dont want to ask him to quit, id keep things on the down low, b/c everything could head for mass destruction, but i dont recommend that half as much as my first piece of advice.
Good luck!
XoXO
my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this?
Well if hes a kity, hes probably teething. GET HIM LOTS AND LOTS OF TOYS THAT HE CAN CHEW, BITE, AND SCRATCH UP. You can obviously get these at a local pet store, or even supermarkets have them sometimes near cat foods. Everytime he does bite your or something he shouldnt be biting, pick him up and scold him, then blow into his eyes, cats hate it, it wont harm them, just show them who's boss. For the days where he goes without biting anything he shouldnt, feed him little treats at the end of the day. He will eventually figure out whos the boss and whats acceptable... hope i helped :-D
i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?
11? i wouldnt say thats normal or healthy. But it doesnt make you a bad person. My advice is for future boyfriends, hold off. So much sex is unhealthy... I really think you should take a big break and focus on different things in life, if possible. But good luck, I really hope for the best of u!
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blu eyes
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Last year my going to be step mom was by polo and comitted cucide......and she has a daughter that left now all of her little friends come over and ask me how shes doing what should i do?...
Tell them exactly how shes doing. You can tell the truth just say shes well, and if she is really depressed or something dont say anything drastic just say shes a little sad or something and shes gone away but you'll tell them when shes back in town. This way all her friends arent always over and you dont break their little hearts... sooo sorry for the loss... best wishes...
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blue eyed babi
A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
Simply say thank you and take it as a compliment-- if you feel uncomfortable change the topic and compliment your friends about their good qualities..
hope i helped...
:-D
im a 15 year old girl...i've been friends with this guy for almost a year, and me and my friends hang out with him and his friends a lot, so we're kinda like a little group. earlier this year we went out, but nothing happened (we didnt even kiss and it was hard cuz we went to different schools). while we were going out i heard shit all the time about how he liked another girl or w/e and i tried to ignore it all. well..after about a month we broke up cuz we agreed it wasnt really a relationship. ive liked him ever since we broke up and hes had 1 g/f since me, but they jsut recently broke up. i think he knows i like him and i really want to tal to him about how i feel, i just dont know how to do it or if we should just go on being friends and nothing more. im scared if we go out again things will be the same as they were(even tho we'll be going to the same school this year)
You're going to the same school? JUMP FOR JOY HUN. This is your big chance... the relationship will be soOOOo much better if you see him every single week day. I would say gooo for it. Why go on being friends when the whole reason you broke up is totally changed.. go for it girl! Tell him how you feel, be honest, and dont anticipate! good luck--blue eyes
well im going with this guy i like my friend n a few of his friends to a concert...wen i told him i could finally go, he seemed rlly excited...well idk wat i should do like with him its kinda like an adult concert but uk ppl like 13 14 will be there...thats my age...well wat could we do there besided listen to music...im not realli the first move kinda person so i wouldnt say makeout or ne thing lol ne way thanx xoxo
Hmm.. try getting out of that not first move stage. Flirt alot.. he IS your boyfriend... laugh joke, basically let your emotions loose. Talk to him.. you know? If you feel everythings clicking just be like.. what would you feel about making out? Or something straight up you know? If our the spur of the moment type just lean in and go to kiss him and see where it goes from there.. it couldnt hurt you terribly.. am I right???...
OK I really need help. I am trying to find great deals on jeans, but i want them to be a little lose and not so tight. Where is a good place to find jeans like that?!?
~*Jersey gal*~
Id say definetly go to Forever 21, or it has another name in some states, its called XXI. You should be able to find nice Jeans there that fit well on you but not too tight. If no good.. try Old Navy.. when they have sales their jeans can be soo cheap. And marshalls too.. marshalls has name brands for SOOOO much less ... and with plenty of name brands to choose from you should definetly find a good fit... hope i helped.. hehe..-blu
I am like the only girl in my grade who doesnt ave a boyfriend. All of my friends say im wicked pretty, but i dont believe them, cause wouldnt i have a bf by now if i was. Does anyone have any tips on getting the guy u like 2 go out wit u?
Take advice from a pro. Having a boifriend doesnt make you pretty or ugly.. its a matter of your personality. So forget about your physical features and think more of what you're like on the inside. Its the only thing that ever counts... tips on getting the guy you want? Become really close friends first, talk on the phone, online, and eventually you can and should tell him your feelings. Hope ive helped ya out.. :-D -blu