I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
Gender: Female
Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
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Ive had sex before plenty of times but their are certain things I don't understand about a male.
1. How come they cum so fast sometimes and How come they can only cum once every 15min or so and once they do they have to pull out right away?
2. Why does it take my bf so long to put a condom on and when he does he makes weird faces almost like it hurts or something.
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1. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said the younger that a guy is, the quicker he usually cums. As guys get older, they generally worry more about if the girl has had an orgasm. && Most guys have to pull out right away for two reasons. 1 is that the penis is usually very sensitive after they have an orgasm and 2 is because guys usually lose their erections quickly.
2-He is probably using condoms that are too small for him.
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
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I didn't even think about having sex until I was about 16 and I was 17 when I finally did lose my virginity. It's appalling to know that there are so many girls out there who have babies and they are sooo much younger than me. I don't know what this world is coming to, but it's a scary thought. There's a girl in my class who is only 17 and has 5 kids. You are definitely more mature for NOT having sex. It's shows that you have morals, class, and you are intelligent enough to realize that sex should NEVER be taken lightly.
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ive been seeing my boyfriend now for about three months and the other night we had sex for the first time. the thing is he made me bleed. im not a virgin and it hasnt been that long since the last time i had sex. what do you think is wrong?
is it normal to randomy bleed? its not a lot but ive been bleeding for two days now, what should i do? (link)
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Okay. I have had this problem with my current boyfriend. Is he well-endowed? I'm a very petite woman and my boyfriend..well let's just say he isn't. && sometimes when we have sex, I will bleed just a little bit. If it continues to be a problem, try using lubricated condoms and KY jelly.
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ok does it feel different having sex with condoms like can you still have an orgasm with a condom and does it still feel pleasureable when your having sexwith condoms (link)
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You can tell a difference, but you can still orgasm with a condom. It's still pleasurable...you just can't feel as much with one.
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My bf and I (15 f) are thinking about having sex. He's fingered me and stuff like that, but it's the farthest we've ever gone. I'm really nervous. I'm ready, I know I am. I'm a little self consious, I guess, but I know I'm not fat or anything. I'm 5'7'' and 122 lbs. I'm just nervous about him seeing my "parts." Whenever he's fingered me, he just sort of went down my pants, they never came off.
Is there anything I can do to calm my nerves? Has anyone ever had this problem? What worked for you?
Thanks in advance (link)
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I'm going to be completely honest with you. If you aren't comfortable with your boyfriend seeing you naked or seeing him naked, then you probably aren't ready to have sex yet.
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Ok, so heres the deal. I got the Depo shot on about the 21st of november. Then next day me and my boyfriend had sex. My last period was on halloween and today I had some brown spotting. And lately I've been having cramps and my womb seems like its cramping.. sometimes it hurts a little. Then about a week ago my boyfriend came in me for the first time ever.So i'm freaking out. It was about a week ago when he came in me and now I have brown spotting in my underwear. I also have backache and my boobs hurt.BUT I usually have tender breasts on days before my period and my period should come on the 24th. So I don't know if its the period, the depo, or even that I may be pregnant.Some one have input please.. (link)
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I'm also on the Depo shot and I have been for some time. I don't have my periods when I'm on it and most girls don't. I recommend just going and taking a pregnancy test.
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my friend told me that whem she lost her virginity she cried it hurt her so bad. and some people say the bigger/fatter the girl is the less it hurts. so im 14 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend and we might do it new years eve. but i wanna know how badly it hurts. he has fingered me before and it felt like he was pushing up aginst something. can u tell whet that thing is? it didn't hurt when he fingered me but will it hurt when he goes in? he is pretty big and im pretty small. i have felt him before and he's a lil too big for me i think. can anybody answer me? (link)
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The level of pain varies from girl to girl. I'm a fairly petite girl and my first time wasn't painful. It just depends on how gentle and careful the guy is with you. The more patient and gentle he is, the better it is on you. So don't rush it. Before you have sex, just make sure y'all have foreplay. Lubricated condoms and/or KY jelly would be also be good to help out some.
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im a small girl like physically....as in short
im 19 years old and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but the thing is we tried to before and his penis wouldnt go in. hes fingured me alot! but wen we tried to do it it wouldnt go in. and am also wondering if it would hurt when we do it because ive already been fingured.plz help (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend and I have this problem. You should always have foreplay. My boyfriend and I use lubricated condoms and KY jelly. Even with all that, sometimes at the beginning of sex, it still hurts me( even though we've been having sex for 4 months). So good luck and I hope all goes well.
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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not? (link)
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You shouldn't have sex just to have sex. Sex is supposed to be meaningful and loving. Trust me. I lost my virginity to a guy that I thought I loved. I figured I had waited a while and that I might as well just do it. It was a huge mistake. Most girls will regret having sex for the first time. Just make sure you are mentally ready for that kind of commitment and take care of yourself.
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So, for Christmas I had every intention of buying my boyfriend of five months an iPOD shuffle. [The new one, the one with the clip.] I pawned my alto saxophone, and got $150 for it. I gave my parents half of the money that I had gotten. So I had $75 left, and had an extra $35 to spend. I bought the shuffle for $80 and I had $30 left over. So, I wanted to get him the FEAR computer game. Which is $30. I have enough money for it, but my sister & mom are getting mad because they don't think I should be spending that much money on him.
He bought me a $70 pearl necklace and is buying me more, we made our price range $110. Everytime I ask them to take me to the store to buy it, we'll get into a huge argument about spending too much money, but I want to buy it for him. What can I say to defend myself?
Thanks mucho.
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I don't think it's too much. I spent about $200 on my boyfriend of 6 months.
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me and my boyfriend have sex not alot but enough well its the 12th and he was fingering me and i started bleeding bad but i just thought it was my period bc im due the 17th but then later on it stopped. i can feel cramps but theres nothing rly there what could this be? (link)
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Well I've been with my boyfriend sexually for about 5-6 months, and sometimes I still bleed. It's just because he's being a little rough with you, especially if you are really 'tight.' The cramps and stuff will go away. Just ask him to tone it down a litte.
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15/F
I've been shaving my pubic area for about a year now. However, whenever I shave I can't seem to get everything to come out smooth. Whatever I try (different shaving creams, sharper/new razor) I can't seem to get everything. Soo, im thinking about waxing? Going somewhere to get it done is pretty much out of the question for me right now.. but is there anything I can get at a store that people have tried that they know is reliable? Any tips besides waxing are welcome! Thanks in advance :] (link)
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Well I've been shaving for about 4-5 years and it's really hard to get it all perfectly smooth. I use regular bar soup and I shave in different directions (i.e. down and then up and then to the side). Afterwards, just make sure you use lotion.
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ok im not sure about all this but um, what age can you perchase penis enlargement pills
where can you get them
and do they or or are they effective or anything
please answer
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I have to agree with the guy under me. It's not always a good thing to be larger below the belt. My boyfriend is actually too big for me and I'd actually rather him be smaller. Those pills don't work. Don't worry about it too much. When you find the right girl, she won't care how big you are. Plus the 'motion of the ocean' is far more important than the size of the boat.
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well do they or not?just wondering... (link)
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Usually no. I like riding with someone who is a safe driver, although there are always exceptions. My boyfriend drives fairly fast and he drifts a lot, but I know he's a good driver, so I don't worry about it.
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ive been talking to this guy for almost 2 months. we have sex and everything, and im 17 and hes 20, but weve been friends ever since we were little kids. and we wouldnt be able to have a relationship because people would say stuff about it and i dont like that. and now i think im starting to develope feelings for him and i dont want to if we cant be anything.. cause im still in high school, and i dont think he has feelings for me cause he has a history with girls, like cheating and stuff.. and i dont think hes in for that.. and since im younger, i think he just wants to have sex and thats it. like when we have sex as soon as were done, he puts his clothes on and drops me off.. but when i talk to other guys, he gets mad and i dont know if hes acting like he cares.. what do you think? (link)
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He might be getting mad because he's worried that if you start talking to another guy, then you won't want to sleep with him anymore. Why don't you just talk to him about it? Ask if he does have feelings for you. What's the worst he can say? No...? If he does say no, then you can just say goodbye and move on to someone else. The whole 'friends with benefits' relationship starts to go out the window when someone starts having feelings, especially if the other person doesn't feel the same way. If he is ready to just jump out of the bed and leave afterwards, he doesn't seem very caring and you shouldn't be with someone who is going to be like that to you...even if y'all aren't dating.
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What hair straightener would you MOST recommend?
Not just a CHI because everyone has one; I mean a really good quality flat iron.
A Tourmaline? A Metropolis?
And if you do recommend a CHI, what make of it? The turbo? The original?
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I do recommend the Chi. I have two and I'm in love with them! I have both the original and the turbo, but I recommend the original. The turbo works really well, but it's so big that it's harder to get your hair the way you want it.
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Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal? (link)
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If you want to get technical, if you don't have sex then it's not really illegal. Stat. rape can only be accused if y'all have sex, but I would be careful with what your state defines as legal or illegal.
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is it true that a guy can control how fast he cums? ive heard about it but i didnt this it was really possible.. (link)
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I actually asked my boyfriend about this yesterday...out of curiousity. He said a guy can prolong it a little bit, but not for very long.
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13/f
My discharge smells TERRIBLE.
& im embarrassed by it. I take
showers daily, and im sick of
feeling dirty and stuff. Any
remedies that you make AT HOME
[so parents dont find outttt]
& is safe to put down there? (link)
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Get some vinegar and water and use that to cleanse yourself. I'm not quite sure WHY it works, but it does.
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What does it mean when a guy and girl have sex or she performs oral on him and he finishes fast because he says that he is "very excited" && we was gunna do it a second time but he couldnt get hard.
Does that mean anything?
Is there anyway that i can get it hard again?I really didnt do anything, i just sat there soo maybe i shoulda tried. But anyways, what does it mean?
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Some guys don't last very long the first time y'all mess around. Usually he starts to last longer, but sometimes he doesn't. All you can really do to get him hard again is just give him a break. My boyfriend usually needs 30 minutes before we can go again. I usually tease my boyfriend in the meantime. Kissing, nibbling...stuff like that.
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