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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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im 14 and ive never really been secure with myself. i feel like i never look good and that im overweight. theres this guy in my school that i really like but somehow i dont think that he would ever date me because of the way i look and we dont really talk because im too scared he'll think "what the hell is she doing". how can i lose weight and then like.. get courage to talk to him?

thanks

Loosing weight is very hard but trust me you feel so much more confident about yourself when you even loose a few pounds. The trick to loosing weight is so stop eating junk food and excersize daily. Pills, drinks, and all those other diet programs are just expensive and sometimes don`t work. I am on a diet now and have been sucessful in the past 3 months. What I did was start up an excersize plan. Walking about 30-60 minutes a day even more, it makes your body feel better and yourself. For food wise, stay away from any fast food resturants, and junk food. I know food crazings are hard to overcome but when you do get some try eating healthier food like cucumbers, salads, apples, bananas, and other stuff or Drink LOTS of water cause it will fill your stomach up & It helps keep your body hydrated and cleans it out. As for another drink you can drink is DIET green tea believe it or not it really cleans out your body and intestines ;). If you seem to be having difficulty staying on the diet, you can go the doctor. I know they can help you. As for trying to build your confidence, you can try wearing makeup, get a new haircut, buy a new outfit. As for talking to the guy you like, if you still don`t feel comfortable enough then wait. A quote I like too use "if a guy doesn`t like you at your worst then he doesn`t deserve you at your best." If he doesn`t like you then move on and wait for a guy to come to you. :) If you need some more advice just leave a message in my inbox! Good luck. ♥

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Love is a really big serious word.
It's not like you date a guy for a day and you automatically love him. I've been dating this guy for 5 months .. And I can't decide If I love him because I like him a lot ! A lot, I just dont know beacuse we're pretty young only 14 and It seems weird to use love like that. I think I love him, just when I say that.. it sounds too powerful

You can fall in love at any age and time. Loving someone means you have very strong feelings for them. There is no way to describe what love is & if you really love someone. You just know if you do. Maybe you do love him, but you don`t think you`re ready to get into a serious relationship. I`ve seen people that young fall in love and last for a very long time. If you don`t think you are in love with him then tell him you don`t know if you want to say i love you just yet. Hope this helps. ♥

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how do you make words bold and italics underlined, &+ your words centered on myspace ?!

The bold code is whatever you want here
The italic code is whatever you want to put here
The Underline line code is whatever you want to put here

To center words is the words you want centered

hope this helps. ♥

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i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him?

Don`t listen to what other people say about him. If you really like him then go out with him. They can accept it or get over it. (: ♥

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how do you make hearts on your column?

& hearts ;
w/o the spaces (:

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i like this boy. and i'm pretty sure that he likes me too. My friends think i should ask him out. But i've never asked out a guy before. And i dont want to ruin our friendship we have now. So should i ask him out? and how?! please help

thankss!

Don`t ask him out until you are positive he has the same feelings too. Try being really good friends and when you feel you`re ready then do it or maybe he will. Don`t ask him out right on the spot just start telling him how you feel and what your feel your relationship is now and that you would like to more than friends. :) ♥

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can you have sex durring your period?

You can but it`s messy. And that`s why ppl don`t do it. ♥

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I think I know what they mean....

What does it mean "i got fingered"
and "I got a blow job"

Thnx

Getting fingered means you get fingered in the vagina and getting a blowjob is oral sex on a guy. Hope this helps. ♥

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when asking quesions on here no one is going to find out my name? right?

Nope. (: ♥

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i have some blackheads on my nose, no where else they arent to bad, but bad enough to annoy me lol but um what products are super good?? thanks a bunch

I used noxema triple clean blackhead cleanser, and it works really good for me. It`s probally about 5-6 bucks at walmart or probally CVS. Hope this helps. ♥

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ok.. i have this friend.. and she really likes this guy. i mean i think they would be perfect together but the only problem is.. he doesnt like her. he likes this really whoreish slut. she keeps coming to me to ask for advice, but i dont know what to tell her. what should i say?

If he seems like that guy, either your friend will listen to you now or learn the hard way. Tell her you how you honestly feel about it and if she doesn`t listen then make it clear to her she will learn the harder way and regret it. Hope this helps. ♥

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I'm sorry but i swear this will be the LAST question envolving sins! What about the catholics who likes watching scary movies that have gore and blood? Wouldnt that be envolving one of the sins?

Everyone commits tons and tons of sins a day. I don`t think watching those kinds of movies are a sin unless you actually want to go out and kill ppl, ect lol. But asking for your forgiveness of sins in a prayer, or maybe in your case, going to a confessional - all your sins will be forgiven. (: Hope this helps. ♥

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ok so like i have been feeling dizzy and i dint get my period ever this late me and my bf been going out a year and i drank his cum and now i feel dizzy and i dont feel good he didnt stick his thing inside of me but im still scared i never felt this dizzy and i still dint get my period is there a possiblity that somehoh i could be pregnant and his thing was next to mine but no condom...and now im afraid it went in so am i pregnant?

If his thing wasn`t inside of you then you aren`t pregnant. Sperms dies when it hits the air. Your period can come late if your stressed, there is weight gain or loss, or your diet. Hope this helps. ♥

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okay well this i've been talkin to the guy i like on the intenert and we go to the same school but the only problem is he doesn't know it is me he thinks i'm sumbody else and now he on the internet he said he really likes me and i told him thesame thing...hoew do i tell him it is really me

Sounds like A Cinderella Story (:. Eventually he has to find out right? But he likes you for your personality and that`s good. When you feel it`s right timing to tell him, then do. Have you lied about your name? or has it not been mentioned? When you do tell him, be honest, and tell him "I wanted to tell you who I am.." ect. Or maybe he will ask sooner. Good luck. Happy Holidays! ♥

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I don't understand this. Many people are beginning to say X-mas. Well, the whole point of Christmas is because it is the birth of Christ. Isn't calling Christmas X-mas taking the whole point of Christmas away?

X-mas is a shorter way of saying Christmas. I don`t understand why people say it. The holiday is about Christ and his birth. I think of it as since we aren`t really sure when he was born we throw him a birthday party on December 25th every year lol & it`s a tradition because of that. I personally usually say Merry CHRISTmas. But I do agree with you that saying x-mas does take the point of it being called Christmas away. Merry Christmas! (: ♥

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what's the name of the song in ' a walk to remember'

it's in other movies, but i just noticed in AWTW

it's like.. 'dare you to loooove'
or 'dare you to moooooove'

something like that, haha i know that doesn't help much, but its a guy singing, and it's not a really new song.
please help.
i know i didn't give ou much :D

thanks in advance!

Dare you to move By: Switchfoot. (: ♥

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ok...

14/m

i have my first gf ever, we've been "together" for about a couple weeks now...we went to go see a movie today, and i sat next to her and everything, but i was too stupid to do anything...i.e., i didn't put my arm around her or anything...i know from her friends that she really likes me and i just am too nervous to make a move i think...i dunno tho...any advice?

thnks,
Sam

You might just not be that comfortable yet to do that and it`s normal. Just try to hang out with her more and get to know her, and takes things slowly for now till your ready. When the moment is right, make the move. ;] Good luck. ♥

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Yeah okay so.
There's this girl and she was like my best friend for awhile. We were on our school's basketball team together and stuff and then, recently, we got in a fight.
I liked a guy for five years, but stopped liking him for awhile and she thought she liked him first.. well now he likes me and i still like him because i guess i never got over him. She's pissed. and then i thought we weren't fighting anymore and like she started yelling at me for a totally different reason. She thinks I have changed and stuff and like idk. Sorry if this is confusing..
Anyways. We are on super bad terms right now. And like, I guess i dont really want to be her friend but I don't want enemies.. i dunno how to get through to her and just tell her that i dont want to hate eachother anymore.
help?

Talking about it will help. Try apologizing first, then tell her how you feel about things and then tell her you want her to understand why you guys are in the situation and wish you could just put it behind. And take it from there. Hope things work out. ♥

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Hey everyone. Well, I started my period about 5 days ago and have a few questions. #1: How long does a period last?? #2: How long should you wait to start wearing tampons? and then i have a concern. i wear pads of course, but blood has gotten into EVERY pair of underwear i wear. what can i do about this? i can't go out buy a whole supply of underwear every week. HELP!!!!! thanks!

Periods can last from 5-7 days or more. You should wait until your comfortable enough to wear tampons. As so for leaking, I suggest you buy "night time long pads" or w/e they`re called, they`re thin and very long so there is no change of really leaking. If you still leak just put stain stick on your underwear and wash them when you can. Hope this helps. ♥

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is it okay to like.. touch yourself and have a sex toy or something at age 13?? my 13 year old younger sister does it.. and has been since she was like 6 or 7 with like a teddy bear. ew. and she got her period at age 10! a year younger than i got mine. ew. is this er.. normal? or should i ask a doctor or something.

Yes it`s normal. ♥

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