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Sex
Ive had sex before plenty of times but their are certain things I don't understand about a male.
1. How come they cum so fast sometimes and How come they can only cum once every 15min or so and once they do they have to pull out right away?
2. Why does it take my bf so long to put a condom on and when he does he makes weird faces almost like it hurts or something.
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1. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said the younger that a guy is, the quicker he usually cums. As guys get older, they generally worry more about if the girl has had an orgasm. && Most guys have to pull out right away for two reasons. 1 is that the penis is usually very sensitive after they have an orgasm and 2 is because guys usually lose their erections quickly.
2-He is probably using condoms that are too small for him.
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Its kind of difficult for me to answer #1, without going off on a tangent about genetics and Dawkins.
But anyways, men do not naturally take as long as women, some argue that men only need long enough to reproduce. As the only reason for taking longer to orgasm is for the womans benefit you could argue that from an evolutionary standpoint, the possibility of men prolonging the act doesn't benefit reproduction, and therefore evolution.
30 seconds or 30 minutes, as far as reproduction goes there isn't any difference.
I've also heard some persuasive arguments that circumcision plays a role; those men who are circumsised are more 'exposed' to direct stimulation than those who are not, and that (supposedly) leads to a quicker orgasm. Some men wear multiple condoms in order to lessen the sensation, and there are other products made specifically for the same effect.
Age and experience affects men a great deal. While I don't know your idea of what 'fast' means, more than likely with some effort he can prolong himself.
Why do men 'have to pull out right away'? Well...for most men, once they have an orgasm, the erection fades quickly. Even if the man would WANT to continue, often they cannot. Its just the way it is. And for many men, once they have an orgasm, all libido is lost. Its as though mentally there is a switch that is thrown, and men naturally switch gears from sex, to just about anything else. That doesn't mean men cannot work around it though.
I've heard that some men can have multiple orgasms, and maintain erections, but I myself couldn't tell you any more on that.
As for the condom...does he know how to correctly put one on? Is he trying to use the correct sized condoms? Does he have ANY experience at all? Condoms IMO are pretty damned easy, it isn't rocket science, and they aren't made to be difficult. I couldn't even begin to tell you what his problem is /shrug. Maybe he just started using them, and honestly is inexperienced /shrug.
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